LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS
June 18, 2003
Volume 9, Number 23
© Copyright 2003 by Lolita Wolf
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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK
“….. a man who made the Marquis de Sade look like
Pat Boone.”
– Grant Stoddard, writing about Manflesh aka
Boymeat on Nerve.com
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LEATHER PRIDE NIGHT
Leather Pride Night happened Saturday night in the
elegant Puck Building. Twelve diverse groups came
together to work and put this event on and it was
fabulous. Everyone was there! I worked with Andrew
to coordinate the volunteers. Over 150 people
volunteered along with 50 presenters and about 30
staff. It takes a lot of people to make this event h
appen and every one of them is important and
appreciated.
I bought $40 worth of raffles tickets from Puppy, who
wore a Mr S butt plug puppy tail which wagged every
time she moved. $10 is supposed to be crotch to floor.
Puppy somehow had me bosom to floor around the
ankles and back up again. I won three raffle prizes: a
couples membership to TES which I will give to Neptune,
a subscription to The Leather Journal which I will use to
renew my subscription and a Shotgun video. It just
proves that you have to be in it to win it.
I browsed the flea market and found Carol Queen’s
Exhibitionism For The Shy and a book from 1981,
“Fantoccini: A Little Book Of Memories” by Kirby
Congdon. Then I also grabbed a barefoot bondage
magazine from the 70’s. I presented that to Boymeat
who looked at it real quick and said, “Thanks, I can
jerk off to that.”
The auction seemed to go really fast this year and I
missed some items that were of interest to me. Other
items just went for too much money. I did manage to
snag a poster for Charles Gatewood’s Dances Sacred
and Profane with Fakir on it, a perfed leather hood by
Leather Creations, a pair of house seats for Thoroughly
Modern Millie and two hours of dungeon time at Arena.
So I really did score.
Numbers are still not finalized. I’ll report them when
they are.
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NELS/b CONTEST
On Friday night, Neptune, Bridgett and I attended the
Northeast LeatherSir and boy contest at The Slide Bar
down on the Bowery. We had dinner first at one of my
favorite restaurants, Marion’s. Apparently, The Slide
and Marion’s are owned by the same person.
There was a nice turnout for a NYC contest and the
venue was the perfect size. There were not many
contestants. andy fischman of New York City was the
only boy contestant and he was judged on points with
a high enough score to be the winner. Two contestants
ran for the LeatherSir title: Bob Forbes of Syracuse and
Drew Kramer of Jersey City. Bob Forbes was the winner.
One thing that I thought was really cool is the
presentation of gift certificates from The Leather Man to
Coyote (NELS 2002) and Rob Hargrave (NELb 2002).
The previous producer (Davian) disappeared with the
prizes and the proceeds of the 2002 contest and gave
them no support. This was a nice consolation prize a
year later.
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“FILTHY PAPARAZZO”
So this creep named Grant Stoddard, posing as a
novice, signs up for Leather Retreat and gets a ride to
camp with Boymeat. Boymeat, being the friendly and
generous guy, takes Grant under his wing and tells him
all sorts of stuff about himself and camp and introduces
Grant to his friends. Turns out Grant is an undercover
reporter for Nerve.com which is supposed to be a
sophisticated sex-positive website. Grant writes
clueless and judgmental “dispatches” betraying the
trust and friendliness that he received at camp. Frankly,
I find Grant to be whiney and pathetic. See the story at www.nerve.com/dispatches/stoddard/leathercamp/
There was a feedback section but it got taken down.
They say the story will be consolidated and a new
feedback section will be up on Friday. In the meantime,
if you wish to send feedback, send email
Michael Martin – Editor-in-chief at michael@nerve.com and
Grant Stoddard – Associate Editor at grant@nerve.com
You can see what Grant looks like at www.ikeepadiary.com/diary/2002/my_26_bday/frame_index.html
(Make sure you scroll down to the picture of him
pissing off the roof onto the neighbor’s patio.)
