September 24th, 2008 · No Comments
This year, Santa Saturday will move to Asbury Park, NJ. Traditionally, the event has been in New Hope.
CineKink NYC is seeking submissions: films and videos, of any length and genre, that explore and celebrate the wide diversity of sexuality: BDSM, leather and fetish, swinging, non-monogamy and polyamory, roleplay and gender bending.
Maymay writes the Top Ten Tips for Wearing a CB3000 long term.
The Bush administration is trying to limit women’s care. The 30 day comment period ends September 25th. Comment here.
Patrick Dempsey spices up his sex life with spanking.
NO!
Tags: Links and Stuff
September 24th, 2008 · No Comments
Wolf Hudson and Christian Owen boundgods.com
TES Bondage Group
presents
“A Bondage Experience”
Join our practical and practiced rope tops as we explore hog-ties,
binding to furniture and point free immobilization.
This is a hands-on opportunity for all tops and bottoms to work with
Dov, Shibari Warrior and Lolita in a informal setting.
Wear comfortable clothing and bring rope!
Wednesday, September 24th
Doors open 7:30pm (no early arrivals please!); meeting begins at 8pm
260 West 36th Street, 3rd floor, NYC
$4 for members of TES and other SM/leather orgs; $8 for others
Tags: Bondage
September 23rd, 2008 · 22 Comments
It was a big fantasy of mine to be mummified, to be totally wrapped up where I could not move at all. Finally on Sunday, my girlfriend and another friend decided to wrap me up. She brought out pallet wrap and saran wrap and vetwrap. “Before we start, I want you to get out your butt plug.” I hurried to the nightstand and brought out my Aneros and presented it to her. She lubed it up and slowly stuck in my ass. It slipped in easily. I love that big full feeling. It almost instantly put me in a submissive headspace. I am a big strong man who could easily overpower these women, but having this toy in my ass made me feel small and willing to obey them. I was ready to be controlled.
The two of them first wrapped my arms and my legs and then they took turns: one wrapping my torso and the other holding me steady so that I would not lose my balance. They wrapped me all the way down to my feet and then wrapped my head leaving only space for my nose and mouth. Then they lowered me onto the bed. That was the scariest part. I am a big guy and I was worried that they would drop me! But they managed to gently position me. And then they put my favorite gag in my mouth. It’s a dildo gag – one side has a little cock tip that goes in my mouth and the other is a big long cock. They strapped it in and made sure I could breathe.
Then they turned up the music and left me alone. (They didn’t go too far – they could still hear me if there was a problem.) I wasn’t scared. I just got into a calm place. I began to squeeze my muscles which got the Aneros pumping in my ass. At the same time I began to suck the dildo gag. I fantasized that I was a sex machine – pumping and sucking. All I existed for was pumping and sucking. It got me very turned on and my cock got very hard.
I totally lost track of time. Eventually, I felt them back in the room. They were cutting open the wrapping to get my cock out. They removed my cock and it was hard and throbbing while I continued pumping and sucking. I felt them slide a condom on my cock and then the two of them climbed on top of me. One of them straddled my cock and the other straddled the dildo gag. I continued to pump and suck while they both used my two cocks. I was a fucking machine being used for their pleasure.
I could hear them, but except for the pumping and sucking, I could not move. They were using me as if I were just an object. It was so exciting, and with a shudder I came. Luckily, they had just finished, too.
Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report · Sex · Toy Reviews
September 21st, 2008 · No Comments
The NYC Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar will feature Audacia Ray, Desiree, Diva, Elizabeth Wood, Jamye Waxman, Lux Alptraum, Mariella, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Riese, Sinclair Sexsmith, Tess Danesi, and Twanna A Hines. Photographed by Stacie Joy, there won’t be graphic nudity; it will be more like burlesque – sexy and fun.
This collaboration is a fundraiser for Sex Work Awareness. I have jumped on the bandwagon by donating $30 to buy a day in the calendar and a copy of the calendar itself. You can do it, too.
Tags: Really Miscellaneous
September 21st, 2008 · No Comments
Madison Young on fuckingmachines.com
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #148? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom
This Week’s Picks
Amazing
““You’re lucky I’m not being mean right now.””
Cum Squirt With Me. Confession #131
“Not much research has been done on the female orgasm in general, much less this seemingly new erotic marvel.”
Jealousy, Pornography and the Boundaries of Blogging
“I search to be a sexually free, independent and satisfied woman without the stigma of slut yet with the positive implications of slut.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
Blue Fantasy, Red Silk Rope
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Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
DVD Review: “Hostel Lupus” (Lupus Pictures)
Lady Sascha Reviews the Light-Of-Love T
Sarge Ties Up Charlotte Vale On Hogtied
VibeReview Fantasy: Decadent Indulgence
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Enigmatic Angel Finds Out Just HOW Kinky She IS
Fetish Fridays: Interview With A Sissy
How Grey Does Your Garden Grow?
