Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Model: Madeline
Rigger: Lolita
Fanboy: Jefferson

Jefferson opened the door and I got a glimpse of Madeline standing there in a robe with a shy smile on her face. Jefferson kissed me long and deep. I returned his ardor, but I was actually thinking about how cute Madeline was. After the kiss, I turned to her and enveloped her in a big bear hug. “Hi!”

So, not only is Jefferson an amazing fucker, and not only does he make me laugh, but he is also a good cook. And, on top of all that, he sets me up to play with his girlfriend. All good. Great, in fact.

We eat fried chicken and then we follow Madeline to the bedroom, me with my rope bag and Jefferson with his camera. I kiss her, undress her and start teasing her with the rope. Of course, I have brought some of Monk’s rope, too, since she has such a crush on him. And I begin to slowly lay rope on her. Madeline just talks and talks while I do this. She is just babbling away.

“Jefferson, why is she talking so much?”
“She’s nervous.”

Hmm… I figure I should let her work through this. I tie a chest harness and she continues babbling. I tie her wrists behind her back and she babbles a bit less. I tie her ankles together and force her in to a bow and she finally shuts up.

Meanwhile Jefferson is taking lots of pics. He’s hopping around at every angle. I mug a bit for the camera but mainly I ignore him and concentrate on her.

I gently lay her on her back which totally exposes her cunt. She is helplessly bound. I fuck her with my fingers. And then I add a vibrator to work her clit, too. This is working for her. And finally, we finish and I begin to take her out of the ropes, leaving the chest harness on. We cuddle and I hold her close to me.

Madeline recovers and goes down on Jefferson.
When he’s good and hard, she says, “Lolita, do you want to fuck Jefferson?”
“Oh, no, you go ahead. You’re the one who got him hard.”
“Well, I did it for you.”

Wow, that was so sweet. I can’t turn that down. So, we fuck, and after it’s over, there is a huge wet spot on the bed.

Madeline makes it quite clear that she won’t be sleeping in the wet spot. I see that there is a limit to her hospitality.

I don’t always write up all my adventures. Maybe it’s because I am having more adventures. Luckily, there are other people that document some of these things. Recently Viviane hosted another Tea Party and she hosted a photo here. And Selina Fire wrote about the party complete with spanking here.

I’m giving Don Quixote rope lessons.
I tie him and show him and then he tries it on me.
Back and forth until I am tied, and he leads me in the bedroom.
“Hoisted by your own petard,” he chuckles.
I am thrown on the bed and tied to a ring.
He spanks me, pinches me and tickles me. I squirm.
And then he strips me.

“Oh, nooooooo…..” It is not a real protest, but the captured princess is being taken against her will.
“It’s your own fault, Princess.”
“Noooo, it’s not….” I always get blamed no matter what.

He shoves his fingers in my cunt and is surprised and pleased with how wet I am.
Well, captured tormented princess is hot stuff for me.
He fucks me and spanks me.

“It’s your fault that you are so beautiful.”
“Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder,” I retort.
He snorts, but has nothing to say to that.
So he sticks his cock in my mouth.
End of discussion.

Earlier this week, we headed over to Candida Royalle’s release party. Not that kind of release; it was the release of her new DVD, Under The Covers. Not my usual milieu but there’s a few significant points I want to mention.

– This porn is made by a woman. Yay! More power to women. And maybe women-made porn won’t be as stupid as other porn.

– This porn is aimed at the couples market. While I think porn is good for solo wanking (and I do that myself), porn to inspire two or more people to get it on is really good

– Candida took on an apprentice producer/co-writer, Jamye Waxman. Hurray for mentorship!

– This porn was made in NYC. Too much of the porn biz has moved out west.

– There was an open bar. Better yet there was a really cute bartender that all my friends were hot and heavy for. I won’t mention who got silly drunk and climbed up on the bar to flirt. Thankfully she was wearing pants and not a skirt.

– We all got goody bags with a copy of the DVD, condoms, lube, batteries and a waterproof vibrator. I have not yet viewed the DVD but, oh, I love that new little vibrator.

Lately my favorite piece of clothing is a big bulky white sweater. It’s a bit unorthodox for me who wears almost nothing but black. But I am totally grooving on it. It goes with my skin color. It’s impractical which makes it a bit edgy. People don’t wear much white, at least here in NYC. And nobody expects it of me.

Tonight I wore it to the opening of the Kink exhibit at the Museum of Sex. I think I was the anti-fetish.

So, Boymeat found my old AOL website. Cool!
Some really good stuff there.

Jefferson told me that Madeline was into rope bondage. “She really likes hemp.” I thought that was interesting. So, I sent her an email asking what experience she had with hemp.

She responded that she did not really have much experience but that she had a huge crush on Monk. I thought that was funny. And then, not so much to one-up her, but more to tease her, I told her that I had met Monk and that he had tied me up at BR in the vendor area.

I think I like teasing Madeline. When Jefferson put up his Wax post, Madeline responded, “Man, I was just thinking about this story yesterday. I was thinking how awesome it would be if Lolita would be open to, you know, light me up on the 8th night of Chanukah.” I then slapped up my Hanukkah post. Poor girl. It left her sobbing in her latkes.

I walked into the house. There were lots of people I knew and some new faces, too. The host welcomed me, “There’s one rule,” he said.

I like rules. Rules allow me to know what is expected of me.

“Everybody has to draw a self-portrait in the guest book before they leave.”

Oh, no, that was just terrifying to me. Making art is intimidating.

I didn’t think about it. I just enjoyed the party and the people who were there.

But then we got to the point where I had to deal with it. I sat down and drew. And it looked like me! Me, with a smirk on my face. I was really pleased with how it came out.

I think sometimes I just psyche myself out of doing things.

When I was in High School, my boyfriend bought me a necklace with a Star of David. Pretty. Florentine finish. I had never had anything like that before. When my mother saw it, she freaked out and did not want me to wear it. “You don’t want everyone to know that you’re Jewish.” She wanted me to pass, to blend in, to be an American. I don’t think my mother was a self-hating Jew. Paranoid maybe. But, it’s an understandable reaction for someone who grew up in Nazi Germany and was forced to wear a yellow star sewn onto her clothing.

Feb 9 – Poughkeepsie, NY
Hudson Valley D/s: teaching “Building Trust”

Mar 16-18 – Chicago, IL
Sinsations in Leather: teaching “Age Play for Consenting Adults” and “That’ll Shut Them Up!”

April 5-8 – San Francisco, CA
International Ms Leather: teaching “How To Play With Needles, participation on the Age Play panel, hosting a session in the Bondage Lounge and emceeing Celebrity Auction

April 17 – Washington, DC
Black Rose: teaching “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

May 4-6 – Cleveland, OH
Smartfest: teaching “How To Be A Greedy Pig” and “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

May 19 – Boston, MA
MOB: teaching TBA

June 16 – New York City
Leather Pride Night: I am coordinating volunteers

June 17 – NYC
Folsom Street East

June 20-25 – Northeaster MD
Leather Retreat: I am coordinating programming

July 20-22 – Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains 10th Anniversary: I am teaching “CBT in a Nutshell” and “The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-Eyed Monster”

Sept 12-17 – Northeastern MD
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp

October 12-14 Fayetteville, NC
NCEdge: teaching “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

Feb 15-17, 2008 – Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire