Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Best laid practices

July 14th, 2009 · No Comments

Do you like hot butch, masculine, androgynous, genderqueer, transmasculine, studs, AGs, dykes, and queers? I do!

Betty Bowers Explains Traditional Marriage to Everyone Else.

The Village Voice has a Folsom Street East slide show.

The DC boys of Leather have started a new web site which explores the unique complexities of identity in the BDSM/Leather community. They’ll be collecting data through a series of brief surveys and presenting the results to allow visitors to reach their own conclusions.  The first survey is up and deals with Labels and Identity.

Graydancer talks about how “luck” is really hard work, being authentic and going to the right places.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: July 9-15

July 9th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Persia Pele, Mark Davis and Sabrina Fox on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, July 9
Queens BDSM Munch
Suspension Party

Friday, July 10
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Rope Bondage for Beginners” w/ Master Vito

Saturday, July 11
Afternoon Delight
DSF: “Basic Chest Harness and Hogtie workshop” ” w/ Master Vito

Sunday, July 12
MAsT Metro NY: Maturing M/s Relationships
New York Bondage Club
Objectify

Monday, July 13

Tuesday, July 14
TES: Needleplay Workshop with Slutress

Wednesday, July 15
TES Dominant Women/submissive men: “The Battle of the Drag Queen Divas”

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Happy 4th of July!

July 4th, 2009 · No Comments

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Find Lolita – July 2009 and beyond

July 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

Nicotine and Claire Adams on WhippedAss.com

July 2-5 – Piscataway, NJ
TES Fest: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching 3 classes, dealing black, signing books and on a blogger panel Whew!

July 17-19 – Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains: teaching Decorative Bloodsports, The Dynamics of Co-Topping and Metal Bondage.

August 21-24 – Edison, NJ
Floating World: teaching Flogging, Stuff Yer Hole and Mummification

September 16-21 – Maryland
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: teaching Kidz Rule!, Rope Bondage & Sex, Popping that Suspension Cherry, and The Well Hung Hand

October 23-25 – Chicago, IL
Kinky Kollege : teaching Kidz Rule and CBT in a Nutshell

October 30-November 1 – Washington, DC
Black Rose: teaching Co-Topping (w/Boymeat), CBT, and Decorative Bloodsports

February 26-28 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching TBA

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Late

July 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

I dunno. Is the moon in the seventh house or something? There are some weird goings-on in my life. I have been contacted by not just one, but two, exes (no, not that one and not the other one either). Both of these exes dumped my ass over 10 years ago and then wouldn’t talk to me. Now everybody wants to talk. I have a date with one of them next week. We are going to sit under a tree and talk. She’s bringing me a sandwich. I’ll chew and listen.

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Oink loves Thor!

July 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

How lucky am I to have Thor in my life?  He baked cookies and sent them to camp.  Thor has become a legend to all of Oink.  Nom nom nom!

An incredible assortment.  All scrumptious!

Rose and Boymeat love Thor’s cookies.

Nayland loves Thor’s cookies.

The Monster (aka Glenda) loves Thor’s cookies.

Jason and Sue love Thor’s cookies.

Holly loves Thor’s cookies.

I love Thor’s cookies!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: July 2-8

July 2nd, 2009 · No Comments

Wolf Hudson, Maestro and Bella Rossi on thetrainingofo.com

Thursday, July 2
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue Party

Friday, July 3
NYC Munch

Saturday, July 4

Sunday, July 5
New York Bondage Club

Monday, July 6

Tuesday, July 7

Wednesday, July 8

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mudcub

July 1st, 2009 · No Comments

One last photo from Folsom Street East….  This is my friend, mudcub.  Look at how dirty he was.  Yuck!

Last week, mudcub made some really delicious homemade chocolate chip cookies and sent them to me at Leather Retreat.  The card read, “Don’t worry, I washed my hands first.”  LOL

Thanks!

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In between

July 1st, 2009 · 1 Comment

I am back from Leather Retreat and it was loads of fun.  Right now I am pretty busy catching up and also preparing for TES Fest.  I’ll be writing some stories about a few of my adventures, but not right now!  Too busy!

I leave for TES Fest on Thursday and it will be crazy.  Here’s my schedule:

Friday 1:30-2:45pm  teaching Water Bondage 2
Friday 9:30-11pm emceeing the TES Celebrity Auction to benefit NCSF
Saturday 11:30am-1245pm teaching The Erotic Impact of Spanking
Saturday 1-2pm selling and signing my Books/DVDs
Saturday 3-4:15pm Sex Blogger Q&A
Saturday 8-10pm dealing blackjack at Kinky Casino Royale
Sunday 3:30-4:45pm teaching Rope Suspension for Bigger Bodies

If you haven’t registered for TES Fest, they are selling day passes and full event passes at the door.  And there’s still a few hotel rooms left at the host hotel.  Check out the website for more info.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: June 25-July 1

June 24th, 2009 · 2 Comments

Race Cooper, Tober Brandt on BoundGods.com

Thursday, June 25

Friday, June 26
DSF: “Krazy Kinky Leather Party” 

Saturday, June 27
LSM marches in the 17th Annual NYC Dyke March
Suspension Party
Submit Party
XXXtreme Fetish


Sunday, June 28

Gay Pride Parade
Suspension Party
New York Bondage Club

Monday, June 29

Tuesday, June 30
TES: “S&M Through the Ages… the Early 20th Century” with Brother Leo

Wednesday, July 1
Pleasure Salon

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