LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS – March 26, 2003
Volume 9, Number 13 © Copyright 2003 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or
in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively
those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which
the author may be associated.
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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK
“I think the best we can do is to assume that the right approaches will be the ones that emerge by
courageously facing some realities squarely and honestly, without being influenced by personal agendas,
needing to paint a rosy picture of things, or needing to be ‘politically correct.’”
– Guy Baldwin
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THE P+P LEAVES LEATHERPAGE.COM
The origins of Lolita’s Predictions & Predilections began back in 1995. This has always been the
way I stay in contact with my friends. It is the weekly update to what is happening in my life, what I
think is important in the SM scene and a planning tool for the coming week. The P+P has evolved
into more than a way to stay in touch with my circle of friends and it now reaches thousands of readers
per week.
For the past five years, Joe Gallagher has hosted the web version of the P+P. Joe’s site,
http://www.leatherpage.com, has been a tremendous resource to the community, providing a space
where many leather columnists could be read. I have been very fortunate to be included.
On more than occasion, Joe and I have had editorial disagreements about the content of my column.
I have always been very clear that these views are my own (see the disclaimer above). I want to state
my opinions freely. After much soul-searching, I have come to the conclusion that I must pull the P+P
from Leatherpage.com.
Thank you very much to Joe for hosting the P+P. It can now be seen on the web at
http://lolitawolf.blogspot.com …and of course, you can still subscribe to it via email
(LolitaSSC@aol.com)
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BOND CON NYC
I went out to Bond Con in Queens for the day on Friday. What a culture shock! The main focus was
in the exhibit hall with the various bondage models being the center of attraction. There were all types
of girls (and one guy – Delano) and they really knew how to work the crowds of “fan boys.” The models
flirted and made arrangements to be tied up by riggers who wanted to show off their tie-up skills. The
fan-boys, mainly single men (or men without their wives), stood around and watched. Many had
cameras and clicked away. They were oddly reminiscent of Hellfire’s wankers, but these guys had
their clothes on and did not touch themselves.
I hung out with Midori and Michael Blue and offered to perform small acts of service. The two of them
have teamed up to do a fabulous bondage website (http://www.beautybound.com). Midori had a bondage
frame with her and suspended three different models during the time I was there. She would look at them,
study their bodies and ask them questions about their level of experience and then just go to work. She
took extra care with a model who had never been suspended before. Once the models were up, she would
add some rope and loosen others and the suspension would morph into a whole other position. Midori is
very fluid.
I saw a bunch of people I know. Saw Lady J whom I hadn’t seen in years and she looked great. The
guys from Stationhouse were there and they had cute camouflage swimsuits for women (http://www.stationhouse.com/outpost/womens_items/camo_swimwear.htm). Also saw Leather By
Danny, Rainbow Rope, Details and others.
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THE REST OF THE WEEKEND
M Blair presented at Lesbian Sex Mafia on Friday night. She taught all the safety aspects and
techniques of Cutting and then did a demo which turned out beautifully. I really like the way she
teaches – she is very organized and complete.
After a bite to eat with other LSM folks, I headed over to meet up with Boymeat and Neptune at the
LURE. The LURE was packed! It seems everyone who came into NYC for the Black Party and Night
of 1000 Gowns and showed up at the LURE. We got to see a bunch of people and catch up with them.
It was also a big night for Neptune. Friday was the last day of his slave contract and the beginning of
slave vacation. How is it that he always ends up uncollared at the LURE during slave vacation? That
drives me nuts. He’s too cute to be loose at the LURE. At Midnight it was also Neptune’s birthday.
He is now 25, which is a great age because that is when your car insurance rates go down. To celebrate,
he smoked cigars with Boymeat.
On Saturday night, I met up with Boymeat at Paddles. There was also a huge crowd there with many
from Bond Con and I had to wait in a line outside to get in. It was tough finding a spot to play, but we
finally did, and I beat the crap out of him. Floggers. Unrestrained. He would yell in a primal way and
jump up and down. I felt very strong and I hit him very hard. A few times he sank to one knee, “Get up!
I’m not done.” He would get up and we would keep going. Finally, he collapsed on the floor sobbing.
Oh, yeah.
