Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

The Leather Archives & Museum (LA&M) is committed to collecting, preserving and providing access to the contributions, experiences, and histories of women in leather, BDSM, fetish, and related lifestyles. The Women’s Leather History Project (WLHP) represents the LA&M’s ongoing commitment to making the diverse voices of women in leather visible and heard. The WLHP will [...]

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Don Quixote and I ate dinner at the Empire Diner with an old friend of his. I had the grilled salmon, he had the chili and the friend had guacamole. The waiter had the same snotty attitude that most Empire Diner waiters throughout time seem to have. But the food was good and the conversation [...]

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Thursday, January 28 Alphabet Soup Friday, January 29 TES-TNG: “Rope Share” TES College Night Toga Party Paradise Lost Saturday,  January 30 Rope Share Submit Sunday,  January 31 New York Bondage Club NYC TNG Party Night Suspension party Monday,  February 1 One of the Most Important Tests You’ll Ever Take CV: Erotic Writing as a Tool [...]

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Yes, those are bells sewn onto my chest. I was at Southwest Leather Conference this past weekend and participated in the Dance of Souls, where some people have bells and ornaments sutured onto their bodies and others have hooks embedded which are then pulled. There is a group of about seven drummers who contribute to [...]

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Fetish Ball Saturday January 30 9pm DJ Bill Coleman Go-Go Torez $10/$6 (Center Members/Before 10pm) Fetish attire $6 all night! 208 West 13th Street 212-620-7310 www.gaycenter.org Dance:208’s Fetish Ball returns with the rockin’ nasty beats of DJ Bill Coleman (Eagle, Sugarland, G Lounge, Bootleg, The F Word) and remixer of everyone from Cazwell, Colton Ford, [...]

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The Lust Chronicles Anthology is edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel and features one of my stories. Now, in addition to being available as an audio book and an ebook, you can get it as a regular paperback book. “Rachel Kramer Bussel has created her own type of erotica. An earthy, true-to-life style that draws her [...]

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Thursday, January 21 Staten Island Kink Munch Friday, January 22 DSF: “BDSM Party and the Speed Dating Game” Saturday, January 23 Rope Share Paddles Black Party Sunday, January 24 New York Bondage Club Monday, January 25 CV: “I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Hurt Me” w/ Mistress Coraline Tuesday, January 26 TES: “TES Hands On [...]

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January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ Southwest Leather Conference: teaching “The Dynamics of Co-Topping“ and “How To Be A Greedy Pig” January 28 – online class Power Play Academy: teaching: “How to be a Greedy  Pig–Let Me Count the Ways” January 29 – NYC TES TNG Rope Share: teaching rope Feb 5-6, Columbus, OH Winter Wickedness: [...]

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The board and judges of the Sex-Positive Journalism Awards are proud to announce the winners of the 2009 Sexies. Selected from about 100 entries (not counting multiple nominations of the same piece!) submitted by both writers and readers, the winning entries cover subjects from teen pregnancy to conjugal visits, vaginal plastic surgery to prudish responses [...]

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You can hear Axe interview me on his podcast.  We talk about a lot of things.  Very fun!

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