Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Edge

January 8th, 2009 · No Comments

Edge used to be quite the internet presence. His website was renowned and even won him the title of Mr Internet Leather one year. He created the 100 Bloggers project and the remarkable Book of Edge. A few years ago, he pretty much dropped off the net, but I have kept in touch with him. He’s been busy with real life, and loves living in Wilton Manors, the gay ghetto of Ft Lauderdale.

I met up with him Sunday night at the Leatherwerks Holiday party. He was looking very svelte in his leathers. I was impressed by his weight loss and asked him how he did it. He told me he is not the type to go to a gym and he lost 50 pounds over a year by walking 6 or 7 miles a day. I am so inspired!

As serious a leatherman as he is, Edge can be silly at times. Doesn’t he make an appetizing hors d’oeuvre?

After the party, we headed over to the Ramrod.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Jan 8-14

January 8th, 2009 · No Comments

Maitresse Madeline and Natalie Minx on whippedass.com

Thursday, January 8
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday,  January 9
DSF: “Interactive Demo on the Violet Wand” w/ Master Jay
ClubFEM NYC Munch

Saturday,  January 10

Sunday,  January 11
Brooklyn LeatherFolk Munch

Monday, January 12

Tuesday, January 13
TES Membership Meeting (members only)

Wednesday, January 14
TES Novice Group: “Boo-Boos, Blunders, & BDSM” w/ Princess Wendy
GMSMA: “Turn Up The Heat”

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Leaving the Ramrod

January 7th, 2009 · 17 Comments

Son Chris and Daddy Derrick

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Jerry

January 7th, 2009 · No Comments

Jerry with Leslie and Peggy

Jerry with Leslie and Peggy

Jerry is a totally cool guy.  He worked the shift at the port for our boat.  When our ship departure was delayed 6 hours, it was not a big deal to us, but Jerry was stuck at work until we set sail.  We were heroes because we brought him and his work buddies coffee.

On our third day out,  two bottles of champagne were delivered to our stateroom.  From Jerry.  How sweet!

Rockstar parking!

Rockstar parking!

Jerry met us at baggage claim and expedited us past the lines and through customs like we were some kind of big deal.  When we came out of the terminal, Leslie’s Jeep was parked right outside next to the Sheriffs’ cars.  That’s rock star treatment!  Thanks, Jerry!

Officer Jerry

Officer Jerry

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Find Lolita – January 2009 and beyond

January 5th, 2009 · No Comments

Graydancer helps Lochai top Bella Rossi on hogtied.com

January 23-25 – Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching Relationships From Scratch and Mixing Rope Bondage and Sex

January 28 – NYC
TES Bondage SIG: teaching “That Will Shut `Em Up!” w/ Redhead Sue

January 30 – NYC
TES TNG: teaching “Dynamics of Co-Topping” w/ Boymeat

February 13-15 – Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: teaching TBA

February 19 – NYC
TES Relationships SIG: on a panel “Intersection of Love, Sex and SM”

February 20 – NYC
LSM: teaching Single Tails – The Epitome of SM

February 27 – March 1 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage

March 19 – San Francisco, CA
The Citadel: teaching Fantasy Role Play

March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA

IMsL: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching Mummification

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

July 17-19 – Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains: teaching classes TBA

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Nayland Blake’s Margaret Dumont as Madame de Mistival

January 5th, 2009 · No Comments

We got to spend some time with Nayland Blake at his retrospective show, Behavior, at Location One.  Here’s a video of him explaining one piece that is based on the Marquis De Sade’s Philosophy in the Bedroom.

Come to the Location One gallery on Friday, January 9. At 6pm, it will be a restaging of Nayland Blake’s 1998 performance piece “Gorge”. An hour-long performance during which the artist sits shirtless in front of a table full of food from which the audience is free to feed him. And at 8pm, there will be a series of performances by other artists in response to Blake’s work.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Jan 1-7

January 2nd, 2009 · 1 Comment

Derrick Pierce and Riley Shy on fuckedandbound.com

Thursday, January 1
Happy New Year!

Friday, January 2
NYC Munch
DSF: Judgment Night

Saturday, January 3

Sunday, January 4
MAsT MetroNY: “What do you consider essential components of an M/s relationship?”

Monday, January 5

Tuesday, January 6
TES: ” Skin Stapling 101” w/ Slutress

Wednesday, January 7
Pleasure Salon
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “Starting over: finding a new male dominant or submissive “

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Happy New Year!

December 31st, 2008 · No Comments

Yes, that is me at Macy’s with NYC’s New Years Eve ball.  I won’t be spending any time with it tonight,  neither in Times Square, nor on TV.

It’s cold and blustery here in NYC.   Luckily, my plans are totally indoors with a small circle of friends.  As is my usual, I will avoid the countdown, the ball drop, and the toasting and kissing.

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Tiko

December 31st, 2008 · 1 Comment


Peggy and I went scuba diving in Belize.  Tiko was our divemaster.

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Surprising Chris

December 31st, 2008 · No Comments


Son Chris and Daddy Derrick at Lester’s Diner

One of the reasons I was very excited about going to Ft Lauderdale was because I would get to see Son Chris again and be able to spend time with him. He was excited, too. A few months ago Daddy Derrick decided to take care of the planning and surprise him. I agreed to leave it all up to him.

And everybody lied to Chris. He was told that I would not get there until late Sunday. When he wrote to me and told me that the was excited about my visit, I was a nasty bitch. I wrote back that I would try to ft him into my very busy schedule.

We actually got in on Saturday evening. Derrick took Chris to Lester’s Diner and we went too. At first he thought that he was running into Peggy, Leslie and teresa by accident (I was hiding behind the car). But then I jumped out and surprised him.

To add to the surprise, we all stayed at Daddy Derrick’s house for a big slumber party.


Peggy, Derrick, Chris. Leslie and teresa

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