LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS
May 21, 2003
Volume 9, Number 19
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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK
“Give to the world the best you have, and the
best will come back to you.”
- Madeline S. Bridges
TES Fest was a huge success. TES made a
bit of money, people had a really good time and
we had no problems with the police or the ABC
or the press. Whew! The organization really
needed a win. To tell you the truth, I needed a
win, too. I had busted my ass to do great
programming for TES30 and all anyone could
talk about TES30 was the negative stuff. It
bummed me out – I never even wrote a review.
TES Fest programming, while only half the
number of workshops (54), was raved about by
everybody there. Yay!
There were a lot of other events going on in
NYC and I would have liked to have gone to
more of them. As it is, I got to just one and
that was the Michele Serchuck opening at
Purple Passion/DV8 Friday evening. Her work
was all photos of Midori and Midori’s bondage.
I bought a color print. Laura Antoniou was
doing a booksigning there also, but we left
before she got there.
O was up for the weekend. Basically this was
her triumphant return to NYC. And in many
ways, we were back together just like old times.
Finally! She presented workshops, made me
cookies and dinner (all slop), and used my
slaveboy. On Friday night, I flogged her and
whipped her for the first time in over two years.
She bruised nicely and her cuts were beautiful.
She wore a low cut shirt to show off the next day.
On Sunday night, I put her in a sling and, well,
ya know… (Hi Al!)
On Saturday, I assisted O with a guided ritual
in her spirituality workshop. She cast a circle
and talked Neptune through a balancing journey
while I pierced four of his charka points. On
Sunday I presented Fisting and demoed with
Julia. I have a play date with her for
TES Fest had rented Paddles for the entire
weekend but I never made it down there. The
dungeon at the Hotel Pennsylvania was really
super. Frazier of The Crucible has a knack for
transforming a hotel ballroom into a fabulous
playspace. He has great equipment, good
lighting and knows how to do a workable layout
and create ambiance. Frazier and I were the
co-auctioneers for the Celebrity Auction which
raised over $1500 for NCSF and the Robin
Quimby Memorial Fund. I was bought by
Jason, the Vice Chair of TES Fest
Programming. Jason was fabulous to work with.
He made my job so much easier. He is a wiz
with data management. Actually the whole
crew with workshops was great. SusieQ and
Lady D helped at the event and we were
marvelously assisted by Carla, James and
Pete from Ops.
Anyway my scene with Jason was put off to a
time when we would both have less distractions
and more energy for each other. But we did do
a long term bondage scene. From Friday
afternoon through Sunday night, he wore my
locked metal collar and cuffs. Beautiful, bulky
but lightweight, black aircraft aluminum. 51
100 DIVAS – NUMBER THREE
I am on the case with my 100 Divas.
Saturday night at TES Fest, Fifth Angel said,
“So I’ve been reading about these spankings,
and my birthday is May 28….” Ya! Gender
does not matter with my Divas project. I took
him over my knee in the TES Fest dungeon and
gave him a warm-up and then 38 plus one for
good luck and a pinch to grow an inch.
Afterwards, his butt was all tingly and he was
all giggly and happy. Hey, Fifth, that’s why
LIFE WITH SLAVEBOY – LEASHES
I love that Neptune is independent, that he can
take on community projects and teach and
socialize without me. But sometimes, I want
him with me, focused on me. This happens
more easily when we are doing our day to day
stuff. However, at events, he gets sidetracked
and people expect attention from him. Usually
I do not mind that but sometimes I want him
with me. So, I tried putting him on a leash at
TES Fest. Having the visible connection, gave
others a clue that he was unavailable, or at least
less available, to them.
I never liked leashes for non-play situations.
I felt them to be a pain in the ass for me, the top.
But now they have a utilitarian aspect for me.
LIFE WITH SLAVEBOY – COFFEE
O and I woke with the alarm at 5am on Monday
morning. “I think I hear a coffee grinder,” she
I rolled over and groaned, “No, we don’t have
that kind of machine.” She stumbled out to the
kitchen for coffee. She found Neptune in his
work uniform making us coffee.
When the NYC street traffic dies down and
there are no calls, he can sneak away. I am a
Sharon Bien was killed in a motorcycle
accident on Monday morning. I am really
shocked and bummed by this. The news article
is at http://makeashorterlink.com/?J369247A4
and you can see her picture of her and her
partner, Cheryl, attending Leather Pride Night in
BDSM SURVEY ON DISABILITY AND AGING
Hromovy has developed a questionnaire to do
some fact finding about Disability and Aging
issues in the BD/SM scene. The purpose is to
provide statistics and questions to Lifestyle
presenters on these topics. Hopefully the
information will lead to timely and informative
presentations. The survey is not gender or
sexual identity specific. Any and all are
welcome to participate, in fact, the more the
merrier! See it at www.hromovy.com/survey.htm
NYC’s 20TH ANNUAL LPN AUCTION
The 20th annual Leather Pride Night Auction
will take place on Saturday, June 14th, 2003.
