Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I want to be a Toil Girl.

This Making of Cecilie cracks me up. Lot of SM. Part one and part two.

Hey, you Brooklyn people, Babeland opens in Park Slope on Tuesday.

And Bitchy Jones made me laugh with this post.

Viviane‘s been working on my new site (I’m not ready for you to see it yet) and my host exploded! Oy!

This IML post is dedicated to the unbelievable hotness that is Peggy Sue. OMG!

Here she is at Opening Ceremonies on Thursday with Q, International Ms Bootblack 2008.

Here she is at Pecs & Personality on Saturday with her date, Vick Germany. Vick is from San Francisco and was an IML judge.

And at the Contest on Sunday with my boy, AJ.

I’ve always had a special connection to the bootblack community and they’ve always welcomed me and made me feel special. I was invited to the bootblack lunch on Thursday where I got to catch up with some friends and meet some new folks.

The International Mr Bootblack (IMBB) contestants are set up in the vending area and the contest starts when the vending area opens on Friday. One of the traditions that the bootblacks have is First Shine, where women are the first people to get their boots done. This year, Q, International Ms Bootblack 2008, coordinated this and asked me to participate. I was honored and afterwards I took this photo.

I also volunteered for an hour helping to sell raffle tickets. Bootwerks donated a git certificate for a custom made pair of Wescos (value up to $750). What a great prize. Over $3000 of raffle tickets were sold. Here you can see son chris being measured for tickets by David Hawks. David is IMBB 2000 and the Coordinator of the IMBB contest.

Later in the weekend Bootdog oiled my new Georgia boots (bought from Bootwerks). He’s from the San Francisco Bay Area and he won the bootblack titlle this year. And look how cute he is!

I am devoting an entire post to Boymeat‘s new leather pants. I have dubbed these the blow job pants. All you have to do is unzip the two zippers and, look, there it all is! Anyway, just look at the crotch. That is the first thing most people at IML look at anyway. In these pants, Boymeat has a bulge. It looks like he’s got some package there!

And look at his cute butt here. I am in awe of these pants. They look custom-made but, no, they are off the rack from The Leather Man.

Oh, the leather jacket is new. He picked that up at the Leather Archive & Museum‘s silent auction on Saturday night.

An anonymous benefactor has given me a $400 gift certificate from J&R to buy an Asus Eee PC! I am so excited! I can’t say who gave this to me, but this is not an April Fool’s joke! Of course, now nobody will ever believe me. Meanwhile, the computer is right now out of stock – wah!

So, the list of TES Fest classes is being modified because we now have the incredibly talented and sexy Amanda Wildefyre presenting!

Gov. David Paterson has directed New York state agencies to recognize same-sex marriages in other jurisdictions (like Massachusetts, California and Canada). Hooray for that, but it’s not good enough. Weddings are big business. Same sex marriages need to be legal in NY so that people do not have to go elsewhere to get married. That’s good economics.

October is Contest Month in NYC.
Oct 4: Mr Eagle NYC Contest
Oct 11: Mr./Ms. NYC Leather Contest
Oct 18: Mr. East Coast Rubber Contest

I teach a Greedy Pig class on Threesomes but I don’t think I will include these rules: Threesome Rules from the Insecure Girlfriend

This sign represents how committed IML is to including everybody in the community. Something for everyone. This year the contest even had a heterosexual man competing; we’ve already seen transmen and bisexuals in the past. We also saw the first ever contestant in a wheelchair; I remember a deaf contestant in the past as well. Even the parties were diverse: there were the requisite parties for uniforms, rubber, gear, etc, but this year we saw the first ever ProDomme party.

The lobbies were packed with people day and night. This photo is from Thursday afternoon before things were really hopping. I loved going up and down that escalator and making a grand entrance.

There are always friends to be found in the lobby. Here’s Q, Mark Frazier and me. Q is from Atlanta and is International Ms Bootblack 2008. She’s scared of me. Mark Frazier is also scared of me. He owns the Dallas Eagle, is a partner in South Plains Leatherfest and has just taken ownership of International LeatherSir/boy. He and Randall Kinnear are bringing the contest back to San Francisco and are “looking forward to establishing the titles as one for players and educators within our communities.”

Opening ceremonies was on Thursday night. The doors of the ballroom were flung open and I was the first one in. We walked through a gauntlet of 51 contestants clapping and cheering the audience as they filed in. That’s a big switch. Usually we are the ones clapping and cheering for them!

This is when we all get our first look at the contestants on stage and watch them pick their numbers. It’s also where the current IML makes his step-down speech. Mike Gerle, IML 2007, spoke, showed a slide show and then did a ritual with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. At least he did not sing.

Here’s a photo of Thor, son chris and me. Thor was a judge. That’s a big deal. Pup had introduced son chris and me via telephone a few months ago. We befriended each other online and met in person for the first time at IML. He arranged to have a package delivered to my room: a box that contained a porcelain pig with sparkly jewels and a crown. On the box was a huge pink bow with this pretty sparkling tiara clipped to it. Wow! That made me feel very special!

On Sunday I went home with Dossie. She lives up in the hills. We went over the Golden Gate bridge.

She prepared a lovely dinner and we talked all night. Mainly about poly stuff. She and Janet are doing a whole revised edition of The Ethical Slut. It’s time to update it. Dossie took some notes on what I had to say and is going to use it for the book. How cool is that!

It had been a long weekend for us both, so we cuddled up together and went to sleep. In the morning, there was sex, breakfast and backgammon. Then we headed out to Mt. Tamalpais. Here’s Dossie on our way up. The weather was a bit dismal. The Pacific Ocean is all the way in the background .

It was a lot nicer once we got higher up. If there hadn’t been so many clouds, we could have seen San Francisco down there.

Afterwards we met up with Rae and had Thai food.