On Sunday, I work Neptune up early (1pm) and dragged him out to the TES Party, held at Nutcracker
Suite. TES has not played at the Nut in over a year and much of the place has been renovated. It
looked really beautiful. In celebration of his birthday, I allowed him to pick the scene and he chose
bondage. I took my prettiest rope and laid down a harness and then layered more over his arms and
legs. The colors wove in and he giggled, remembering our first date four years ago when I tied him up
at Hellfire, “I seem to always inspire you to break symmetry.” I chose some vet wrap that
color-coordinated with the rope and wrapped his head. I added bungie cords so that he could bounce.
We were in the medical room where I turned off the white lights and kept the blue lights on low. It
looked really pretty. I need to get more bungie cords.
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SLAVE TRADE BY SUSAN WRIGHT
Slave Trade by Susan Wright, Book 1 of the Slave Trade Trilogy, published by Pocket Books will be
released in April 2003.
Slave Trade is a provocative new science fiction saga of slavery and rebellion. Human slaves can’t
defy their alien masters – or can they? Rose Rico never believed the rumors, that the government was
secretly selling human beings to the Alphas in exchange for advanced alien technology. The idea that
human sex slaves were a luxury item throughout the galaxy was just too ridiculous to take seriously –
until Rose found herself, along with hundreds of other human captives, bound for the far reaches of
space, and compelled to cater to the depraved desires of her new alien masters. As a rule, pleasure
slaves don’t live very long, especially the stubborn ones. But Rose refuses to give up. Someday,
somehow, she’ll win back her freedom-or die trying!
Susan Wright writes nonfiction books on art and popular culture, including SM Classics and Destination
Mars, and is also the author of nine Star Trek novels, including Dark Passions 1 & 2, Gateways: One
Small Step, Badlands, and Sins of Commission. Susan is the Spokesperson for the National Coalition
for Seuxal Freedom (NCSF), a national organization that supports the rights of consenting adults in the
SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities. Info: http://www.susanwright.info
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BEST WISHES TO PAT McCARTY
Long time readers will remember me posting occasionally about my friend, Pat McCarty of New Orleans.
About 4 years ago Pat was diagnosed with a rare form of carcinoid cancer. It is a slow growing type of
cancer. Over the past few years he has taken chemo and radiation treatments and takes daily doses
of medication for the cancer. Two weeks ago he took a turn for the worse. This type of cancer causes
numerous tumors and the tumors have now infiltrated his spinal cord. They did emergency surgery 2
weeks ago to remove one of the tumors that was pressing on his spinal cord. At this point he is still in
the hospital and is undergoing rehab. He is wheelchair bound and unable to walk or stand by himself due
to paralysis from the tumors on his spinal cord. They have hope that he will get some movement back
in his legs…how much they are unsure of since almost every vertebrae in his spine has these tumors.
He starts radiation tomorrow to see if they can shrink the tumors.
Pat needs the support and prayers of the community. He does not have email access right now and
probably won’t have it for the next couple of months. If anyone wants to contact him they can do so via
his long time fiend, Kristil Thompson at LdyDrkLove@aol.com
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TES FEST & NYC FETISH MARATHON
In mid May, New York City’s Fetish and BDSM communities are uniting to present The NYC Fetish
Marathon. This four-day non-stop festival of alternative sexuality will be anchored by both The Black &
Blue Ball X, kicking things off on Thursday, May 15, and The Eulenspiegel Society’s 3 day kink
extravaganza TES FEST, May 16 – 18. Many events, both large and small, will be happening all over
the city during the weekend including around-the-clock dungeon access to NYC’s most famous public
dungeon, Paddles until the wee hours of Monday morning.
The Eulenspiegel Society, 2003 winner of Pantheon of Leather’s Large Club of the Year Award, will
host TES Fest at The Hotel Pennsylvania. The hotel, one of the five largest in the City, is located at
7th Avenue at 33rd Street, in the heart of midtown and directly opposite Madison Square Garden and
Amtrak’s Penn Station so it is the single easiest hotel to get to and find in all of Manhattan. Macy’s,
the world’s largest department store, is one block up the street. The Empire State building is around the
corner. The Theater District is a few blocks away. Prices for TES Fest go up April 1. Info:
http://www.TesFest.org and http://www.FetishMarathon.com
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BRYAN “PUP” MULLIKIN
Beloved American Leatherboy 2001, Bryan “Pup” Mullikin departed this life Thursday March 13 at
his home in Chicago. He was 33 years old. Pup graced the Washington, DC leather community from
1999 until his May 2002 move to the Windy City. He had lived in New York and San Francisco prior to
the Nation’s Capital. He was no stranger to the Leather Community across the country, he will always
be known for his warm smile and effervescent personality.
