Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I am headed out the door to the NC Edge event down in Fayetteville, NC. There are still tickets available at the door.

I’ll be back late Sunday night. No internet, no email. Call my cell if you need me.

An Action Alert from NCSF

On Thursday night Boymeat and I went to the Cinekink party. The Wet Spots performed. When we saw them last year, I got to spank Cass during the performance. This year I told her about the 100 Divas Project and asked if I could add her to the list. She remembered me and gave me permission. She is very sexy and beautiful, and together with John Woods, they are a very talented musical duo. And very funny! And, yeah, I’m all about making the Wet Spots larger.

Rev. Gary M. Aldridge, one of those extreme Christian fundamentalists, died recently in Alabama. The cause of death was auto-erotic asphyxiation while in rubber and bondage gear. He sure needed some BDSM sex education from Jay Wiseman, who would have told him that doing these activities solo is most dangerous. Also, Rev. Aldridge had a dildo up his ass, which is still an illegal sex toy in Alabama. Obviously, he was another hypocrite. See more info here.

This Christian gives clowns a bad name!

Jesus will survive!

Tonight, I will be going to a hell of a good time at Cinekink’s party with The Wet Spots.

I am asking you to please participate in this quick and anonymous survey: the second national Survey of Violence & Discrimination Against Sexual Minorities.

Who is running this survey? Larry Iannotti, LCSW, is a professional social scientist and practicing therapist getting his doctoral degree through the City University of NY. Susan Wright is the Media Spokesperson for NCSF, and is accredited as a research assistant affiliated with CUNY. Both Larry and Susan are friends of mine and I trust them. They are activists and want to help the BDSM-leather-fetish community. For more information, please call Susan at 917-848-6544, or Larry at 212-465-1917.

Being conducted in cooperation with NCSF, this survey includes all of the questions asked on NCSF’s ground-breaking 1998 Violence & Discrimination Against Sexual Minorities survey, and includes new questions on personal, business, and Internet discrimination experienced by BDSM-leather-fetish practitioners.

The 1998 survey found significant discrimination and violence occurring against BDSM-leather-fetish practitioners. The new data may be used in court obscenity cases to prove that sexual minorities have been chilled on the Internet because of fear of prosecution. The survey also includes space for individuals to write about the discrimination they have faced, which will be helpful in illustrating the consequences of the negative stereotypes about BDSM-leather-fetish activities.

Please take a minute to fill out this anonymous survey even if you have not been a victim of violence or discrimination. Everybody please do it! As of right now, it has been mainly white men who have responded, and they want to get answers from people of color and women, too.

This is a community-wide effort and you can help:

1. Please fill out the anonymous survey.
2. Please contact surveybdsm@gmail.com to receive hard copies for your event or for distribution to your members.
3. Please send this announcement to your email lists and/or post it in your blog, LiveJournal, MySpace and other online forums.

Thanks!
Lolita Wolf

So, my dinner date for tonight just canceled. Second time he did that. We rescheduled and he promised that if he had to cancel again, he would let me flog him. Oh, where is Mr. Murphy when I need him? This guy would be so hot to play with.

The Perspiration flavor sounded good until they got to the stinky sock part.

I got quoted in HX (the penultimate paragraph).

So, remember how I was saying that that guy Thomas could get trained in the Army? Right. Well, this video shows that he can learn all sorts of sexy things over in Iraq.

“Wow. You’re really hot,” he whispered in my ear.

He had been friendly earlier, but now he was acting interested. I figured it was probably because he had just seen me do a pretty hot scene.

“Yeah, I got skills,” I answered.
“Yes, you do, but that’s not what I’m talking about.”
“Then what do you mean?”
“It’s your attitude, your style.”
“Huh! Thanks!”
We hugged. I should have kissed him.

Sometimes I underestimate myself.

Later, I told Don Quixote about this. And he said that not only was I underestimating myself, but I was underestimating the guy, too. Hmmm. Gotta think about that.

Here’s a recent comment to the I Got Your Number post. I rejected the comment mainly because I did not want to publish the guy’s phone number.

hi thomas at [phone number deleted] needs your training.

Of course this guy needs training. Training so he can learn how to write a few sentences that might pique my interest.

The US Army will train you. They will take anybody and train them. I, however, am not so desperate. I don’t need to start from zero.