Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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November 25th, 2004 · No Comments

Volume 10, Number 25 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.


“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”

– Mark Twain

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I met up with Peggy O on Friday night in Charlotte, NC. I taught CBT for CAPEX ( on Saturday. Dave, one of the local members was lined up as my bottom and he just about let me do anything to him. He was a real good sport. CAPEX is a really nice BDSM group. As a fundraiser, they raffled off a scene with me. A really great bottom won the raffle and we did a hot caning scene at the Saturday night party.

I also did a scene with Peggy – flogging, staples, single tail and fire. I left the staples in that night. The next day we worked out in the gym and she found the sweat to be very stingy. She then drove us 5 hours to Luray, VA with them in. We stayed in the Victorian Inn ( in the Boudoir Suite with two fireplaces – this stay was her early Christmas gift to me. When we arrived we took a bubble bath in the two-person Jacuzzi tub. I scrubbed her back with soap and water to keep the staples clean. After dinner, I finally removed them. I love road trips! Thanks to Peggy for arranging this one.


My favorite jerk-off magazine of all time is Bound & Gagged. I have almost every back issue and I have a lifetime subscription. Outbound Press, publisher of B&G, has recently announced that Robert Davolt, former publisher and editor of Drummer magazine, has accepted the position of editor-in-chief of both the print and online editions of Bound & Gagged magazine. The first issue (#103) with the new editorial management is expected to be on newsstands this week.

Founded by publisher Bob Wingate in 1987, B&G is based in New York City with an online-only version at


The Leather Archives & Museum concludes a milestone year, making history while preserving history, as the Chicago-based institution begins its fourteenth year.

By far the most dramatic news is the successful completion of the capital campaign which raised over $400,000 in less than seven years to buy the Museum’s home at 6418 North Greenview on Chicago’s near north side.

“Ownership of the building not only means the absence of rent or mortgage payments,” says Executive Director Rick Storer, “it is also proof of the permanence and viability of leather, fetish and BDSM culture.” A mortgage-burning celebration is being planned for Sunday, February 20, 2005.

Major acquisitions in the past year include the business records of New York’s L.U.R.E. bar and artwork by Steve Masters and Etienne. A special exhibit from the museum collections exhibited at the San Francisco Public Library and the LA&M was admitted into the Chicago Metropolitan Library system. The organization’s newsletter expanded to a quarterly magazine called “Leather Times” with feature articles, photos and exclusive content about leather history and culture.

The Leather Archives & Museum exists to compile, preserve and maintain the history, archives and memorabilia of leather and related lifestyles for historical, educational and research purposes. Information on the organization, membership and publications is available at the museum or at


Tuesday 12/7 at TES, NYC
“How To Be A Greedy Pig: Strategies For Poly Success”

Tuesday 12/14 at TES, NYC
“Annual Holiday Pot Luck and Grab Bag” with Lolita Claus and Her Elves

Friday 12/17 thru Sunday 12/19 at Fetish Fair Fleamarket, Boston
“King Tut’s Kink: Mummification!”
“How To Play With Needles”


Q. I would love to hire you to train my man. I have had his scrotum infused several times but he still goes back and masterbates. please send phone number.

A. Sorry, I do not do this kind of work. Try Good luck!


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Sadie Crabtree interview in On Our Backs magazine:

Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf

Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!

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