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GRANT STODDARD AT CAMP – THE UNTOLD STORY
By Kayla
So, our favorite BDSM “newbie”, Grant, left out some
interesting details from our scene on Thursday night,
so I thought I’d share them with you all, since he has
no problem sharing other people’s details.
After Amanda and I finished lightly flogging him and
running our nails over his body and just generally
groping him, he asked us if he could jerk off. We
untied his hands and obliged his request. While he
was jerking off, Amanda and I were making out with
each other and with him, one of us in front of him, the
other behind him. After about 10 minutes, Stacy came
into the scene and told him that he had to stop, he
was taking too long. The look of slight horror on his
face was priceless. It’s even better now that I know
it was all somewhat of an illusion. So, I held his arms
back while Stacy started topping Amanda a little bit.
Eventually, I let him go back to jerking off and after
about 10 more minutes, he finally came. Then, Stacy
and I took finger fulls of his own cum and fed it to him
as he eagerly swallowed it. Yum!
I also have first-hand knowledge that Grant actually
participated in the orgy in the group grope room. I
specifically remember having my hand on his dick once
again as he fondled and made out with others.
Thanks for the memories…
-“Sandra”
**** Thanks to Kayla for filling us in on the juicy
details. *****
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TNG3: BDSM IN THE BIG CITY
The third national conference for the younger
generation of the BDSM community is set for
September 19th to 21st in New York City TNG3 is a
weekend-long event designed for BDSM enthusiasts
ages 18 to 35 (significant others outside the age range
are welcome) where you will get to know each other,
share ideas, network, and build the relationships that
will become the future of the BDSM scene in this
country and beyond.
The schedule includes walking tours of New York’s
kinky locales, three tracks of presentations, open-forum
discussions about who we are and where we’re going,
a crafters’ session where you can learn about building
your own toys, and three all-out-beyond-belief-we-
promise-no-Enigma-in-the-music parties! On top of all
this, building on the best attractions of past conferences,
even more opportunities for socializing have been added.
Once you’ve registered, you’ll receive full access to the
TNG3 web portal, where you can create your own profile
and browse those of other attendees. Costs have been
trimmed to the bone and incidental expenses will be
minimal. Info: http://www.tng3.org
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EVENTS OF THE WEEK
Friday 6.20 NYC
LSM’s Next Meeting and Program. 8pm Business for
Members Only. 8:45-10pm Program: Shaving with
Naughty Nancy. Cut to the chase. Is there a docile,
well behaved bottom who needs a new “do”? Or is
there a resistant switch who needs to be put in a
bottom head space in order to play further? There’s
nothing like a very sharp edge securely placed on one’s
privates to stop breath and motion. Start stripping…all
the hair that guards one there. Straight edge shaving
can be fun (and creative) for the top and extremely
arousing for the bottom, or cunt, as the case may be.
Learn how to cut patterns into any body hair, or how
to shave it clean at a play party. A scene unto itself,
shaving is also a lovely lead into sex. A freshly shaved
hole, for example, is highly aroused. $8 ($5 for active
LSM members). Women only. At The Center, 208 W.
13th St. Interpreted into American Sign Language.
Wheelchair accessible. Info: www.lesbiansexmafia.org
Friday 6.20 NYC
DFS presents “Can’t Start a fire without a spark” with
BobH. For many, the two things that provoke the most
fear and allure are fire and electric play. This demo will
show how to combine both at the same time in a scene.
The feeling of your body submitting to the feel and
control of electricity. The prickly feelings that make your
muscles involuntarily react, combined with warm,
enveloping feel of the liquid tongue of fire is incredible.
7:45pm at Paddles, 250 W 26th St, between 7 & 8 Aves.