Doors open at 7:30 PM. Auction and festivities
continue until 12:00 Midnight at The Puck
Building, 293 Lafayette Street (at Houston
Street, one block east of Broadway). This
space is wheelchair accessible.
Jo Arnone, LPN’s veteran auctioneer, will
preside over hundreds of items being auctioned,
including leather and latex fetish clothing, unique
toys and equipment, art and Broadway theater
tickets, and much more. Leather Pride Night is
sponsored by twelve NYC s/m-leather-fetish
organizations: DefendersNY, Gay Male S/M
Activists, Imperial Court of NY, Iron Guard BC,
Lesbian Sex Mafia, MetrobearsNY, NY Panthers
LC, NY Renegades, Pariah’s MC, Promethean
Guard, Society Nocturnus of Gotham, and The
Eulenspiegel Society and many committed
individuals. This year, Leather Pride Night will
donate the 2003 Auction proceeds to: the
Heritage of Pride (HOP), the NYC AIDS
Monument Committee, the Pride Center of New
Jersey, the Foundation for Research on Sexually
Transmitted Disease (FROST’D), Teens Prepared
for Life (TPL) and the New York City Gay and
Lesbian Anti-Violence Project (AVP).
Tickets for Leather Pride Night are $15 in
advance, and $20 at the door. Paypal payment
is available at the LPN website
www.leatherpridenight.org. Tickets can also be
obtained at any of the sponsoring organizations,
as well as the following supporting commercial
venues: David Samuel Menkes Custom
Leatherwear, Purple Passion / DV8, London,
Paddles, The Leather Man, The Noose, Submit,
El Mirage, Le Chateau Exotique and Toys in
More info: www.leatherpridenight.org
Black BEAT will be held August 22 – 24 in the
Washington, DC area. It will feature workshops
and demos with presenters such as Vi Johnson,
Mo Williams, Dean Krebs and more, as well as
2 nights of exclusive private play (transportation
included) The Crucible, meals, vendors, meet &
greet social, Black BEAT T-shirt, souvenir badge
& program. Info: www.black-beat.org
THE WANT ADS
Thanks to my sponsors!
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These intimate four day courses develop play
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Your ad could be here! Email me if you are interested.
EVENTS OF THE WEEK
Thursday thru Monday 5.22-26 Chicago, IL
25th Anniversary International Mr Leather!
Friday 5.23 NYC
DomSubFriends presents “The Bondage Master”
with Master Jack. Have you ever watched
someone do an amazing rope bondage
techiniques and said, “How did he/she do that?”
Learn from an expert, as he will perform some of
his toughest knot techniques 8pm at Paddles,
250 W 26 St between 7 & 8th Aves. $8 (4 for
members of DSF & affiliate members).
Saturday 5.24 NYC
TES Intermediate Skills Workshop: “Caning”
with Paul NyghtOwl. Canemaker and caning
enthusiast Paul NyghtOwl will discuss the
history and methodology of caning, strengths
and weaknesses of different materials and
methods of cane manufacture. After
demonstrating various techniques from sensual
to severe, the class will pair off to put theory
into practice. 2-5pm at The LGBT Center, 208
W 13 St, between 7 & Greenwich Aves. $15 in
advance/$20 at the door (($5 discount for members
of TES and other SM/leather orgs).
This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace
Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular
but surely demanding…): The Eulenspiegel Not
Til chat room on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES
event but an unofficial place online where many
TES members and friends hang out and talk. No
set topic. It is a good place to ask questions,
debate the answers, ask and receive advice,
compare notes about the scene, gossip about
last week, plan the upcoming week, flirt a little,
be serious and not so serious. On AOL in the
Town Square area of the People Connection in
a “member room” – not private:
aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel not til. Add this
location to your Favorite Places Folder so that
it’s easy to come back.
Tuesday 5.27 NYC
TES Meeting: “”S&M Through The Ages: The
Victorian Era” with Brother Leo. An Era in which
S/M flourished in the upper and middle classes,
in the schools attended by children of the Elite
of the British Empire. S/M or “Aglolagnia” was
widely reputed to be the “English Vice!” 7:30pm
at 75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8
($4 for members of TES and other SM/leather
orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or www.tes.org
Wednesday 5.28 NYC
TES Singles Group presents ” Sex, Love, and
Intimacy; The Spirituality of S&M” with Roger.
Passion, pleasure, and the union of the dominant
and the submissive. The beauty of the dynamic
between the players. Edge play, exploring beyond
your boundaries. Realizing spirituality through the
joys of S&M 7:30pm at 75 Bleecker St, just east
of Broadway. $8 ($4 for members of TES and other
SM/leather orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or www.tes.org
LINKS OF THE WEEK
The gentrification of alternative sex:
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!