Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Wolf Hudson and Raina Verene on thetrainingofo.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #151? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
Stolen Time
“The sigh of a kiss that has been too long waiting is a wicked rush.”

Keeping things hot when everything hurts
“While it’s not as fun for him, what I love about those times is how sexy he makes me feel at a time when I probably feel the most worthless as a lover.”

Like lovers do…
“As soon as I got that groove, he felt it. His body started to tense up and tremble.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
At What Point Have You Crossed The Line?

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Sex News, Reviews, & Interviews
Catalina loves Sgt. Major from Backdoor Bondage and Kink.com
Click Foreplay
The End of the Sex Writer?
Lust Objectified: Lelo’s Lily Vibe
Sex News Roundup

Sex Work
20 Questions With Janet Jacme
Busy Busy Busy

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Backward (One)
The Five Twenties – The Fifth Twenty
i Kissed a Girl
The love for guys in uniform
Natalie Gets Laid
A Night to Remember, ft. Mariella and VibeReview
Talk Dirty To Me
Will you suck it?
Your Gorgeous Polish Girlfriend Won’t Pose Just How You Imagined

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Boymeat’s Boots
HNT: Lucky Heather 2
Kelly Zhang (Met Art)
Radka – OJ

Sex & Politics
Do BDSM and McCain Go Together Like Vinegar and Oil?
Invasion

BDSM & Fetish
3 days
Punished in the school gym
Sex Camp 2008: The Petting Zoo!
slut to the Mailbox ….. This Morning’s Task as Accomplished
Someplace I’ve never been, part 2

Sex Advice
Man-Handles: What to Do with His Nipples?
Sadie’s Advice for Craigslist Dating. Confession #151

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Can Group Sex Get Your Man to Clean the House?
Channeling Jessica Rabbit
How I started paying for sex
Present Genitive
Seven Daily Sins: Lust
Trust

• Check out Franklin Deveaux’s Poly Glossary. I still can’t find the word I’m looking for. May havbe to make one up.
• Lumpo tries to make sculptures with balloons and fails miserably. This guy is amazing. Maybe Lumpo can learn from him.
• Award-winning filmmaker Tony Comstock is looking for women age 36-48 wanted for a new photo study. Posing will range, by agreement between model and photographer, from semi-nude and/or semi anonymous to explicit and fully identifiable. Midtown Manhattan.
• Em and Lo give us The 25 Rules of Booty Calls.
• The Connecticut Supreme Court has approved same sex marriage.

• In addition to the NY Times coverage of Poly Pride, there was also an article in the NY Post.

• Kink.com is now hosting Andrew Blake’s Contempt.

• Tilda waits for it. I also love the anticipation.

• And here’s why I use maximum security handcuffs.

• This is I where I live.

• Go see my review of the Njoy Butt Plug over at Edens Fantasys.

Berlin and Derrick Pierce on FuckedandBound.com

Thursday, October 9
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, October 10
New York Leather Weekend
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Keeping the Flame White Hot” w/ Master Jim & Little Amanda

Saturday, October 11
New York Leather Weekend
Desire play party http://www.polypataoproductions.com/parties/desire.php

Sunday, October 12
Brooklyn Leatherfolk munch
New York Leather Weekend

Monday, October 13
CV Meeting: “What Do I Need Anyway? Relationship Negotiation from D/s to Poly” w/Corey Alexander

Tuesday, October 14
TES: “Dealing With Chronic Illness” Panel Discussion moderated by the Countess

Wednesday, October 15
TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group: “ Living with Love & Your Kink Every Day” w/ Morgan Lewis HMQ

I love this photo of me and Nayland Blake at the Sexies. It was shot by Thor, who seems to take the best photos of me.

The first annual Sexies, or more properly, The Sex-Positive Journalism Awards, took place on Saturday night at Splash. It was a lot of fun. The crowd was a mix of mainstream journalists and folks from various alternative sex communities with an extra big showing from the poly community since it was Poly Pride weekend in NYC. Some of the people: Carol Queen, Judith Levine, Susan Wright, Tristan Taormino, Lux Alptraum, Audacia Ray, Reid Mikhalo, John Weis, Claire Cavanaugh of Babeland, Glenda Rider and Belle Du Jour.

Debaucheri reviewed the Sexies and said “The ceremony was headlined by Lolita Wolf who introduced the winners and organizers with tenacious grace in her hardcore ballerina ensemble, topped off, like a cherry on a sundae, by a sparkling silver tiara.“

I won a this print by David Steinberg in the Silent Auction. It is of Veronica-Jason from the Sex and Disability series.