He proudly served as President of the DC Boys of Leather for two years. He worked hard to help boys’
clubs across the country. It was his personal mission to impress upon the community the importance
of respect for all individuals including his fellow boys.
Pup is survived by his mother and father of Northern Kentucky. He was their only child. Burial will
be held in his family’s hometown. Brian’s family is in need of assistance with the burial arrangements,
and several people and clubs have already made generous donations. The DC Boys of Leather have
volunteered to collect donations on behalf of the community and forward them on to the family. Make
checks payable to DC Boys of Leather, write “Bryan” in the memo line, and sent by mail to: DC Boys
of Leather, Attn: Bryan Mullikin Memorial, PO Box 53286, Washington, DC 20009. Donations may also
be made by PayPal to treasurer@dcboysofleather.org and enter the subject as “Bryan Mullikin”
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GLLA WEEKEND
The Great Lakes Leather Alliance is producing its second annual GLLA Weekend the weekend of
August 22-24 in Indianapolis, IN. This pansexual weekend will include five regional leather competitions:
Great Lakes Leather Sir, Great Lakes Leather boy, Great Lakes Ms. Leather Pride, Great Lakes Boot
Black, and Great Lakes Master/slave. The weekend will also encompass a large and well-equipped
play-space, some gender specific furnished play-spaces, a vendors market, a hospitality suite, an
‘Exit to Eden’ Master/Mistress/slave auction for charity, kinky entertainment, nearly thirty educational
workshops and demos and many well-known speakers, judges, and presenters.
The host hotel offers a special rate of only $51. The location of the host hotel will be given only to
registered attendees of the event, and all attendees musy register in advance because no packages
will be sold on premises. Register before May 1 for the early-bird rate of $60. Info:
http://greatlakesleather.org
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EVENTS OF THE WEEK
Friday 3.28 NYC
DomSubFriends Meeting: “Passionate duo whips: Part 2” with Eric & jan and Special Guest
Joe Wheeler. 8pm at Paddles, 250 W 26 St between 7 & 8th Aves. $8 (4 for members of DSF &
affiliate members). Info: http://www.DomSubFriends.com
Saturday 3.29 NYC
TES Meeting: “Extreme Scenes…. Hard Play” with Bo (aka Master J) and Lady D. Ever wanted to
play really hard? Or do that really intense scene? Discuss and demo. 7:30-10pm at The Paddles,
250 W 26 St, between 7 & 8 Aves. $8 ($4 for members of TES and other leather/SM orgs) Info:
212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org
This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace
Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular but surely demanding…): The Eulenspiegel Not Til
chat room on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES event but an unofficial place online where many TES
members and friends hang out and talk. No set topic. It is a good place to ask questions, debate the
answers, ask and receive advice, compare notes about the scene, gossip about last week, plan the
upcoming week, flirt a little, be serious and not so serious. On AOL in the Town Square area of the
People Connection in a “member room” – not private: aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel not til. Add this
location to your Favorite Places Folder so that it’s easy to come back.
Tuesday 4.1 NYC
TES presents “Hypnosis In the Scene” with Jonathan Vale. 7:30pm at 75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway.
$8 ($4 for members of TES and other SM/leather orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org
Wednesday 4.2 NYC
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group presents “Sinle Tail Whips” with Eric & jan and Special Guest Joe Wheeler. 7:30pm at 75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for members of TES and other SM/leather orgs).
Info: 212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org
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LINKS OF THE WEEK
Binding arbitration yields $35,000 for bondage case:
http://www.law.com/servlet/ContentServer?pagename=OpenMarket/Xcelerate/View&t=PubArticleCA&c=PubArticle&cid=1046833528271
&live=true&cst=1&pc=0&pa=0
Alden Baker, who faced civil commitment for interest in S&M, was ruled not dangerous and released:
http://www.baywindows.com/news/396131.html
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc
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