Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Thursday,  March 18
Staten Island Kink munch
TES Relationships Group Excursion to “BDSM Night” at In The Flesh
BDSM Night at In The Flesh Reading Series

Friday,  March 19
DSF: “Breath Play” w/ Mistress Clarissa
LSM: “Taboo Play, and Working Through Extremes” w/ Mollena Williams
Subspace party
The Avant~Garde BDSM/Fetish Play Party
Switch Party

Saturday,   March 20
Poly Patao Productions: Afternoon Delight
TES Spanking Group: “Spanking Techniques from Sensual to Discipline and more” w/ Lady Sabrina
TES Novice Excursion
TES Latex Fetish Play Party hosted by The Baroness and Jeff
Stimulate party
Spam party
Black Party

Sunday,  March 21
Instigate: “Strong Slaves, Bodacious Bottoms & Ass-Kicking Submissives: Embracing Dichotomy” w/ Mollena Williams
New York Bondage Club
Fixe Fetish Party

Monday,  March 22
CV: “Edgeplay from the Top” w/ Corey Alexander

Tuesday, March 23
TES: “Abuse-Proofing for Submissives or How to Take Responsibility For Yourself”

Wednesday,  March 24
TES Bondage SIG: “The Many Moods of Bondage” with Murphy Blue

Bobbi Starr and Ariel X  on everythingbutt.com

On Thursday night, I’ll be reading at In The Flesh reading series curated by Rachel Kramer Bussel.  She’s put together a tremendous line-up for BDSM night which also features Melissa Febos, Selina Fire, Monk, Julie Powell, Xan West, Mollena Williams and Madison Young.  There will be free cupcakes and prize giveaways.  A lot of friends are going and the TES Relationship Group is doing an excursion there, too.  It’s going to be so crowded that Happy Ending Lounge is opening up the downstairs to accommodate the crowds.  Visit the In The Flesh website for details.  It’s free!  Be there!

When Don Quixote found out that The Poacher would be at the party, he asked me if we could try to set up a date for the two of them to bottom to Mrs. Poacher and me.  I agreed and a time was set.

I sat down with Mrs. Poacher and we agreed to a scene that would work for us both.  A real lazy top scene.

Mrs. Poacher wore a short leather skirt and some bitching boots.  I wore my black girdle and Mary Jane shoes.  Both these outfits were ones that each of the guys were really turned on by.  We each had our own motivational tools: She had a crop and I had a rattan cane.  Two comfortable chairs were arranged so that we could sit side by side.  The boys stood at attention before us.

“We have decided that you two will compete to see who can come on command. The winner will beat the loser with a 15 minute spanking or a 6 minute punching scene”  Puppy pads were laid down to protect the carpet and we told the guys to strip naked and start stroking themselves.

I worried, “DQ’s cock is so much smaller than the Poacher’s cock. I wonder if that will be a disadvantage.”  Ha!  Probably the humiliation of me pointing that out made it difficult for DQ.  However, Mrs. Poacher pointed out that The Poacher had been milked earlier and might not have much left for the competition.

The guys were told to stroke themselves but not come until we told them to come.  They needed to be ready to come but coming before getting permission would be an automatic loss.

We sat and chatted as the guys stroked themselves.  After a while, we gave them the order to come.  We watched as their stroking escalated and finally The Poacher shot his load.  We then sat back and watched him top DQ.

I do like the underdog.

Midori teaches us how to make love to a zombie.

Melissa Febos is getting a lot of publicity just in time for her new book, Whip Smart: A Memoir. And she’ll be reading  Thursday at In The Flesh (I’ll be reading, too!).

Mindy Chateuvert was profiled in DC’s Metro Weekly.

MAL looks like it was a lot of fun this year.

I bought Matt Johnson aka Bad Faggot’s book.

Thursday, March 11
Queens BDSM Munch
NYC TNG Party Night
Impact

Friday, March 12
ClubFEM NYC Munch
DSF: “Constructing Grand SM scenes – thinking out of the box” w/ Master Virage
Mr. Rawhide Meet and Greet

Saturday, March 13
Mr Rawhide Leather Contest   www.mrrawhidenyc.blogspot.com
CHOMP
Poly Patao Productions: “Afternoon Delight”
DSF: “The skills emporium- “An educated Sm’er is always the best SM’er.”
NYboL Uniform Party

Sunday, March 14
New York Bondage Club

Monday, March 15

Tuesday, March 16
TES: ” RACE: The final Frontier” with Mollena Williams

Wednesday, March 17
TES Dominant Woman/Submissive men’s Group: “Qualities of Great Tops and Bottoms” w/ Margaret Davis

Isis Love and Mia Lelani on whippedass.com

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Thursday,  March 4
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue party: Liquid Latex Spring Metamorphosis!

Friday,  March 5
Apple Munch
DSF: “Mummification: The Bound Body Altar” w/ Klawdya Rothschild
Eagle NYC: ”Full Fetish Friday”

Saturday,   March 6
Rope Share w/ Lolita Wolf
NYC TNG General Munch

Sunday,  March 7
MAsT MetroNY: “Demystifying the pedestal”
New York Bondage Club

Monday,  March 8
CV: TBA

Tuesday, March 9
TES: “Erogenous Torture Workshop: Dicks, clits and nipples” w/ Madame Sade

Wednesday,  March 10
TES Novice Group: “Fem Domme Kink Academy” w/ Princess  Kali

James Deen and Beverly Hills on sexandsubmission.com

Thursday, February 25
Hot Knots

Friday, February 26
DSF: “The Humble Clothespin, Instrument of Beauty & Torture” w/ Earthwalker & TylerRose

Saturday, February 27

Sunday, February 28
Kinky Jews: Crazy Kinky Purim Extravaganza
New York Bondage Club
Suspension party

Monday, March 1
CV: “Tightlacing” w/ Halo Jones

Tuesday, March 2
TES: “Medical Bondage” w/ slave 705-468-560

Wednesday, March 3
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “An Evening with Efrain Gonzalaz”
Pleasure Salon

Cherry Torn and Sarah Shevon on theupperfloor.com

A computer mouse that has a G Spot that leads you to your favorite spot on the web.

Derek da Silva writes about public play.

Kinky Connections interviews JD of Two Knotty Boys.

Boingboing features Mollena playing the race card.

Clarisse Thorn has joined Time Out Chicago as a blogger covering sex and BDSM. Her first column is her coming out story.

The photo of me was taken Saturday night by Nayland Blake.

The audience at Cinekink sang Happy Birthday to me.

Mollena Williams wrote an awesome tribute for my birthday.

And Cindy composed a poem –

Our Lolita
When ya meet’ha
She might just beatcha
Or maybe teach ya

In the world of leather yenta
Sex toys maybe that she lent ya
In your butthole you can clench, “Aaaa!”
“That is what I meant, Yaaaahh!”

Happy birthday, dear Lolita!

And thanks to everyone who called, emailed, tweeted, etc.