Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Amanda Fucking Palmer!

November 17th, 2009 · No Comments

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Can’t do it all

November 13th, 2009 · No Comments

Think with your dipstick. Ouch! Ha ha!  Actually, the behind the scenes version may be even funnier!

I was interviewed about CBT by Dan and Dawn on the Erotic Awakening podcast.  Listen to it!

LeatherYenta.com is number 73 on the Between My Sheets Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009! Thanks to all who nominated me and voted for me.

I made a donation to support Wicked Grounds.

This is totally weird and wonderful.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: November 12-18

November 12th, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, November 12
LSM: “The Artist’s Way to Designing Scenes” w/ Nayland
NYC TNG
Suspension party
DO NYC Munch
Queens BDSM Munch

Friday, November 13
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Gender and BDSM the Final Frontier” presented by Leather D

Saturday, November 14
Leather Stimulus Package
NYC TNG Pre-{xcess Munch
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Sunday, November 15
nosebleed upstate manhattan pervert brunch munch
Instigate NYC: “A Servant’s Guide to Being Prepared” w/ Laine
Fixe Fetish Party
New York Bondage Club

Monday, November 16
CV: “Gendering Power” w/ Sinclair Sexsmith

Tuesday, November 17
TES: ” Toybag? I don’t need no stinkin’ toybag!!” w/ Goddess Roze

Wednesday, November 18
TES Relationships SIG “Because some things never change … and some things do” w/ Soulhuntre and his house

Curt Wooster and Nika Noire on divinebitches.com

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Protocols

November 10th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Rusty asked, “What do you think about those Butchmann’s Protocols?”

“I love and respect Master Steve, but I prefer my own protocols.”

“What are your protocols?”

“I’ll teach you as we go along.  It’s different for everybody.”

Later that day, Rusty spoke to me with her mouth full.

“Don’t speak with your mouth full,” I told her.

She began to speak again and I added, “That’s a protocol of mine.”

She quickly closed her mouth and continued chewing.  I added, “Let me properly phrase that as a protocol. When your mouth is full, don’t speak.”

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I’m going to Wordcamp!

November 10th, 2009 · No Comments

WordCampNYC – Nov 14-15

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I won the big prize!

November 7th, 2009 · 2 Comments

I went to the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar release party tonight.  Monk sold me raffle tickets and I won the Njoy Eleven.  It’s stainless steel and huge!  It weighs 2.75 pounds!

You can get one of your own at Stockroom or Babeland!

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Black Rose 2009

November 6th, 2009 · No Comments

I taught and played at Black Rose last weekend, but really the best part is being able to spend quality time with my peeps!

Nayland, Thor and mudcub

Sharrin and pat

Boymeat and Kathryn

Our family dinner at the fabulous Art and Soul restaurant.

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New corset

November 6th, 2009 · 6 Comments

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Leather Stimulus Package

November 5th, 2009 · No Comments

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: November 5-11

November 5th, 2009 · No Comments

Calico and Maestro on thetrainingofo.com

Thursday, November 5
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue’s 10th year anniversary

Friday, November 6
NYC Munch
DSF: “The Unique Harness and suspension,” with Michael S
NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar release party

Saturday, November 7
NYC TNG meeting

Sunday, November 8
New York Bondage ClubMonday, November 9
CV: “The BDSM-iad: Self-Discovery Through Mindful BDSM” w/ Ray Warman

Tuesday, November 10
TES: “One Household, Two Masters and Several slaves w/ Sir Eric & Lady Christie” w/ Erin Houdini

Wednesday, November 11
TES Novice SIG: “Communication, Communication, Communication” w/ Bo

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