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LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS

August 6, 2003

Volume 9, Number 30© Copyright 2003 by Lolita Wolf

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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK

“Desire and longing are the whips of God.”

– Anna Wickham

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DIVA #5

Last weekend, I went down to New Orleans for the

LLC board meeting. Oh my, New Orleans is just such

a party town. Luckily, the board got all its business

done on Saturday during the day, so that left us lots

of time to have fun. We did a lot of drinking and

eating. I had beignets for the first time

(www.cafedumonde.com) and we ate at the legendary

Commander’s Palace (http://www.commanderspalace.com),

Margaretaville (www.margaritaville.com) and Acme

(nola.com/oystercam).

We also had a chance to meet with the LLC local

organizing committee, both in a formal meeting and at

a BBQ hosted by RampartDom. They have a lot of

great ideas and are doing a lot of planning. LLC-8 in

New Orleans will be fabulous. Mark your calendars for

April 2-4, 3004. Info: www.leatherleadership.org

On Saturday night we went to a play party hosted by

NOBLE (lanoble.org). I did not play but I voyeured.

Afterwards, back at the inn, Glenda Rider went over my

knee. After a long sensual warm up, she counted out

her birthday spanks. 40! Happy Birthday, Glenda! And

thanks for being part of my Diva Project.

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EYE ON THE PRIZE

Pitchfork Productions’ “Eye On The Prize” intends to

cover award ceremonies and competitions that are not

well know, or rarely heard of, outside of the community

that they serve. The second episode will take viewers

behind the scenes of the Ms World Leather competition

and will follow three of the Ms World Leather contestants

as they go for possible victory. This episode hopes to

show what makes these passionate women tick, how

they got involved in the Adult Alternative Lifestyle

community, and what they think it takes to become the

winner.

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LEATHER GIRL NETWORK

sheryl dee, American Leatherwoman 2003 and other

leather girls from around the country are creating the

Leather Girl Network. Leather girls are defined as men

and women, slaves, submissives, and bottoms with a

feminine heart. Leather girls are not defined by biology

or role within the leather community. ABW, Inc has now

also included the new title of American Leathergirl.

“As the boy movement has gained momentum, girls

have begun to find their voice, say Sheryl dee. “On my

travels around the country i frequently hear from other

leather girls a sense of loneliness and a desire to find

a social support network. As a femme slave, i know how

isolating it can be at times when the only groups or

organizations we seem able to find are boys clubs.”

You can find Leather Girl Network at

groups.yahoo.com/group/Leather_Girl_Network

It is intended as need a place to share stories, support,

learn from each other and grow. Info:

Sheryl@americanbrotherhood.com

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Q & A OF THE WEEK

Q. I’ve got this friend. She’s interested in

submission but she has this problem…she can’t handle

smells. I don’t mean ‘could you bathe once a week,

please?’ I mean, she can’t handle the smell of a person

who’s showered two minutes ago. It’s just body smells,

too. Not even body /odor/, but just normal…body

smells. I already asked about putting her shirt over her

head (heh. Always thinking, me!) but, apparently that’s

not enough. Have you heard of this before?

Suggestions? Thanks so much!

A. Well, she must have a problem with plain old

vanilla sex, then, too. She has a big problem here.

Maybe she needs to talk to a doctor about it. Barring

that, she needs to either mask the odor with something

stronger smelling or else block the smell – maybe with

a hood.

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EVENTS OF THE WEEK

Thursday 8.7 NYC

Red & Evilina host Submit Women and Trans Sex and

SM Party. 9pm-2am (doors close at 1 am) at Studio 253,

253 E Houston, between Aves A & B. $15. Info:

www.SubmitParty.com or 718.789.4053

Friday 8.8 NYC

Applemunch 6:30pm at the Moonstruck Diner, 23 St &

9th Ave. Info: http://www.applemunch.org

Friday 8.8 NYC

DFS presents “One floger, two floggers, three

floggers…. four.. and You’ll be back for more!” with Sir

Joseph. Floggers, the most common toy in most toy

bags, and still the most versatile. Joseph will go through

not only flogging techniques but other uses for a flogger.

He will cover different sizes and types of floggers, and

how to use one or two at a time. Using just the tips, or

the entire fall, to produce thud or sting, will also be

discussed and demonstrated. In addition, you will learn

“Florentine” flogging techniques, which are breathtaking

to watch. Bring your floggers, as the presenter will stay

after the meeting to assist you with your technique..

7:45pm at Paddles, 250 W 26th St, between 7 & 8 Aves.

$8 ($4 for DSF & affiliate members). Info:

www.DomSubFriends.com

Saturday 8.9 NYC

TES Dungeon Monitoring Workshop with Bob Walter.

If you haven’t attended a DM workshop, it’s a great

opportunity to learn about safe public play and how to

manage a play party. Many big events are coming up

that need qualified volunteers to be dungeon monitors.

The TES DM training program is recognized by many

other leather organizations as qualification for this prize

volunteer spot. 2-5pm at The Center, 208 W 13th St,

betwen 7 & Greenwich Aves. $20 at the door, $15 in

advance ($5 discount for members of TES and other

SM/leather orgs). Info:www.tes.org

This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace

Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular but

surely demanding…): The Eulenspiegel Not Til chat

room on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES event but an

unofficial place online where many TES members and

friends hang out and talk. No set topic. It is a good

place to ask questions, debate the answers, ask and

receive advice, compare notes about the scene, gossip

about last week, plan the upcoming week, flirt a little,

be serious and not so serious. On AOL in the Town

Square area of the People Connection in a “member

room” – not private: aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel not til.

Add this location to your Favorite Places Folder so that

it’s easy to come back.

Tuesday 8.12 NYC

TES Meeting: “Come Meet the Candidates!” An

opportunity to meet and ask questions of those

running for the Board and Arbiter in the September

election. 7:30pm at 75 Bleecker St, just east of

Broadway. TES Members only. Free. Info:

212-388-7022 or www.tes.org

Wednesday 8.13 NYC

TES Novice Group: “The Anatomy of a Scene.”

Frequent Novice Group attendee “Corey” will

demonstrate a live BDSM scene with full analysis and

commentary. We’ll be talking to the participants before,

during and after their scene so everyone can look

inside their heads and get a feel for what’s going on in

there! $8 ($4 for members of TES and other SM/leather

orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or www.tes.org

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LINKS OF THE WEEK

The Bitch of Dupont Circle has a new column online

and this one is on Age Play and quotes me:

www.dailygusto.com/columns/bitchslap/index.html

The Dominatrix run:

http://tinyurl.com/jic5

Have fun! Play safe!

Lolita Wolf

Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!

http://members.aol.com/lolitassc

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