Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

Boymeat had highlights put in his hair for IML. To which a het friend said, “How gay!” And to which a gay friend said, “How straight!” Proving once again, that… what does this prove? … oh, yeah, right, something about Boymeat’s bisexuality. Whatever! So, my point, aside from posting another gratuitous photo of Boymeat, is […]

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Friday night is party night at IML. I had planned on party-hopping, but I was asked to emcee the Bootblack Party (the person who was scheduled had a family emergency). So here’s where I am emceeing the Bootblack Party. At that point I was introducing Q, International Ms Bootblack 2008. (Thanks to Rich Stadtmiller for […]

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This IML post is dedicated to the unbelievable hotness that is Peggy Sue. OMG! Here she is at Opening Ceremonies on Thursday with Q, International Ms Bootblack 2008. Here she is at Pecs & Personality on Saturday with her date, Vick Germany. Vick is from San Francisco and was an IML judge. And at the […]

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I’ve always had a special connection to the bootblack community and they’ve always welcomed me and made me feel special. I was invited to the bootblack lunch on Thursday where I got to catch up with some friends and meet some new folks. The International Mr Bootblack (IMBB) contestants are set up in the vending […]

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I am devoting an entire post to Boymeat‘s new leather pants. I have dubbed these the blow job pants. All you have to do is unzip the two zippers and, look, there it all is! Anyway, just look at the crotch. That is the first thing most people at IML look at anyway. In these […]

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This sign represents how committed IML is to including everybody in the community. Something for everyone. This year the contest even had a heterosexual man competing; we’ve already seen transmen and bisexuals in the past. We also saw the first ever contestant in a wheelchair; I remember a deaf contestant in the past as well. […]

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On Sunday I went home with Dossie. She lives up in the hills. We went over the Golden Gate bridge. She prepared a lovely dinner and we talked all night. Mainly about poly stuff. She and Janet are doing a whole revised edition of The Ethical Slut. It’s time to update it. Dossie took some […]

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Susan The New Girl and AJ Stalkerboy This was the first time since AJ became my boy that we both went to the same event separately. And it worked brilliantly. AJ was able to assist tomo, the Operations Producer, and I was able to do all my stuff and whore around. But we also got […]

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As I mentioned in this post, I made a mistake at the IMsL Celebrity Auction. I was rushed to start the event early, and in the rush, got a little mixed up, and I forgot to auction off one of the celebrities. That celebrity was Blue, one of my leather family members and someone with […]

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I am so excited about the classes for this year’s TES Fest. Boymeat programmed them; Sue and I helped! Here they are (some of the titles will change but you can get the idea). Bondage Track 1. Defining Moments – GrayDancer 2. Military Style Bondage – GrayDancer 3. Fetish Performance Techniques – GrayDancer 4. Laughter […]

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