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Look at what was parked outside of the Kinkfest hotel
Time Out NY is doing a Horny issue and Rachel Kramer Bussell needs to interview 5 fetishists who are also New Yorkers. They can be anonymous, but she does need their age, where they live and what general profession they’re in, and she needs them to defend their fetish in about 100 words. She wants REAL New Yorkers defending their fetish of choice. But she wants the kind of fetishes that make other people sneer or laugh or turn away in disgust (granny porn, bush/hairy porn, obesity, enemas, pee or shit, etc.). Her deadline is April 15th so she needs to talk to them by this weekend. Email her at rachelkb@gmail.com
This is a cool animated video promoting safer sex.
We all know about performing Kegel exercises (I like doing them on the subway), but I loved this story about somebody performing finger exercises to be a better lover.
Audacia Ray has a new job. Naked City is a new blog all about sex for Village Voice Media. Check it out!
From Fleshbot: “Sure, it’s not exactly news that Criss plays both sides of the porn field; what’s interesting is that he seems almost as comfortable getting his dick sucked by a dude (or even by Jake Cruise) as he does pounding some porn babe on the hood of a Nissan…” And why is this a surprise? Bisexuals do exist!
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I wrote in my Kinkfest 2008 Report about how I wished I had taken a photo of Bruce’s back after the singletail scene.
Well, somebody must be reading my blog, because Bruce sent me this photo:

He also gave me permission to name him here. Aside from being a great player, Bruce owns Kinky Medical which is a great resource for needles and other medical supplies and toys. He has a quality selection and his prices are really excellent. I buy stuff from him.
Related to that whip scene: John Ireland wrote a few lines about me and the aftermath of that scene in his Kinkfest review.
Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews
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Viviane hosted a tea party for the NYC Sex Bloggers. It is always a fun gathering where we get to go face-to-face with people whom we know intimately through the web.
It’s a pot luck. We had tip-top service from both Sissy Stephanie and Axe.
Sissy Stephanie serving the Florentine appetizers I made
I brought along a new toy I got at
Kinkfest from Whippy Gear. They have no website.
I can wear this as a single band on my wrist and then use it as a bondage toy on someone else. It was only $15, indestructible, dishwasher-safe and very cute. Boymeat took it off after a little while and began to beat Avah with it. So, you can hit people with it, too!
Tags: Event Reviews
Nyobi Khan and Wolf Hudson on tsseduction.com
Rogueboi showed up at
Frolicon and we flirted a bit during the day. He wanted to play, but I wasn’t going to be holding my breath. So, it was a pleasant surprise when he later found me in the dungeon ready to play.
I had him strip down to his briefs and I tied a modified version of the Two Knotty Boys Dragonfly Sleeve that was taught by Andy Weiner at the TES Bondage SIG. This left his chest wide open for me. I punched his chest and played with his nipples. And then I slammed my knee into his groin. “Oof!”
We had a beautiful chemistry going, but out of the corner of my eye, I saw a guy watching my knee hitting Rogueboi’s groin. The guy had this look of horror. I think he was thinking what it would feel like to have me slamming into his balls. The pain would be immense. What the guy did not realize was that Rogueboi is a transman and he’s constructed a bit differently down there.
I was not about to let this delicious opportunity to slip away. I told Rogueboi, “This guy over there is freaking out at how I am slamming into your crotch. He has no idea that you are trans. You should react as if you had balls.”
As I slam into his groin again, Rogueboi cries out loudly, “Ow, my balls!” We continue and more guys are watching aghast. They are not coming towards us but they are staring, many with their mouths agape. And Rogueboi is a real ham. He screams, “Ow, my balls! I don’t think I’ll ever be able to have kids!”
And that is the story of how Rogueboi and I ran a mindfuck in the dungeon at Frolicon. We are such brats!
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On Saturday night Boymeat and I went to the New York boys of Leather auction at The Stonewall Inn. It was a fun night where we got to see a bunch of our leather friends.
Rick Weber, Mr Eagle NYC 2007 and Blackkat, American Leatherman 2005
Blackkat did a great job of auctioneer and something like $2000 was raised, but it was one of those crazy Chinese auctions and we were very confused. Boymeat and I each spent $40 on an Italian dinner cooked by Jake the Barber, bidding against each other and both losing. But Jake loves us and has invited us over to dinner anyway.
A rare appearance by Laura Antoniou and Karen Taylor
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aura is author of The Marketplace series. Karen was wearing her title vest. She is Ms Washington State Leather 1994 and the Director of Advocacy and Training for
SAGE, the beneficiary of the auction.
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Brian Lehrer at WNYC has this group project going on about Nap Strategies. Well, I have my own kinky nap story to tell. It’s sort of a true confession.
I was at an event with a friend. It was a Sunday, I was tired, but we had given up our room so I had nowhere to nap. There we were in the middle of a dungeon party with no place to nap. And then I got this brilliant idea.
“We’re going to do a nap scene and you’ll be the top.”
“What???”
“Don’t worry. I’ll tell you what to do.”
We found a padded bondage table. She laced me into a hood and added restraints and a blankie. I dozed off and she watched over me. After a half hour, she slowly woke me up and I was refreshed and ready to play! And nobody was the wiser. Except, now you know. Don’t tell anybody, okay?
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Kumi performing with Midori
The Live Journal Abuse Team deleted kumimionsterr’s account because of a bullshit accusation which was then even retracted. Please go
here to find out more and sign the electronic petition to have her account reinstated.
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