Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Me and Lenny at Barbara Nitke’s Smooth Operator show, 2010 I just heard that Lenny Waller passed away. I met Lenny in the late 80’s when he was manager of The Vault in NYC.  Later he managed Hellfire. He had  served on the board of TES for a while, but that was before my time. […]

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This week I will be teaching two classes in NYC Tuesday March 29 Single Tails – The Epitome of SM This sexy activity can range from delicate to cruel. Lolita will speak about using a whip for play, different types of whips, the physics of whip motion, buying a whip and the cleaning and caring […]

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I trained the dominatrix in this play how to crack a whip. Click on the photo for information on the show.

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Q. What are good bondage-for-sex positions to tie up a man for classic penis/vagina sex? I mean apart from the spread eagle. A. Tie him to a chair! Like this:   March is Question Month. You can ask your question here.

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The TES Bondage SIG presents S/M at the Movies: Knotty Cinema and Unrestrained Restraints! Thor Stockman returns with a new installment of his popular S/M AT THE MOVIES film clips programs, this one featuring the best (and worst) of bondage scenes and situations in Hollywood and foreign cinema, ranging from highly proficient and erotic Japanese-style […]

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Q.  What level of unsolicited physical contact are you comfortable with? A.  My close friends and I usually hug and/or kiss hello and good-bye and that’s good. Beyond that, we usually ask if its okay to touch. Although sometimes we get flirty and more physical. This works because we can read each other. Other than […]

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Fleshbot.com and PuckerUp.com invite you to celebrate the release of ROUGH SEX 3: ADRIANNA’S DANGEROUS MIND Tuesday, March 22, 7-10 pm Fontana’s, 105 Eldridge Street, NYC Free and Open to All Celebrate the release of this much-anticipated film which represents a collaboration like no other—between feminist pornographer Tristan Taormino and adult superstar Adrianna Nicole. Adrianna […]

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Q.  What is the best way to store lots of dildos and vibrators of various sizes in limited space? I am trying to figure out if there is a sort of card catalogue thingie so I can put them all in a drawer? Help! 🙂 A.  First of all, go through your collection and decide […]

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Thursday March 17 at Purple Passion Interrogations & Military Scenes Friday March 18 at Lesbian Sex Mafia Hands-On Rope Body Harness Workshop Saturday thru Sunday March 18-20 Rope Dojo – sold out but there is a waiting list

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