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Susan The New Girl and AJ Stalkerboy

This was the first time since AJ became my boy that we both went to the same event separately. And it worked brilliantly. AJ was able to assist tomo, the Operations Producer, and I was able to do all my stuff and whore around. But we also got to spend some good quality time together.

AJ with her well-earned stack of stuff.

On Sunday morning I was invited to a private Dyke Uniform Corps (DUC) ceremony where AJ graduated from being a recruit to being a full member. She was presented with a new uniform. She dressed quickly and we went off to brunch. Laura Antonio was the keynote speaker. Poor Hobbit was lambasted; it was baptism by fire.

AJ in her new DUC uniform.

After brunch, we took the cable car down to the Embarcadero Center to buy chocolate at See’s. (I brought that with me to poker the next week because it’s Thor’s favorite chocolate.)

AJ on the cable car. Touristy, but fun!

As I mentioned in this post, I made a mistake at the IMsL Celebrity Auction. I was rushed to start the event early, and in the rush, got a little mixed up, and I forgot to auction off one of the celebrities. That celebrity was Blue, one of my leather family members and someone with whom I am very close. Oops!

I apologized to Blue. I felt bad. We had already planned a play date together. We always play when we are in the same city. I offered to bottom instead of topping as we had earlier agreed.

I haven’t been bottoming much lately. Yes, some erotic spanking, some bondage, some D/s, but no big pain pig scenes. After my breakup with the ex (yes, that ex), I was bottoming a lot and doing some really heavy stuff. I was craving it and needing it. It came from my gut. Lately, not so much. I think I went through a heavy bottoming phase there for a while and that was a good thing for me then. I don’t feel that I need it so much now.

So, I was a bit nervous about bottoming to Blue. I have done some of my heaviest scenes with him. I trusted him. It was just me I wasn’t sure of.

So we found a cross and he flogged me and he made me cry. And then we hung out.

Usually I easily pick out the one hot photo from a set, but for once I just can’t choose. There are so many fabulous shots on this Hogtied shoot with Claire Adams and Sarah Jane Ceylon that I decided to put up four five photos!

Wow!

Wednesday, May 28
TES Bondage SIG presents:
“Little Ropes: Creative Ideas on Using Smaller Size Rope” with Jocasta

What to do with thinner rope? 4mm hemp rope or 1/8″ solid braid nylon rope will be used in a variety of ways. Hair ties, arm gauntlets, hand and foot bondage, cbt, and decorative touches on breast harnesses will all be demonstrated. Combine colors for decorative effects or by just using your imagination to have fun with rope. Jocasta is the owner of Venus Ropes, has an MFA in Painting and loves to play with color.

Doors open at 7:30pm; meeting starts at 8pm
260 W 36th Street 3rd floor, between 7th and 8th Avenues, NYC
$4 for members of TES and other BDSM orgs; $8 for non-members

See you there!

The photo is actually from coming home last night on the Long Island Railroad. Last night’s meeting was fun for everybody. My demo bottom was uncut! Oh! And I got to know a really cool couple a bit better.

Anyway I’m off to Chicago to attend IML. Oy! I haven’t even put up all the IMsL posts yet. I want to get one of those Eeee PC’s so I can write on the road.

I am so excited about the classes for this year’s TES Fest. Boymeat programmed them; Sue and I helped! Here they are (some of the titles will change but you can get the idea).

Bondage Track

1. Defining Moments – GrayDancer
2. Military Style Bondage – GrayDancer
3. Fetish Performance Techniques – GrayDancer
4. Laughter in Rope – Lochai
5. Speed Bondage – Lochai
6. Bondage from the Wilderness – Rae Goldman
7. Popping That Suspension Cherry – Lolita Wolf
8. Predicament Bondage – Julia
9. Bondage Bottoming – Sue
10. House of Bondage – Julia and slave 705
11. Metal Bondage – slave 705
12. Mummification – Michael Horowitz
13. Water Bondage – Lolita with Felice Shays and Sharrin Spector

Impact Track

1. Intro to Singletails – Boomer
2. Singletails 201 – Boomer
3. Long Whips – Boomer
4. Rough Play – tomo
5. Pressure Points – tomo
6. Caning – Sharrin Spector
7. Spanking – Lady Sabrina
8. Flogging 101; If Boymeat can Flog, so can You! – Boymeat

D/s and Relationships Track

1. Assignments for Submissives – Rita Seagrave
2. Arts and Crafts of Rituals – Master Larry and slave barb
3. Flexibility and Sustainability (of M/s relationships) – Master Larry and slave barb
4. 101 Ways to Destroy your M/s relationship – Master Larry and slave barb
5. Conflict Resolution Within a M/s or D/s Framework – tomo
6. Letters to a dominant woman – Morgan Lewis HMQ
7. Core Protocol Construction – Flagg, Ken and David
8. Everything but the Kitchen Sink, Service on the Road – Glenda Rider
9. Does it Come with an Owner’s Manual – How to Drive a boy/girl in Service – Levi Halberstram
10. A is for Alpha – Bootpig
11. Evolution of Service – Bootpig

Edge Play Track

1. You Take My Breath Away – Glenda Rider
2. Humiliation – Sarah Sloane
3. Needle Play – Sarah Sloane
4. Rape Play – Tatsumi
5. Cuckolding – Danielle DV8
6. Sissification and Transgenderation – Danielle DV8
7. Cutting – Sharrin Spector
8. Full Body Play – Boot Pig and Whipmaster Bob
9. Life, Death & Edge – Flagg
10. Face Play- Where Vice Meets Vanity – Bootpig

Sex! Track

1. Fisting for Perverts (Fisting 601) – Felice Shays
2. Cunnilingus from a Dyke’s Mouth – Felice Shays
3. CBT – Julia
4. Enemas – Sarah Sloane

Art, History & Culture Track

1. Erotic Photography for Non-Photographers – Nayland Blake
2. Sensationalized Sex – Susan Wright
3. Spirituality & SM – Brother Leo
4. Cigar Play – Nayland Blake

Potpourri

1. Pony Play – Lochai
2. Waxing/Hair Removal – Janice
3. Erotic Roleplay – Rita Seagrave
4. Playing with Strangers – Rita Seagrave
5. Pain Surfing – Rae Goldman
6. The Terrified Top – Rae Goldman
7. Hankies on the Right – Pick Up Play for Bottoms – Levi Halberstram
8. Kidz Rule! Age Play for Consenting Adults – Lolita Wolf
9. Seduction – Mistress Ardenne
10. Electricity – Shockingly Affordable! – Boymeat
11. Bootblacking – Q, Int’l Ms Bootblack 2008
12. Erotic Wrestling – Technique and Form by Vetiver Lane assisted by the Grapple Den and the Doom Maidens

The International Ms Leather contest was held on Saturday night. The ballroom was packed with people listening to the contestants give speeches, answer pop questions and act out their fantasies. I got a little distracted…

And then I got a bit more distracted. I couldn’t help myself. Really!

In the end, the winners were announced and sashed.

Liza Sibley, 1st runner-up

Tonight I am teaching “CBT in a Nutshell” for Long Island Leather ‘N Roses.

Another thing that I have learned about the upcoming TES Fest is that the host hotel has an open outdoor area where we can be naked and play. And the pool will be open 24 hours and we can be naked there, too. It’s not mentioned on the website but, Wes announced it to everybody at the Spanking meeting on Saturday and then I talked to Jeff, so it must be true.

This video is for my favorite science teacher.

My apologies for being a bit late with the requisite comment on gay marriage.

Oops! I forgot to include the snapshot I took in the new Mr. S store! Duh!

Mr. S Store