Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Three bottoms

March 6th, 2008 · No Comments

In 2005, I was gifted with a camera. I took some photos and filled it up. Then did nothing with it. Now I have finally installed the software and downloaded the photos. I look forward to taking pictures again. In the meantime, here are some photos of play that I did during that period.

The aftermath of a flogging and a singletailing.


A hogtie with hemp.

My spandex sleepsack with a hood and some pretty rope.

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A Big Hole in Her Crotch

March 5th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Photo by Viviane

She showed up at the party and wore these fishnets that had a huge hole in the crotch. Of course, I had to say something. “Hey, you have a big hole in your crotch.”
“I know.”
“It looks like you were rubbing yourself and ripped them. That’s nasty.” I was a bit ingenuous.
“No, they came this way. They are supposed to be this way.”
“Oh, that’s even worse. You are so slutty. You should be spanked.”

She did not disagree. She is too smart to try to win that argument with me. The slut wanted the spanking.

We found a spot on one of the couches. She lay comfortably across my lap and I began to swat her ass. She moaned and kept moaning as her ass got redder and hotter. Because she was such a slut, I made her suck a guy’s cock while I spanked her. Not just any guy – a Republican in a tuxedo. She managed to take his huge cock down her throat and, as she moaned around it, I continued to whack her ass.

After the spanking, the slut sat up next to me. She reached into her bag and pulled out a plastic baggie. I grabbed the baggie. “What’s this?”
“CBT toys to use on my boyfriend.”
“All these toys would work great on your tits, too.”

I removed a black leather strap with two rings and exclaimed, “Oh! I used to have a few straps like these. I gave them away to Leather Pride Night because I just had too much stuff.”
“Really! We bought this at the LPN Flea Market two years ago.”
“Well, this must have been mine.”
“Wow! That was before I met you. We love this strap. It’s so versatile.”

I went ahead and showed her how versatile it was by wrapping it around her tits. I then took the pink lacing out of the baggie. The slut had learned from me that pink lacing is the best for CBT. Ha! I used that to bind her tits some more. Then I topped that all off with some of clips. Voila!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates March 6-12

March 5th, 2008 · No Comments


Tabatha Tucker on hogtied.com

Tabatha Tucker on hogtied.com

Thursday, March 6

Friday, March 7
NYC Munch
DSF: “Floggers: Basics to advanced” with Valentine

Saturday, March 8
TES Relationships Group: “Dinner Excursion”

Sunday, March 9

Monday, March 10
CV Meeting: “The Power of Playing with Gender- A BDSM and Sex Workshop” w/ Corey Alexander

Tuesday, March 11
TES: “Coming Out Dominant” with Flagg

Wednesday, March 12
TES Novice Group: “How Do I Get You To Play With Me?” w/ Mistress Trish, Calico, Mike S, Lady D,& Bo
GMSMA: Forum on Erotic Fiction” (open to all genders)

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Spanky Spanky!

March 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Here’s my cutting after 8 days of healing. This was the second time it was cut.
This is definitely a work in progress.

A story in Time Out about Jefferson and his double life.

For Boymeat: Swipebutt.

First Magnolia and S’Mac, and now, Shake Shack is opening on the Upper West Side. I have never eaten at Shake Shack but Thor raves about it.

I am so disappointed to find out that Airborne claims were fraudulent. I wish it weren’t so. That said, I happen to have poof-of-purchase for seven boxes of the stuff, so I am filing a claim.

Ray Castro as Spanky the Clown? OMG! I can’t wait for Frolicon now!

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TES Offers Free Education To Pro Dom Community

March 4th, 2008 · 1 Comment

As reported in many newspapers across the country, a customer of a professional dungeon in NYC was injured recently in an unfortunate accident. In response to this, the NYC based TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) is reaching out to professional dominants with an offer of free education and support.

TES Media Representative, Susan Wright says: “When something like this happens, it reminds us that we can never be too careful or be too knowledgeable when participating in consensual BDSM activities. TES offers educational classes and workshops every week to the Adult Alternative Community and as a show of support would like to offer these classes free to any actively working Professional Dom/Domme, during the months of March, April & May.” To register please visit http://www.tes.org/pd

As the oldest and largest BDSM support & education organization in the USA, TES has been educating the public on safe, sane & consensual BDSM practices since 1971. TES presents anywhere from 2 to 5 educational meetings, workshops & parties every week at various Manhattan locations. You can visit www.tes.org or call (212) 388-7022 for more information on how you can attend these events.

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Buy a boy

March 4th, 2008 · No Comments

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Sugasm #121

March 4th, 2008 · No Comments


Sarah Jane Ceylon on DeviceBondage.com

Sarah Jane Ceylon on DeviceBondage.com
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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #122? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Why I like sex blogs
“A few have changed the way I think about certain issues.”

A Date With Murphy
“No. NO! This is not fucking happening.”

Lust and Sassiness
“Some of the flames that your feistiness stoke within me lack subtlety, lack grace, lack restraint.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Writer Strike

Editor’s Choice
An After The Date Love Letter

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

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Find Lolita – March 2008 and beyond

March 2nd, 2008 · No Comments


Daphne Rosen, Cherry Torn and Madison Young on whippedass.com

Daphne Rosen, Cherry Torn and Madison Young on whippedass.com
We just saw Madison Young’s film at Cinekink today and it was really hot!

March 20-23 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching Age Play for Consenting Adults, The Well-Hung Hand and “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

March 28-30 – Portland, OR
Kinkfest – teaching “Sensory Deprivation & Control” and “That will shut them up”

May 1-5 – San Francisco, IL
International Ms Leather Weekend: teaching “The Erotic Impact of Spanking” and “The Fereedy Pig Battles The Green-Eyed Monster” plus running The Celebrity Auction

May 17 – NYC
TES: teaching “The Erotic Impact of Spanking”

June 21 – NYC
Leather Pride Night

July 25-27 – Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains: teaching “Hot Wax to the Max” plus one other class

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2 Girls 1 Cup Reaction

March 1st, 2008 · 1 Comment

Here’s the trailer for this year’s Cinekink starring me and Boymeat. Of course, it’s much better up on the big screen. So come out this weekend and enjoy!

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Museums To Do Soon

February 28th, 2008 · No Comments

I want to go to the Cai Guo-Qiang exhibit at the Guggenheim. The museum is “pay what you wish” on Friday nights from 5:45 to 7:45pm.

And I want to go to the William Steig exhibit at the Jewish Museum. He did a lot of New Yorker cartoons and he is the author of Shrek! Admission is free on Saturdays from 11am to 5:45pm.

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