Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I love Super Tacos and they just got named as a finalist in this year’s Vendy awards!

The Observer has an article about the closing of The Noose.

For an upcoming Sex Issue, Time Out is asking around for people with fantasies. They want to help them come true. Here’s the official word:

GOT A FANTASY?
Psst. Hey. Over here. Yeah, you. Do you have a secret sex fantasy? Always wanted a gay experience? Or to watch your husband make love to another woman? Need help making it come true? E-mail your fantasy ‹we’ll keep it anonymous!‹ to
fantasy@timeoutny.com to be considered for a future story.

Mark your calendars for Cinekink February 26 – March 2, 2008. And now is the time to start submitting your film and video entries.

I am working on a new class for Dark Odyssey. I am really excited about it. I certainly do not have any of the angst around it that I had with the Jealousy class. Also need to polish up my ABC’s of BDSM class. It’s been a while since I taught that. And I have not yet begun to pack!

In July 2005 I attended Midori’s Rope Dojo in Washington, DC. Here’s what I wrote about it back then:

… Wow! Sixteen full hours of rope education spread over two days. Midori is a great teacher who explains everything fully as she demonstrates and then works with everyone in the class as everybody then does it on each other. Everybody was expected to switch and everybody did. I had heard that we would be given speed drills and team projects and I was a little apprehensive about those, but when it came to actually doing it, I was confident in being able to do everything and I managed just fine – actually better than fine! These exercises actually made it even easier to learn everything.

And there was a lot to learn: four different two-column ties, two body harnesses, hand and foot bondage, a dildo harness and, at the end, we learned how to do self-suspension. We also were taught the history of Japanese rope bondage, the many reasons (intents) why people like to do rope bondage and we trained in speed negotiating. Delano was the assistant teacher and gave a lot of insight that complemented what Midori had to say. Every graduate got a certificate, a six-foot bamboo pole and a canvas toybag perfect for carrying our rope. I highly recommend this course and I hope Midori will teach an advanced version at some point.

When I heard that the Rope Dojo was coming to NYC for the first time, I encouraged a few friends to sign up. I told them to do it as soon as registration opened. Only two of them got in. It sold out in three hours. Three hours! That’s crazy! I also offered to help at the Dojo. Midori is a friend of mine and I am also friends with her staff (Michele, Delano and Kelly). I know how much work it takes to run the Dojo and figured they could use an extra hand for schlepping and helping with the food (two continental breakfasts and two warm lunches). I also figured it would be fun to be watching the class and soaking up the good rope aura.

The students were a mix of gender, orientation and geography. I knew some of them beforehand and I made some new acquaintances that I hope to see again. Some were experienced players and some were novices. Some of the students had taken the Dojo before and were repeating it.

Midori’s teaching skill has greatly improved. I mean that Midori has always been a fabulous educator but now she is better than ever. The curriculum has improved. The history talk is much more relevant now. And she has added some really fun decorative and practical rope harnesses. I will definitely be practicing them at camp.

If you like rope bondage and want to learn, I highly recommend the Rope Dojo. The next one will be in Dallas, TX: November 3-4. The next one close to this area will be in Philadelphia sometime in April. Check out the Rope Dojo website.

And in the meantime, buy Midori’s how-to book with gorgeous photos and step-by-step instruction: The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage

It’s 3am and we have just gotten home from a party. We had a hot time, but I had not come and I was still yearning for a big orgasm.

Don Quixote is naked and flopped on the bed. I know this scenario all to well. I am tired and I will also get naked, flop on the bed and we will both pass out. And then the next day I’ll think about how I should have gotten something going.

So, there we are naked and flopped on the bed next to each other. He is almost out. But, fuck it! I wanna come. I nestle myself against him, grab my Acuvibe and turn it on. It’s loud and it’s even louder when it hits my clit hood piercing. Loud like the jackhammer of love.

DQ is alerted by the jackhammer of love and starts playing with my nipples. I come pretty fast. He laughs because he can actually hear me squirting and he thinks it’s very funny that I now have a big wet spot on my side of the bed. Huh!

Then he starts jerking off and I sink my teeth into his chest. He comes fast and then bemoans the wet spot on his side of the bed. Huh!

I reconsider my policy of putting fresh sheets on the bed before his visits. We both pass out in our respective wet spots.

