Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Steve Holmes, Cj and Gilda Roberts on sexandsubmission.com

November 13 – NYC
DomSubFriends: on a panel, “Righting The Ship”

November 23 – NYC
The New School: teaching a class on alternate sexualities

December 7 – NYC
Conversio Virium: teaching “Trust”

December 15 – NYC
TES: I’m Lolita Claus!

January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching “The Dynamics of Co-Topping“ and “How To Be A Greedy Pig”

Feb 5-6, Columbus, OH
Winter Wickedness: teaching TBA

February 26-28 – Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching “Look Ma, No Rope!” and “Power Flogging”

March 18 – NYC
In The Flesh: reading

April 15-18 – San Francisco, CA
International Ms. Leather: teaching TBA and coordinating the Celebrity Auction

May 28-31 – Chicago, IL
Shibaricon: teaching “Cock and Ball Bondage”

I helped Nayland pick out a pumpkin this year. It made me a bit sad. This was an activity that I did with Jack and it was the only time he would do age play with me. (That’s another story.)

I’ll be spending Halloween at Black Rose this year. I’ve got some new clothes and a new haircut. I’ll spend some time with friends and family.  That should be fun.

Dirk from Lady Jade’s Lair gets into the Halloween spirit with The Hearse Song.

Get a free CandyVibe on October 31 with any purchase from Babeland. Use promo code TRICKORTREAT.

Thom cut my hair today.  I like it!

Kathryn and I went for bagels today with Bear Bergman.  I got a copy of the new book, The Nearest Exit May Be Behind You.  I’m about 40 pages into it and I love it.

Bear will be reading this Sundayin Brooklyn, but I’ll miss it because I’ll be at Black Rose.  Catch Bear on tour!

Daniel and Aiden Starr on DivineBitches.com

Thursday, October 29

Friday, October 30
TES: “Ghost Stories!”
NYC TNG meeting
TES Halloween Party hosted by Antonia Barbie
Sanctuaire Prive: “RIGGER~THON”

Saturday, October 31
NYC TNG Shopping Excursion
NYC TNG meeting
Submit party
SMack party
DSF: “Your Inner Darkness Halloween Fetish Ball”
Flagg’s Big Inappropriate Party
Fright Night Fetish After Party

Sunday, November 1
MAsT Metro NY: “Unconventional Mastery and Slavery: 24/7 w/ an Explanation” w/ Master Tony & slave susan
LSM Safety & Orientation
New York Bondage Club

Monday, November 2

Tuesday, November 3
TES: “Living Trans” w/ Erin Houdini

Wednesday, November 4
TES Bondage SIG: “The Chest Harness (or how 90% of Shibari can be learned in this one tie)” w/ JC
Pleasure Salon

I bought a piece from this series of sculptures to help support John T. Unger with his legal battle.

I’ve always had penis envy.  Don’t get me wrong.  I like being a girl, but there are times when I wish I had a cock.  I really wish I could just open my fly, whip out my cock and pee anywhere.  It’s convenient and sexy.  So, when Babeland gave me the opportunity to review the P Style, I stood up and said yes!

The P Style is a long (7.5″) spout made of hard plastic, which is easy to clean.  I tried it first in the bathtub because I was worried about making a mess, but that was not really necessary because the P Style is easy to position and use.  I was also concerned about “wiping” with it.  You are supposed to hold it tight to your parts and drag it forward to dry yourself off.  I though that it would be awkward with my piercings (I have my inner labia and my clit hood pierced), but that proved to be a non-issue.

The P Style is going to be great for those times I want to do piss play scenes without taking off my pants.  I am also going to use it for those times when I need to use a dirty public restroom.  Very practical.  I love this!

The Village Voice featured Lesbian Sex Mafia in their Best of New York and I’m mentioned!

Ally Ann on hogtied.com

Thursday, October 22
Alphabet Soup

Friday, October 23
NYC TNG
DSF: “The Delicious Play Party”

Saturday, October 24
Halloween Masquerade Ball On Board The Show Boat “Queen of Hearts”
Mr American Rubber

Sunday, October 25
Dominant Women’s Tea
NYC TNG
Suspension party
New York Bondage Club

Monday, October 26

Tuesday, October 27
TES: “Enemas and Catheters” w/ Mistress Wynter

Wednesday, October 28
TES TNG: “Anal Fisting 101” w/ Wendy Blackheart

Draw a pig and find out your personality!

Betty Dodson will be the keynote speaker at International Ms Leather Weekend.

For anyone who is a true rope beginner or just likes Graydancer’s sense of humor, here’s his first instructional video.

I now have a talent agency representing me!

A slide show from the Ms SF Leather 2009 contest. Mollena won!