Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Sneaking around

August 8th, 2007 · No Comments

The Princess stood on her tippy toes as she kissed the maintenance man. She knew it was wrong for her to be kissing a lowly worker, but she did not want to stop. She liked the way he kissed and she like the way he smelled and she liked how big he was.

Her body melted into him and she forgot about everything else. Yet she knew her father, the King, would be very disappointed if he found out. He would sigh and lecture her about how she needed to find someone worthy of her. But nothing could be worse than her mother finding out. The Queen would waste no time with sighs and lectures. She would grab the Princess by the hair and drag her to her chambers and lock her up forever.

The Princess decided that she would continue to sneak around with the maintenance man. She would be careful and no one would find out.

PS. If you are reading this, please don’t tell anybody. Thanks!

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"Vrij Veilig" is Dutch for "Safe Sex"

August 7th, 2007 · No Comments

Floating ‘condom’ promotes safe sex

People are reading that Harry Potter book pretty quickly. The library has 548 copies and I am now moved up to 357 on the waiting list.

Boymeat is teaching Caning at TES tonight (Tuesday).

Remember that “I’m a cow” video? Are all cows bottoms?


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My past (pt 4)

August 7th, 2007 · No Comments

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Find Lolita – August 2007 and beyond

August 6th, 2007 · No Comments

August 24-26 – Edison, NJ
The Floating World: I am teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control, Hot Wax To The Max, and Finding Your Way In The Scene

Sept 12-17 – Northeastern MD
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: I am teaching The Greedy Pig Loves Threesomes, Power Flogging, The ABC’s of BDSM and King Tut’s Kink: Mummification!

Sept 22 – Trenton, NJ
KFE: teaching The Greedy Pig Battles the Green-eyed Monster

September 28-30 – San Jose, CA
Folsom Fringe: teaching “CBT n a Nutshell” with Michael Blue and “The Greedy Pig Battles The Green-Eyed Monster” plus doing the keynote speech with Boymeat

October 12-14 Fayetteville, NC
NCEdge: teaching “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

November 18 Baltimore, MD
Friends of Play House: teaching “Suspension Bondage”

May 1-5, 2008 – San Francisco, IL
International Ms Leather Weekend

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Heel!

August 6th, 2007 · No Comments

On Friday night, I got to the dungeon late. The meet & greet had ended around 9pm and then dinner went late. I had a lobster and it was good.

Anyway, I walked in and my girlfriend found me immediately. I hugged her.
“Ow! I just played with Mark and he beat the crap out of me. I am sore all over.”

Oh, Mark. He is one of the hottest players in the country. A switch who can dish it out *and* he take it.
“Oh, Mark!”
“He was nasty to me!”

I grabbed her butt.
“Ow, that hurts, too!”
I laughed and poked her thighs.
“Ow!”
“You really are a mess. What did he leave for me?”
“My back.”

Hmmm. Her body was a regular paint by numbers canvas that was almost totally filled with black and blue. I grabbed her upper arm, dug in with my fingers and forced her to the floor. I then grabbed her hair and pulled her up on all fours beside me. “Let’s see how well you heel.”

I led her around the dungeon and stopped and looked at scenes. I controlled her as she moved on all fours. We were in the carpeted dungeon. She was wearing over-the-knee leather boots and in front she was on her knuckles. She regularly does pushups on her knuckles so this was not too terrible for her. Well, yes, it was. Every movement she made when she walked was painful. Crawling on the floor was worse. Her muscles were very sore.

This was so hot for me. Especially with her. It was like I had a sleek, muscular guard dog with me. Like a well-trained Doberman Pinscher at my side. I had to keep that image to myself, because my girlfriend hates puppy play, pony play, any kind of role play.

As if she read my mind, she said, “Honk!”
I spun my head and looked at her.
“I’m not a dog. I’m a goose. Honk!”
I pulled her tighter, and said, “You’ve got species dysphoria. Huh!”

I kept walking and pulled her hair to make sure she heeled.

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I’m a Rockin’ Girl Blogger!

August 6th, 2007 · 1 Comment


Gloria Brame has named me as a Rocking Girl Blogger!
I am so honored! Thanks, Gloria!

And now I get to name five Rocking Girl Bloggers myself! Here goes:

Viviane of The Sex Carnival. She’s a friend and my blog mommy. Her mega-site is the place to read the latest news on all things sex.

Mistress Matisse. She’s kinky, poly, and a switch. A prodom who has a full life. She’s funny and interesting.

Engrailed. She mixes hot BDSM tales together with real stories of her life with Love.

Lux Nightmare’s Boinkology. Very upbeat. Very opinionated. Smart and fun.

