Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Random on 23rd Street

June 20th, 2009 · No Comments

My friend, MetalBondNYC, wrote about the final meeting of GMSMA.

Leather Archives & Museum posted a great little video from IML 2000. I loved IML back in the days when it was at the Congress Hotel.

Mudcub is a great muppet man!

Obama’s plan for gay rights.

Leather Leadership Conference re-elected Warren Williams and Stephanie “Sassy” Lynn to  second terms on the Board. The new incoming Board member is Scott Erickson.  Warren Williams was elected to the position of Board Chair.  Lee Asplund was elected to the position of Vice-Chair.  Stephanie “Sassy” Lynn was elected to the position of Board Secretary, and Jack Rinella of was re-elected to the post of Treasurer.

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Leather Pride Night Tonight!

June 20th, 2009 · No Comments

Tonight is Leather Pride Night!

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Mollena Williams added to 100 Divas

June 20th, 2009 · 14 Comments

The 100 Divas list is a perfect cruising tool.  At Sex 2.0 I told Mollena that she was eligible for the list.  She seemed pretty skeptical about the whole thing until Barbara Carellas, who was sitting with us, began to squee about the spanking I gave her.  It’s good to have references.  Mo emailed me shortly after that to make a date for Shibaricon.

Cut to: Saturday night at Shibaricon, the most crowded night of the weekend.  We wandered around looking for a spot to play.  I had an idea about what I wanted to do, but could be flexible depending on what piece of equipment we could obtain.  The only piece not in use in the dungeon was a hanging cage.  We asked a DM if the cage could be removed so that we could use the frame and they very willingly took care of our request.

I took my time tying Mollena.  We weren’t in a rush.  I wanted to savor her while I lay the ropes on her luscious body.  I tied a modified chest harness and tied it to the frame. I bent her over so that she was not too steady on her feet.  I began to spank her.  Slowly and lightly at first.  I knew she liked a warm-up.  I ramped up bit by bit as I could feel her body respond.  She moaned as the spanks became more intense.  It was a good sound.

After I while, I began slamming my whole body into her butt.  I held onto the rope and worked up a violent frenzy.  I was happy that the frame was strong and could take it.  Mo could also take it.  That rocking- slamming motion was what she needed to come.  And she gushed all over my petticoat.

Mo was a bit embarrassed about mussing my frock, but it was no big deal.  It dried quickly and it is handwashable.  She provided me with the best aftercare of all: a gourmet chocolate truffle!

You can see Mollena’s post about the weekend here.

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One Day to Leather Pride Night!

June 19th, 2009 · No Comments

Leather Pride Night is this Saturday night.  We still need some raffle ticket sellers and other assorted volunteers.  Contact us if you want in on the action!

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2 Days until Leather Pride Night!

June 18th, 2009 · No Comments

I love this photo but I hate how fat I am in it.  BUT I’ve lost 26 pounds since last year’s Leather  Pride Night.  Now, I can fit into my chaps again!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: June 18-24

June 17th, 2009 · No Comments

Mr. Pete, Benjamin Brat, Mark Davis, Randy Spears,
Cherry Torn and Alan Stafford on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, June 18
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, June 19
DSF: “The Art of Dirty Soles” w/ David M
LSM: “Spanking Techniques from Sensual to Discipline” with Lady Sabrina
Switch Party

Saturday, June 20
Brooklyn Leather Munch
Instigate: “Explore Your G-Spot” with Ignacio Rivera
Leather Pride Night
TES Midsummer Night’s LPN After Party
Stimulate
SPAM

Sunday, June 21
Folsom Street East
Lesbian Sex Mafia Women and Trans* Play Party
New York Bondage Club

Monday, June 22

Tuesday, June 23
TES: “The 30-40 Wasteland”: A Panel Discussion

Wednesday, June 24
TES TNG Hosts: TNG Summer Soiree

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3 Days to Leather Pride Night!

June 17th, 2009 · No Comments

Some of the luminaries expected at Leather Pride Night this year:

Cleve Jones, prominent gay activist
Gary Iriza, International Mr. Leather 2008
Stephane Donaldon, Mr. International Rubber 2009
Jake Keary, Mr Eagle New York 2009
Cowboi Jen, Mid-Atlantic Leatherwoman 2009
Jace Woodruff, Mr. New York Leather 2008
John Nowack, Mr. NJ Leather 2009
Tim Sharkey, Mr. Boston Leather 2009
Jackie Thompson, Ms. Capital Pride Leather 2009
Matt Bamford, Mr. Capital Pride Leather 2009
B, Imperial Court of NY, Empress XXI

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Thanks to my Blog Sponsors

June 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Amber Keen on hogtied.com

Since many of the readers of Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections get my posts through LJ, a feed reader or via email subscription, I would like to thank this month’s sponsors:

IPG Counseling

Purple Passion/DV8

SexToy.com

Kink-Ready Apt For Sale

If you’re interested in sponsoring Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections, contact me.

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4 Days to Leather Pride Night!

June 16th, 2009 · No Comments

Leather Pride Night

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Happy Volunteers at Leather Pride Night

June 15th, 2009 · No Comments

Don’t Glenda and Sue look happy?  They volunteered at Leather Pride Night last year!  You can do it this year!

Below is a list of volunteer positions that need to be filled for Leather Pride Night. Most volunteer slots are only one hour which is a short time for a four hour event. Volunteering enhances your experience of LPN ands gives you a chance to be part of the action and to meet people. In addition, this year, all volunteers will receive an LPN 2009 Volunteer cloisonne pin. These pins are earned, not sold. A real status symbol!

Make it happen!  Be a part of it!

Load in Splash with Sigrid, Tip et al, 1-2:30pm
1 person

Location Set-up with Grant, 1- 3pm
2 people

Auction Setup with Cubby, 2-6pm
1 person

Handling auction items at Table with Cubby
6:45-8:30  1 people

Silent Auction with JiffE
9-10  3 people

Raffle Ticket Sales with Sal
6-7:30 3 people
7:30-8:30  1 person
8:30-9:30 6 people

Security with Jake
5:30-7pm   2 people
7-8pm  3 people
8-9pm   1 person
9-10pm  4 people

The 26th Annual Leather Pride Night Auction will take place on Saturday, June 20th, 2009. This year the festivities will be at Splash! at 50 W. 17th Street. SPLASH!’s doors will open for LPN at 6:00 PM, and the auction will run from 7 PM until 10:00 PM.

Leather Pride Night is sponsored by nine NYC BDSM-leather- fetish organizations: Gay Male S/M Activists, Iron Guard BC, Lesbian Sex Mafia, MAsT Metro NY, MetroBearsNY, New York boys of Leather, OnyxNY, Pariah’s MC, The Eulenspiegel Society and many committed individuals. We’re also joined by the Imperial Court of NY.

This year, Leather Pride Night will donate the 2009 Auction proceeds to: Carmen’s Place, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, Callen-Lorde Community Health Center, By The Grace of George The Pitbull Angel Fund, and as is customary, an annual donation to Heritage of Pride, the producer of New York’s annual Pride March.

Please contact Lolita, the LPN Volunteer Coordinator.

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