Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Thursday, November 15
S.I.K. (Staten Island Kink) Munch
Leather Town Hall Meeting

Friday, November 16
LSM: “The Joys of Duct Tape” w/ Glenda Rider (open to all genders)
The Apple Munch
DSF: “The World of Violet Wands w/ Joseph”

Saturday, November 17
GMSMA Leatherfest
Brooklyn Leather Munch
TES Spanking Group: “Spanking Fantasies” w/ Mistress Mata
TES Novice Excursion” hosted by Lady D & Bo:
TES “Fetish Fashion Show” w/ The Baroness
TES “Latex Party” hosted by The Baroness and Jeff
New York boys of Leather: GUMMI
SPAM Party

Sunday, November 18
LSM: “Women In Prison” Play Party
Kinky Jews Trivia Night

Monday, November 19
Conversio Virium Special Event: “Erotic Breathwork” w/ Barbara Carrellas

Tuesday, November 20
TES: “Leather Contests… More than Just Stand and Pose”

Wednesday, November 21
TES Singles Group: “Naughty and Nice Ways to Enhance Your Playtime”
Polyamorous NYC: “Exploring Intimacy in Poly Relationships” w/ Kyle Applegate

I love my Bullet Vibrator. Actually I should say Bullet Vibrators because I have three of them! I always keep one in each of my toybags. For such a little vibrator (2 1/4 long, 5/8 in diameter), it is very powerful. Not nearly as powerful as a plug-in type of vibrator like an Hitachi, but you really get your bang for the buck here. And I love that this vibe is wireless and turns on and off with just a push of the little button.

These vibrators are only $8. And, because they are very small and weigh close to nothing, it is easy to just toss one into every toybag or purse. I love using them when I have someone tied up with hemp rope. The vibrations really travel over all the hemp and set the ropes buzzing. I also like to tuck the vibe next to a woman’s clit and watch her squirm in the rope. It is also cool to open a hole into a mummification and drop the bullet into someone’s crotch. They are so constricted that they want to squirm but can’t! I also like wrapping a cock up with vetwrap or Bondage Tape and slipping the Bullet inside. The vibrations drive them crazy.

The bullet is apparently waterproof but I have not tried using it in water. I usually slip it inside a latex glove (or nitrile for those with latex allergies). Putting it inside a glove keeps it clean so that I can use it with a variety of partners and avoid tedious cleanup. I especially like to avoid cleanup after putting it up somebody’s butt (or my own)! Using it with a glove allows me some control so that it does not get lost up inside someone, too.

I also carry extra batteries with me at all times. It really sucks when you run out of juice in the middle of a scene. The Bullet takes three little LR44 watch batteries. Stockroom sells replacement batteries – a pack of three costs $2.75. While this is a much better price than Radio Shack, which charges a crazy $4.99 each, I recently bought 100 LR44 batteries for $20 online at Batteries and Butter. Yes, I do like this toy enough to buy three of them plus 100 batteries to go with!

At the last Bondage SIG meeting, we discussed how nice 4 strand rope was. Twisted Monk just recently prepped and dyed some of this special order for somebody’s handfasting. It is not something that he usually carries. It’s exotic and expensive. He’s auctioning it off on eBay.

And speaking of Twisted Monk, I want an Aircraft Aluminum Suspension Ring.

One of the podcasts I like to listen to is Polyamory Weely. They’ve made a little promotional video, but don’t click on it unless you like boobies!

Update: He found the girl.

I figure people who read me might have an unusual fetish. If so, Rachel Kramer Bussel is looking to do a short interview.

The Sexies aka The Sex-Positive Journalism Awards is seeking submissions. Whom would like to nominate?

Here are the details for my Rope Suspension class at Play House.

Oops! I goofed. On Monday I posted that Miller Beer caved in to the Catholic League and withdrew their support to Folsom Street Fair. No, Miller just apologized and is still sponsoring the fair.

The early reviews are in! From Thor: “Everything was delicious, especially Lolita’s roast pork loin…” and from Boymeat: “…scrumptious pork…”

This may just be a great incentive for cleaning. Chore Wars.

Miller Beer caves in to the Catholic League and withdraws as Folsom Street Fair sponsor. See story here.

Are you this girl?

Look at all these hypocrites!