Mimi of Sexagenarian and The City. A New Yorker who’s a bit older than the rest of us. She’s not kinky or poly but I love reading her stories of looking for true love on the internet.

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Nothing but blue skies from now on

August 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

Don Quixote went to Target and bought sheets. “New sheets for the Princess.” He ripped open the packaging and I helped him put them on the bed.

The sheets are sky blue. Not like a Titian sky blue or a Maxfield Parrish sky blue. More like a plain old sunny day in the country sky blue. The kind of sky blue that looks most blue when accompanied by some fluffy cumulus clouds.

The sheets do not have a high thread count. They are proletariat sheets. Hard working. They absorb copious amounts of fluid. Every kind of fluid imaginable. Pussy juice, semen,anal juice, g-spot juice, lube and spilled coffee. We really know how to mess up the sheets.

A month later, I visit and the sheets are in the dryer. Clean fresh sheets. I help him put them on the bed. And then later we proceed to mess up the sheets again.

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Sugasm #90

August 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #91? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Fat can be sexy
“I understand what it’s like to be surrounded by images that reinforce that skinny is the ONLY way to achieve sexiness.”

Are Women Visual Critters, Too?
“With the invention of the internet, however, I think that it gets even more complicated.”

Marriage, Monogamy, and All that Jazz
“My chosen lifestyle and relationship type wasn’t making any sense to the other women.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
S Magazine

Editor’s Choice
Supply and Demand

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Am I Missing Anything, Really?
Catalina loves the Museu de l’ Erotica
Cheating Men
“How much confession can one read before becoming uncomfortably numb?”
I’m a Woman Man: Episode 2 – Faces
Lulu Forever
Playground positions
So many rabbits…

BDSM & Fetish
Car Wheels on a Gravel Road
Dirty words
Fetish Film – English Punishment Series (Spanking, Caning)
The Flesh Remembers
Fun with a subby boy
Luring the Guardian Angel
The Percentage Game
Sukebe Otaku: Happy Tears, Revisited
Teeth and claws and cock and cunt
Thunder: Service With A Smile
The Violent Kiss
Wake up bitch…
Worshipping post-erior – leaving my mark
You suck!

Sex News & Reviews
Lelo Nea Mini Vibrator Review
Sex In The Virtual World – Computer Games

Sex Humor
How To Get His Attention

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Amy of 24.7 in the Kitchen
Drum Solo (video)
Half-Nekkid Exhibitionist
Ivett

Sex Work
Busy Princess Play Day

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Distracted by Her shoes
Endangered
I Want
No reservations, part 1
An old friend
Pink
Sleeping Beauty…
Supply and Demand
That Kiss
Torrential
We were in heat

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Candygram

July 26th, 2007 · 2 Comments

The Physical Impossibility of Death in the Mind of Someone Living
Damien Hirst

When Lee “Bridgett” Harrington canceled his trip to NYC, it left the TES Bondage SIG high and dry. The topic was “Rope Sex – Bondage for Lovemaking and More.” Rather than scramble for a last minute replacement, I decided to keep the rope bondage for sex topic and present it myself. I do like a challenge. I lucked out and got Kate to volunteer as my demo bunny. I think the class went pretty well. It’s something I should probably just polish up and add to my class list!

I am heading down to DC today. Spending some time with The Bitch of Dupont Circle and then teaching at the Master/slave Conference. Lexi will be in service to me for the weekend.

Oh, here’s some fun do-it-yourself online bondage!
[Hat tip: bondageblog.com]

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You suck!

July 26th, 2007 · 4 Comments

“Are you interested in giving Boymeat a blowjob?”

We were sitting at a table just socializing when I asked this question. Her eyes widened and her jaw dropped.
“I am tying him up tonight and I want someone to blow him while he’s all tied up.”
“You mean in the dungeon? In public?”
“Yes. That would be edge play for you. But you like edge play.”

She panicked a bit. I could see that she did not want to say no, but, for her, saying yes would be very scary.
“We’ll see.” She was noncommittal. I did not pursue it further.

She found us later that night passing through the lobby on our way to the dungeon. She was totally psyched up to participate in our scene. Sometimes you just have to plant a seed, back off and let it come to you.

We found a spot and I blindfolded Boymeat with hot pink vetwrap. And then I began to tie him with ¼” hot pink rope. It was an intricate tie. Pretty and symmetrical. He became completely immobilized against a wooden ladder-type structure.

I invited her over.
“Aren’t you going to free his hands?”
“No! Why would I do that?”
“So he can guide me.”
“No. You ought to know how to give a blow job.”

And she did.

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