$8 ($4 for DSF & affiliate members). Info:
www.DomSubFriends.com
Saturday 6.21
GMSMA hosts a fundraiser for Folsom St. East VII and
the Leather Archives & Museum. Four demonstrations
will be featured as well as a display table of items from
the Leather Archive & Museum. Light food and a raffle
ticket for drawing of a special prize. 8-midnight at The
Eagle, 28 St between 10 and 11 Aves. $10 includes a
drink ticket. Info: www.gmsma.org
Saturday 6.21 NYC
TES Spanking Group presents: ” Spanking and the
Spiritual Union” with Goddess Shakti. What is the
magical bondthat is formed when the warm palm of a
Domme strikes the bottom of her Bottom? In the best
of all possible worlds, during a spanking an energy is
created between the Top and Bottom that connects
them. 7P:30-10pm at Paddles, 250 W 26 St, between
7 & 8 Aves. $8 ($4 for members of TES and other
SM/leather orgs and anybody with an LPN ticket stub).
Info: www.tes.org
Saturday 6.21 NYC
TES Novice Excursion. Come alone or as a couple.
No dress code. Meet 9pm at Chelsea Gallery
Restaurant, 72 Seventh Ave., between 14 & 15 Sts.
At around 10:30pm, after dinner, coffee or a snack,
they’ll go over to Paddles together. Info: www.tes.org
Sunday 6.22 NYC
GMSMA’s Folsom Street East, an S/M-Leather-Fetish
Block Party. 2-8pm on 13th Street between 9 Ave &
Washington St, and Washington St between 14 &
Little West 12 Sts. Suggested donation is $5. Info:
www.folsomstreeteast.org
Sunday 6.22 NYC
The season opener of Sex & The City on HBO at
9pm features one last look at the L.U.R.E. This shoot
was the very last thing that happened at the L.U.R.E.
Producer/director Michael David was very kind to allow
the bar to be identified on the video. See 40 of your
buddies doing what they used to do at the L.U.R.E.
This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace
Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular but
surely demanding…): The Eulenspiegel Not Til chat
room on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES event but an
unofficial place online where many TES members and
friends hang out and talk. No set topic. It is a good
place to ask questions, debate the answers, ask and
receive advice, compare notes about the scene, gossip
about last week, plan the upcoming week, flirt a little,
be serious and not so serious. On AOL in the Town
Square area of the People Connection in a “member
room” – not private: aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel not
til. Add this location to your Favorite Places Folder so
that it’s easy to come back.
Tuesday 6.24 NYC
TES Meeting: “”The Most Important Toy in Your Toy Bag
…Your Brain” with Bo (aka Master J. Floggers, paddles,
whips, clothes pins!!! All great fun, however if you
haven’t learned how to communicate with your partner,
get into their heads find out what they really want and
need, you are missing the best part of BDSM!
negotiation is a LOT more than finding someone’s limits.
It’s the beginning of a wonderful journey! 7:30pm at
75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for
members of TES and other SM/leather orgs). Info:
212-388-7022 or www.tes.org
Wednesday 6.25 NYC
TES Switchables Group presents “Corporal Play and
the Switchable.” $8 ($4 for members of TES and other
SM/leather orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or www.tes.org
Wednesday 6.25 NYC
GMSMA presents “Guy Stuff: Punch Me Harder .”
Everyone likes a nice ass spanking now and then. But
what about a punch in the face or to the gut? Is this
just raw aggression or is it playing with the sexual
tensions between men? Or maybe a longed-for rite of
passage? And what about those gay boys who wrestle
or box? How much is sport and how much erotic?
7:30pm at The Center, 208 W 13 St, between 7 &
Greenwich Aves. $7 ($5 for members of GMSMA).
Info: www.gmsma.org
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LINKS OF THE WEEK
The Sovereign House review of Leather Retreat:
www.leatherfamilyonline.com/full_story.cfm?i=82
The penis song:
www.tlf.cx/dearpenis.swf
Chuck Renslow’s speech at IML 2003:
www.gmsma.org/newslink/iml25.html
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc
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