Viviane’s Sex Carnival won Sex Blog of the Year at the Erotic Awards in London! Viviane is my Blog Mommy and I am a contributor to her blog. I know there are a lot of blog awards out there. Anybody can slap up a jpg of an award and hand them out, but the Erotic Awards is truly an outstanding event. Does the name Tuppy Owens ring a bell? Remember the Sex Deviants Balls of the 90’s? Tuppy’s been around networking around sex and raising money for the disabled since before anybody was online. I’d like to see the Museum of Sex do an exhibit about her and her work. Her charity is the Outsiders, which assists disabled people with their love lives and sexual relationships. It’s an amazing organization. There were two other excellent finalists in the Sex Blog categoy: Bitchy Jones and Monmouth.

Jefferson makes a brilliant post on being honest with his partners through the transparency in his blog and gives us what could easily be called a friendly User’s Manual.

To me, this is a salutary reward of being out of the closet—you can’t reasonably confront me for hiding what I’ve already given you.

This openness hopefully spares me from repeating the refrain of my first dates. I am bisexual. I have multiple partners. I have no current interest in monogamy. I don’t answer to anyone in choosing my sex partners. These things are unlikely to change in the near future.

And here’s a recent classic quote from my ex (not that one, the other one):
“I admit nothing, deny everything and plan to make counter accusations!“

Thursday, September 6
Museum of Sex: “Pink Japan: Contemporary Sex Culture” slideshow + lecture w/ Midori

Friday, September 7
LSM: “Beyond Twisted: Permutations of Kinkiness” w/ Midori
NYC Munch
DSF: “Max Wax Play” w/ Mistress Didi

Saturday, September 8
TES Exploratorium Workshop: “Rope, Clips/Clamps, Punching/Kicking” w/ Shibari Warrior, Lady M, Kimiko
The Jackie Factory: LOW LIFE @ HOWL
Poly Patao Productions: The Play Party Named Desire

Sunday, September 9
Brooklyn LeatherFolk Munch & Party
MAsT Metro NY: “Keeping Your Identity Without a Partner”
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue
New York boys of Leather Second Annual Car Wash benefits NCSF

Monday, September 10

Tuesday, September 11
TES: “Volunteer Sign Up Meet & Greet” w/ Sir Guy
CineKink: Born in a Barn

Wednesday, September 12
TES Novice Group: “Anatomy of a Scene” w/ Mistress Trish & Thrash
GMSMA program: “S/M Orgasm”

Summer is over and school has started. The first day of school always gets me a little nervous and scared. I wore my new red plaid pleated skirt because I knew if I looked good, I would feel like I fit in with the other kids. And what do you know? I made a new friend on the very first day! He’s the new janitor and he’s always got candy in his pockets. He has a lot of pockets and he lets me search through them until I find the candy. He’s a nice man. And it’s really cool to have a source for candy at school.

So the next day, Dick (that’s the janitor’s name, but his shirt says Richard) told me that he had a surprise for me. I love surprises so I followed him to his office. His office is down in the basement next to the boiler room. It’s not as nice as the Principal’s office – not that I ever have to go to the Principal’s office, because I am a good girl. Dick unzipped his pants and told me to reach in and find the surprise. I put my hand in there and felt the nubbiness of his jock strap. He encouraged me to dig around underneath it. He is very hairy down there. I wasn’t sure what I was looking for and was struggling. But then he told me it was a piece of paper and I finally found it. When I opened it up, it was a dollar bill.

“Wow! Thanks!” I thought about what I could buy with a whole dollar.
“I have a way you could earn five dollars. Would you like that?”
“Okay, cool!”

Dick took his dick out of his pants. BTW isn’t that funny that his name is Dick? Anyway, Dick’s dick was really huge. I never saw one that big ever. To earn the five dollars, he wanted me to put his dick in my mouth. At first I was unsure if it was okay to do that. But I liked Dick and I trusted him and I wanted the five dollars. So I took his dick in my mouth and I was surprised at how easy it was to take it all down my throat. Dick held on to my pigtails, but he did not pull them in a mean way. He was nice and just really liked the way his dick felt while I was sucking and licking and swallowing it.

After a while, he wanted me to stop. He lay down on the floor and looked up my skirt at my white cotton panties. He fondled one of my Mary Jane shoes. I ground my other shoe into his cock. He really liked that. At that point, I realized that I felt really powerful and I knew I could wrap Dick around my finger and get him to do anything for me. This is going to be a great school year!

[Note: This was fantasy role play enacted by consenting adults. I used the six dollars to chip in for gas and tolls on the way home.]