Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

by Gloria Brame Tonight, I want to talk to you about the past, the present and the future. I’ll start in the 1980s, because that’s when I started going to SM clubs and events. To people of my generation, leathersex and sadomasochism were forbidden, hidden, radical activities. The guilt and shame about it were crushing. […]

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Sex 2.0 is an “unconference” that will take place May 9th at a hotel in Silver Spring, MD near Washington, DC. The event will focus on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality. How is social media enabling people to learn, grow, and connect sexually? How is sexual expression tied to social activism? Does […]

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Calico on devicebondage.com Matt Williams is the new director of DeviceBondage.com.  He brings a unique style to this hardcore hardware site and is making a few exciting changes: three shorter updates a week younger, hotter girls a fat price-cut to ease the burden on your already weeping wallet

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Maestro and Kristine on thetrainingofo.com Thursday, April 2 The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue www.Baroness.com Friday, April 3 DSF: “The Master slave Playground” w/ Master Larry & slave barb NYC Munch Saturday, April 4 ClubFEM NYC Party SWITCH One Year Anniversary Party Sunday, April 5 LSM Member Safety and Orientation MAsT Metro NY: “Performance Review and Feedback […]

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Rita Seagrave on hogtied.com The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #163? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing directly to radicalvixenatgmaildotcom This Week’s Picks Justify My Love “All I could think […]

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If you were a shoe…what type of shoe would you be…and why…bonus question…describe the outfit worn with you? What: A hot pink glitter Mary Jane platform sneaker. Why: Flashy and cute, yet active and comfortable, and goes anywhere What outfit: Honey, those shoes go with everything. March was Question Month, but I still have a […]

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The Lesbian Lifestyle blog is running a contest for your best Whoops moment.  They’re giving away an Onye vibrator.  There’s some really funny entries there.  I entered, too. This is so NYC. Brilliant! People Who Sit In The Disability Seats When I’m Standing On My Crutches Tilda reviews the new Standard Hotel with a birthday […]

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Madison Young and Le Rock on meninpain.com April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA Frolicon: teaching How to Play With Needles, Stuff Yer Hole, Sensory Deprivation and Fantasy Role Play May 10 – Washington, DC Whole DC: teaching TBA June 20 – NYC Leather Pride Night: coordinating volunteer June 24-29  –  Northern MD Leather Retreat: teaching classes […]

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Do you only teach at events? Would you be interested in doing any private lessons? I have been doing private lessons. Most of it is bondage, but also various other things. Most of my clients are couples who are rather private and don’t want to go to meetings and events to learn. I really enjoy […]

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Hurry!  Buy your tickets now to see Felice Shays this weekend in her newest show, The Possibility of Response.  It’s playing two nights only, and Saturday night is already sold out. Felice is really funny, especially if you are a Dyke or a Jew.  $15 at Dixon Place.

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