Rock Me Sexy Jesus
We don’t plan to stop
Where Do I Fit In The Picture
Why I hire escorts
Why, Oh Why Do I Like Watching My Wife Get Fucked
You Are Beautiful Tonight
Sex & Humor
Overheard In BDSM
BDSM & Fetish
Bonds of Love
Brutal Bastinado And Intense Sadistic BDSM
Don’t Slam The Door
Exceeding My Expectations
Meeting with BS 4
Mistress or Lusty Bitch?
Public Displays of Discipline
Renewing and Reviewing: Rule 5
Sarge Says: The Vale That Is Thin Enough For Me
Sex and Submission Round 2 Report: Mz Berlin, Mark Davis, And Bondage
She works hard for a living…
Sex Work
Satine Phoenix Is A Sinner? Repent Repent Repent!
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Clips and Clamps
Feather Fan HNT
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Sunny Side Up
Sex Advice
Bend over boyfriend how to make him want anal sex
How To Put On A Condom In The Dark
Man-Handled: What Makes the Perfect Blowjob?
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Being Alone
Catalina loves Fucking Mr. F (In My Mind At Least)
Chasseur
Fuck My Mouth
Horny
The Long Kiss Goodnight
Making out in the air part1
One
What She Forgot – Another Friday Night Bedtime Story
While it rains outside…
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September 18th, 2008 · No Comments
Jefferson gives us an update about his child custody battle.
I love being number one on Jocasta’s Top Ten list of Cheap Camp Thrills.
Remember my Ferrari? Hot cars turn women on. Turns me on.
Wow! Even Andrew Sullivan is in the Obama camp now!
I just spent $2.99 and bought Audacia Ray’s new short movie about the Love Machine she sold via Craig’s List. Very funny! See a free preview here.
Tags: Links and Stuff
September 18th, 2008 · 3 Comments
Take a picture of yourself right now
Don’t change your clothes, don’t fix your hair… Just take the picture
Post the picture with no editing
Post these instructions with your picture
Tags: Really Miscellaneous
September 18th, 2008 · No Comments
Finn Damion and Van Darkholme on boundgods.com
Thursday, September 18
Staten Island Kink Munch
Friday, September 19
LSM: “Breath Play” w/ Suzannne SxySadist
DSF: “Tease & Denial” w/ Mistress Coraline
Saturday, September 20
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Back To School”
TES Novice Excursion” hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES “Back to School Party” hosted by Nix and August
NYboL Bar Night (new location!)
Spam party
Sunday, September 21
ONYX-Pearls Northeast meetimg:”Fire, Ice and Wax.”
Kinky Jews: A History of Jews, Sex and Politics on the Lower East Side Walking Tour
Truck Stop
Queer Fetish French Ball
Monday, September 22
Conversio Virium Meeting: “Wrestling for Play” w/ the wrestlers of Grapple Den and Doom Maidens
Tuesday, September 23
TES: “Erotica 101” with Rachel Kramer Bussel
Wednesday, September 24
TES Bondage Group: “A Bondage Experience” w/ Dov, Shibari Warrior and Lolita
Sasha Grey and Riley Shy on whippedass.com
Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates
September 17th, 2008 · 1 Comment
Number one highlight: Thor sent us cookies!
The pink ones are Pretty Pretty Princess Cookies.
Thanks, Thor!
I’m back from Dark Odyssey. Once again, it was an amazing event where I could connect with people, expand my boundaries and grow, and play a lot and have fun.
Oink cabin rocked! We did have to paddle a few people for slamming the door. Even Tristan had to take a paddling. She was a really good sport about it.
Oink cabin had a tote board and prizes were given out to the biggest pigs at camp. Play with another Oink cabin member did not count (but we had a lot of that). We counted 156 scenes with 71 people and the winners were Calvin, Bobby, Dermo, Linda, Delmar, Sir C, Rain, Holly, and Jim Deuder.
I taught 4 classes and I think they all went well. I got some good feedback. Rain bottomed for my caning class. It was our first time playing and we both liked that. I think we’ll play again sometime, especially when we don’t have a whole class there.
I never made it to any other classes. They looked good, but I had too many other opportunities. Plus, with the good weather, I wanted to be outside and play as much as possible.
I played with some novices and as well as with some very experienced people. I learned some new things, got some new skills.
I played with Barbara Carrellas and am pleased to announce her as a new addition to the 100 Divas Project.
The weather held up better than expected. I played outside a lot. I swam in the pool. I never got to the bonfire.
I avoided bottoming to a caning scene. I managed to do that in a very elegant manner.
There was hotness all around. I hooked up with people that I had connected with previously but hadn’t played with. The play was great!
I went on a hiking adventure that became a spiritually journey.
I went on a date.
I woke up Sleeping Beauty.
There was blood in several very different scenes.
Canings! Spankings! A flogging!
I helped a boy earn his gloves.
Trees were important in several scenes.
I was given a wonderful and much needed massage.
When the food sucked, there were grilled cheese sandwiches and that always makes me happy. There was lots of pie. Glenda made a big family barbeque on Saturday night. I snuck off to Waffle House with Mama Bear.
Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews
September 16th, 2008 · No Comments
I am teaching Single Tails at the TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group on Wednesday night (Lady M had to cancel and I am filling in). I am looking for a male demo bottom. Please reply here if you are interested. Comments screened.
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