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May 14, 2003 – Volume 9, Number 18

© Copyright 2003 by Lolita Wolf –

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“I’ve been absolutely terrified every moment of my life

and I’ve never let it keep me from doing a single thing

that I wanted to do.

– Georgia O’Keefe




So, last week I spanked Midori and now this week it was

Tristan Taormino’s birthday and I got to spank her. Is there

some kind of trend here? LthrEdge has his 100 Bloggers

project ( Maybe I should start

my own 100 Divas project? OK, who’s next?




The 6th Mr Ebony Leather contest is being held in the

Empire Room of the Palmer House Hilton 7:30pm on

Friday, May 23 with porn star Bobby Blake and Queen

Cougar as co-emcees. Judges will be Vince Edd, Karen

Magee, Tom Dickerson, Boy phil, and Ray Castro. Live

Drummers will be on hand as well as an exciting whip

demo by LA’s Roger. The winner will go on to compete at

IML 2004. There will also be several raffles. Partial

proceeds will go to benefit the Leather Archives & Museum

and another as yet unnamed charity. Title sash designed

by David Samuel Menkes Custom Leatherwear.




Advance registration for TES Fest ends tonight

(Wednesday) at Midnight. Go to and do

it now or pay more at the door.




Q. OK I have a question for you since you have

experience going to Leather Pride Night. Does everyone

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A. No! There is a variety from leather to latex to PVC

to corsets to formal wear to jeans. Wear anything you want!

Go look at the pictures at

and you will see the diversity in appearance at LPN.




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Wednesday 5.14 National

See Allena, Director of the Wetspot and Board Member

of NCSF, will be interviewed on The O’Reilly Factor on

Fox News Channel. 8pm in most locations.

Thursday 5/15 NYC

TES Presents: “The Black & Blue Ball X Official After-

Hour Party… The TES Fest Pre-Party.” Between the end

of the Black and Blue Ball X and the beginning of TES

Fest is this most amazing after-hour play party. If you’ve

never been to one of these, you don’t know what you are

missing! This party will start late Thursday night (early

Friday morning) at 2am. It goes until 11am. No entry/re-

entry after 6am. No alcohol please, but lot’s of food, fun,

and play! Check out for

more details about all the great things going on this


Friday 5.16 NYC

Purple Passion hosts a gallery opening of Michele

Serchuk’s diva photos and Laura Antoniou’s book signing

for the latest Marketplace novel, “The Reunion.”. Photo

gallery reception begins at 5:30pm, with the book signing

starting at 7:30pm and both lasting until 8:30pm at Purple

Passion, 211 W 20th Street, between 7 & 8 Aves. Info:

Friday 5.16 NYC

The Baroness’ Fetish Cocktail Party. Enjoy cocktails,

exotic hors d’oeurvres, Mark McQueen’s’ fetish

photography, and a Matrix inspired fashion show. 5-10pm

at Alphabet Lounge, Ave C & 7th St. $13. Marathon

attendees receive 20% discount coupon on all Baroness

latex. Strictly formal or fetish dress. Info: or call 212 529 5964.

Friday 5.16 NYC

“Beyond Vanilla” opens and is scheduled to play at the

Quad Cinema on 13th Street, between 5 & 6 Aves. A

Q&A with the director, Claes Lilja, will follow the 8:15 and

10:25pm shows on Friday. Bring your ticket stub from any

of the Friday screenings to the Slide, 356 Bowery at 4th

St) for complimentary admission and a free drink! Info:

Friday 5.16 NYC

SMack! Reloaded Multimedia Fetish Play Party with

performances: “Born into Bondage” – Fetish Diva Midori,

Delano In Distress and Gecko, “Attack of the Agents” –

Warrior Mistress Vera Vanguard, Mistress Xstine, Mike,

Sean, Kathleen and Darenzia and the New York

premiere of the Torture Garden Fashion Line featuring

Empress Stah who also does Bizarre Trapeze Body

Performances. Strict Dress Code: MATRIX: Shiny

Trenchcoats and Dark glasses, Spy, Government agent,

‘Emma Peel’ Catsuit, FETISH: Leather, Latex, PVC,

Warped and Kinky! 10pm at The Octagon, 555 W. 33rd St,

between 10 &11 Aves. Tickets are $20 single,$35 for two

in advance; $25 single,$45 for two day of event and

available at Purple Passion/DV8, Demask, the

Baroness and online. Info:

Friday 5.16 NYC

DomSubFriends is invited to TES Fest at Paddles. 8pm

at Paddles, 250 W 26 St between 7 & 8th Aves. $8 (4 for

members of DSF & affiliate members).

Friday thru Sunday 5.16-18 NYC

TES Fest is a three-day kink extravaganza of debauchery

and good old BDSM fun: Dungeon Play Parties, Vendors,

Workshops and Special Events. Opens Friday 12noon at

Hotel Pennsylvania, W 33 St & 7 Ave. Info:

Saturday 5.17 NYC

TES Novice Excursion with “Novice Excursion Awards.”

This is a special version of the Novice Excursion. It’s still

happening at the same place as always BUT it is

happening smack in the middle of TES Fest. You do

NOT have to be registered for TES Fest to attend. Come

alone or as a couple. No dress code. Special time 7pm at

Chelsea Gallery Restaurant, 72 Seventh Ave., between

14 & 15 Sts. Info:

Sunday 5.18 NYC

NY D/s Brunch and MAsT Metro NY co-host a Brunch

Noon-2pm at Chelsea Gallery Restaurant, 72 7 Ave,

between 14th & 15th Sts. Info: 917-470-7438

This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace

Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular but

surely demanding…): The Eulenspiegel Not Til chat room

on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES event but an unofficial

place online where many TES members and friends hang

out and talk. No set topic. It is a good place to ask

questions, debate the answers, ask and receive advice,

compare notes about the scene, gossip about last week,

plan the upcoming week, flirt a little, be serious and not so

serious. On AOL in the Town Square area of the People

Connection in a “member room” – not private:

aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel not til. Add this location to

your Favorite Places Folder so that it’s easy to come back.

Tuesday 5.20 NYC

TES Meeting: “Miss Lori’s School of Punishment” with

Lori Fran. Have you been bad? Naughty? Don’t let Miss

Lori find out! She will teach you a lesson that you will

surely not forget. A fun-filled meeting about roleplay,

discipline, and the “student-teacher dynamic”. 7:30pm

at 75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for

members of TES and other SM/leather orgs). Info:

212-388-7022 or

Wednesday 5.21 NYC

TES TES-TiNG (For adults 18-35 please & their

significant others) ) presents “Coming In (to the Scene) &

Out (to friends & family).” For many of us, these are two

sides of the same coin as well as two of the most difficult

choices before us. Come share your advice and memories

on this process of self-discovery, community discovery, &

revelation (whether you’ve done it or not… and why!).

7:30pm at 75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4

for members of TES and other SM/leather orgs).

Info: 212-388-7022 or

Wednesday 5.21 NYC

TES Men’s and Women’s Groups’ Dinner Social with

Catelynn, Flagg, and Lori Fran. Good food, drinks, and

company at VG’s, the restaurant upstairs.. 7:30pm at 75

Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. No donation fee, just

pay for your own food/drink bill. Info: 212-388-7022 or




So, I guess Lara Croft likes spankings:

The life of a sex slave:

Brass City Eagle opens in Waterbury and local politicos

are upset:

Have fun! Play safe!

Lolita Wolf

Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!

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