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LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS

April 9, 2003

Volume 9, Number 15 © Copyright 2003 by Lolita Wolf

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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK

“Slave vacation … Now why didn’t I think of that. ”

– Vi Johnson

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LIFE WITH SLAVEBOY

We signed a new contract. Our sixth contract. Three

years. That’s longer than the last five contracts combined.

Yikes!

This time we did it without ritual and without witnesses.

We felt we did not need these “props” because, as Neptune

said, “We’re living it.” We just got naked, consented,

signed and fucked. Mine!

Although, I suppose you could say that we have a new

ritual now. We have joined a gym…

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WIN A TRIP TO IML

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) is

raffling off a trip for 2 to the 25th Anniversary of

International Mr. Leather (IML) weekend. The prize

includes 2 weekend packages, three nights’

accommodations at the sold out Palmer House Hilton,

and two round-trip plane tickets within the Continental

United States. The drawing will be during ABW on

Sunday, April 27. Raffle tickets are $5 each or 5 for $20.

You can PayPal $$ to me at LolitaSSC@aol.com and I

can mail you the tickets or make a check out to NCSF

and mail to: NCSF, 822 Guilford Ave. #127, Baltimore,

MD 21202-3707 no later than April 20.

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LLC, INC. SEEKS BOARD MEMBERS

The Leather Leadership Conference, Inc. is seeking

new members for its Board of Directors. The deadline

for applications is May 15th, 2003. Applications can be

found on the home page of the LLC website:

http://www.leatherleadership.org

Applications will also be available at this year’s

conference. There will be two opportunities to meet the

current members of the Board of Directors during LLC 7

in Boston this weekend: Saturday from 2:00pm – 3:15pm

is the LLC, Inc.- Meet the Board Members Workshop

AND Sunday at 12:15 pm the Board will host a Social in

the Hospitality Suite. Please join us to get answers to

your questions and share your ideas.

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Q & A OF THE WEEK

Q. What effect, if any, does electrotorture to the male

genitals have on sperm production? Both immediate and

long-term.

** I asked Rory from Oklahoma City to answer this one. **

A. Unfortunately there is no specific, much less

reputable study on this subject. Given that we’re not

cooking the cells in normal e-stim I would say this is

not much of an issue, especially long term. However

we could be talking about increased cancer or birth

defects, especially with the more powerful toys. My

personal and totally un-medically certified position

would be to worry more about x-ray machines and

especially MRI’s, or anything that involves iodine

injections then your average electrical session.

There are also other considerations to your question.

I don’t think any reasonable study or guess would create

a problem with sperm production but there is evidence,

however slight that you can damage the sperm DNA

with intense and long term exposure to magnetic fields.

Here is a link to some related studies:

http://www.i-sis.org.uk/FOI3.php This outfit is in my

opinion on the paranoid side and reading other articles

will give you a feeling about this one.

If you can wade through that article (and its related

ones), you will see that there is some concern over

increased cancer and Leukemia risks but not enough

proof that anyone is going to really do anything about it.

I would be more concerned about diet, including iodine,

lead and even alcohol use. Here are a couple of article links

that may shed some light for you, but be warned unless

you’re prepared for lifestyle changes they may worry you

more then your original question.

http://infertility.about.com/library/ifctr/blspmct.htm?terms=lifestyles

http://www.ivillagehealth.com/experts/fertility/qas/0,,166257_151109,00.html

http://www.ivillagehealth.com/experts/fertility/qas/0,,166257_128814-1,00.html

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/662613.stm

** Thanks to Rory from OKC for answering this question. **

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EVENTS OF THE WEEK

Thursday 4.10 NYC

TES Board of Directors Meeting. Members may come

and sign up to speak on a particular subject or just come

and observe. 7:30pm at Purple Passion, 211 West 20th

street, Basement. Members Only – No Donation. Info:

212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org

Friday 4/11 NYC

Applemunch 6:30pm at Moonstruck Diner, 23 St & 9

Ave. Info: http://www.applemunch.org

Friday 4.11 NYC

DomSubFriends Meeting: “Knife Play: Fear, Pain and

eroticism” with David and Gem. Relative safety, concerns,

warm-ups, how to personally define one’s “edge,” and

differences between cuttings and knife play. Learn how to

incorporate a combination of fear, pain, and control to

create an erotic power exchange during a scene. 8pm

at Paddles, 250 W 26 St between 7 & 8th Aves. $8 (4

for members of DSF & affiliate members). Info:

http://www.DomSubFriends.com

Saturday 4.12 NYC

TES Workshop: “Sex with BDSM, BDSM with Sex”

with Master Jim. 2-5pm at The LGBT Center, 208 W 13

St, just west of 7th Ave. $15 advance/$20 at the door

($5 discount for members of TES and other leather/SM

orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org

This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace

Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular but

surely demanding…): The Eulenspiegel Not Til chat

room on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES event but an

unofficial place online where many TES members and

friends hang out and talk. No set topic. It is a good

place to ask questions, debate the answers, ask and

receive advice, compare notes about the scene, gossip

about last week, plan the upcoming week, flirt a little, be

serious and not so serious. On AOL in the Town Square

area of the People Connection in a “member room” – not

private: aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel not til. Add this

location to your Favorite Places Folder so that it’s easy

to come back.

Tuesday 4.15 NYC

TES presents “A Night With Jack McGeorge.” Ask

Jack anything about everything. From Master/slave

relationships to bondage to the flack with the Washington

Post. Jack is fascinating no matter what topic. 7:30pm

at 75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for

members of TES and other SM/leather orgs). Info:

212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org

Wednesday 4.16 NYC

TES Dominant Women/submissive men’s Group

presents “Teasing & Denial.” A panel discussion dealing

with the qualities, attitudes and ideas a Dominant woman

has for her submissive man and her control over this

possession he so freely gives up to her. 7:30pm at 75

Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for members

of TES and other SM/leather orgs). Info: 212-388-7022

or http://www.tes.org

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LINKS OF THE WEEK

None this week.

Have fun! Play safe!

Lolita Wolf

Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!

http://members.aol.com/lolitassc

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Copyright 2003 Lolita Wolf

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