Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Free Foods

October 24th, 2008 · No Comments

Tess is always writing about Free Foods and how good it is. So, today I met up with Rita Seagrave and Nayland Blake and, boy, was she right about that! Everything I ate was delicious. Also, they have a lot of really good options for people who want a gluten free diet.

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No Coke… Pepsi!

October 24th, 2008 · No Comments

I took an extra day when I was in Chicago. AJ and I went to the Navy Pier and we had gorgeous weather.

Their ferris wheel is nowhere near as good as Coney Island’s Wonder Wheel.
We only got to go around once!

The Billy Goat Tavern has an outpost at Navy Pier.
This place was immortalized on Saturday Night Live by John Belushi and Dan Ackroyd.
Cheezborger, cheezborger! No fries, chips!
I can’t find the clip, but here’s the real thing.
Greasy, but pretty good.

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Dismissed

October 24th, 2008 · No Comments

  • Black Phoenix reopens. Where? At its original location! Email ShibariWarrior at aol
  • In Great Britain, the government is giving internet porn its own version of I’ll know it when I see it.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates – Oct 23-29

October 23rd, 2008 · No Comments

Charley Chase on publicdisgrace.com

Thursday, October 23

Friday, October 24
Le Cercle des Dommes meeting
DSF: “The Science of Transforming Pain into Pleasure and” with Lady Caro

Saturday, October 25
TES: Single-Tail Workshop w/ Thrash CANCELED
DSF: Halloween Fetish Costume Ball

Sunday, October 26
TES TNG: Scary Movie Outing
ONYX-Pearls Northeast: “No toy bag? Now what?!!”
Suspension Play Party
Endless Night NYC Masque Ball

Monday, October 27
CV Meeting: “Erotic Literature!”

Tuesday, October 28
TES: “Seduction in the Scene w/ Ardenne

Wednesday, October 29
TES TNG “Microbranding (Cell Popping)” w/ Soulhuntre
Grapple Den party

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Tying 705

October 23rd, 2008 · No Comments

I am always learning rope bondage. The things I can learn seem endless. But the more I do it, the better I become. I love tying slave 705. He can get out of my ropes. Like an eel, he will squirm and untie himself. I always watch him and learn where my weak points are. He will also give me pointers. “Sir, if you tied that rope lower on the arm, it would be more escape-proof.” Playing with an experienced bottom is a treat. I have no ego problems learning from a bottom.

Saturday night I tied him again. I used the techniques I learned from him, added a idea that I learned from David Lawrence, another from Tony Buff, yet another from Midori and I was done. I sat and leaned back on a bench and said, “Okay, now try to get out of that.”

He worked his wrists first. But I had tied them well and after 5 minutes of struggling, he shifted his focus elsewhere. Nothing was budging. And then he began on a knot on his chest. He moved to a chain wall and rubbed and rubbed. He was making progress, but I also figured that he would not be able to get far if he got that one untied.

He finally moved on to the safety line and started to untie that but he stopped before he came even close to getting it untied. I think it strained his neck. He was defeated. It was the first time I had tied him up where he couldn’t get loose. I was quite pleased.

Thank you, Julia, for allowing me to borrow your slave.

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Getting ready for a scary Halloween

October 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

Gray’s Papaya raises its Recession Special from $3.50 to $4.45. Still a great deal.

This inflatable hood and suit looks like so much fun.

A good review of my CBT in a Nutshell DVD/book.

Tristan Taormino is looking for a parent-to-be who’s having a boy and has not yet decided whether to circumcise – for an interview. Email her at asktristan at gmail.

Tonight is the TES Bondage SIG with Sarah Sloane teaching “Piercing as Bondage” and Wendy Blackheart as the demo bottom. It’ll be great – come on down!

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Kink at Folsom Street Fair 2008

October 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

Van Darkholme of BoundGods.com was tying at the Kink.com booth.


We checked in early to look for Lochai of HogTied.com
and were told he would be there at 3pm.
This hot lady works at Kink.com as a graphics designer.


When we came back later in the day the booth was mobbed
and we couldn’t even get close to it.
So, Lochai, we did try to find you to say hi.

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Shake Shack on the Upper West Side

October 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

I have never been to the original Shake Shack because of the humongous lines, but now we’ve got one here on the Upper West Side at 77th and Columbus. After a minimal wait, I ordered a cheeseburger, fries and a lemonade. The patties are 4oz so I limited myself to a single. Once you’ve ordered, they give you a little buzzer thing which goes off when your order is ready. Considering that my food was made to order, the wait was reasonable.

My burger was delicious and on a really good bun. The small fries were really exceptional with the right amount of crispiness and a decent portion. The lemonade was just okay and a little too warm for my liking. This place is going to give Big Nick’s a run for the money.

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More Butts at Folsom Street Fair 2008

October 20th, 2008 · 1 Comment

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Butts at Folsom Street Fair 2008

October 19th, 2008 · 1 Comment

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