Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates April 26-May 2

April 26th, 2007 · No Comments

Thursday, April 26
Sexy Jewish Women Reading

Friday, April 27
DSF: “Tantric BDSM” w/ Barbara Carellas
Phuk it!

Saturday, April 28
Purple Passion: “Pain Compliance for Dommes” w/ Patrick Washburn
TES “The Basics of Spanking Workshop” with Michael from Paddles
TES “Dinner with Michael and Laura”
Submit party
SkinTight 10pm at OW Bar, 221 East 58th St.

Sunday, April 29

Monday, April 30
Special Intro to Landmark Forum for the Kink Community

Tuesday, May 1
TES “Foot Worship”

Wednesday, May 2
TES-TNG: “Where Did The Sex Go?”

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A cum that doesn’t end

April 21st, 2007 · No Comments

“Get a towel and put it on the bed, because I don’t want you sliming that fancy fluffy white duvet of yours.”

Your bed is high off the ground. That’s good for sex and play. I bend you over the bed and my hand spanks your ass. You react with a cry of shock. It’s been a while since you’ve had this. You want this.
“Oh. Oh. Oh.”
Can you take it? Sure you can. It feels so good.

I reach for the toys that you had laid out for me. The paddle first, and then the strop and the cane. I do like beating ass and you sure have a nice ass for beating. I vary the hits and when I hit hard, you are gasp and straighten up. But soon you get back into position wanting more. And I give you more. I beat you until you are bruised and there are little cane marks in an even row.

And then we’re done. You don’t think you are done. You want more. You are a pig. But I’m in charge here and I decide when we’re done. I lead you over to the sling and help you in. Your cunt is right there, shaved and exposed, waiting. I snap on some gloves and lube up. I poke one finger in and you moan. Oh, you need this. A second finger and I explore your insides. I am finding all the spots. I add another finger and begin to fuck you with a rhythm. I take my thumb off your cllt and add the Hitachi and continue fucking you. You are cumming over and over, like it’s one big cum. A cum that doesn’t end. And then I push my thumb against your asshole and you are still cumming. It’s very intense. I love doing this. I love to watch your face and feel your insides.

Afterwards we lie on the bed for a bit. Then you bring me fizzy water and big red fresh strawberries. I relax while you give me a back rub. Ahhh!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates – April 19-25

April 18th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Thursday, April 19
Staten Island Kink Munch
Babeland: G-Spot 101: G-Spot and Female Ejaculation

Friday, April 20
LSM: Hit The Mats-Wrestling For Play with Jessi HolmanAhart
Applemunch
DSF: Single Tails w/ Mistress Ardenne

Saturday, April 21
Brooklyn Leather Munch
SPAM 718-789-4053
TES Spanking Group: “Weapons of Ass Destruction” with Lady Sabrina
TES Novice Excursion hosted by Lady D & Bo
TES Taxman Party hosted by Wes & August
New York boys of Leather: HIDES
NY Renegades: “Confinement” Dungeon Night

Sunday, April 22
NY Female sub sister’s Forum 2-5pm at Purple Passion

Tuesday, April 24
TES: “Invisible Service” with Lexi

Wednesday, April 25
TES Bondage Group: “Bondage Basics: Suspension” with Don E.
Erotic Hypnosis with Hypnodad at Rapture Cafe and Books

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Leather Archives and Museum’s survey for National Library Week

April 15th, 2007 · No Comments

Every year, the American Library Association sponsors National Library Week. Across the country, libraries celebrate and look for ways to improve their services in the coming year. This year, the Teri Rose Memorial Library at the Leather Archives & Museum marks National Library Week with a survey of our membership’s kinky reading habits.

Take the survey here.

This survey will be open for only a few weeks, so if you can’t spend a few minutes on it today, please make sure to get your responses in by April 29.

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Speed Bondage

April 15th, 2007 · No Comments

I very much enjoyed Lee Harrington‘s Speed Bondage Class at TES yesterday. The class covered a bunch of ties. I picked up a few new things and just enjoyed sharing a space with other rope enthusiasts.

I think that speed has it’s place in rope bondage (especially in performance and in take-downs), but I do like to tie slowly so that my bottom and I can space out and just savor the ropes being laid on.

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One Life, Take Two: Fleshbot and Taskmaster

April 14th, 2007 · 1 Comment

Jefferson is really brilliant this week. And he explains his secret charm for getting all the girls. Chicks dig guys who suck dicks!
One Life, Take Two: Fleshbot and Taskmaster

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Need demo bottoms

April 14th, 2007 · No Comments

I’m teaching Mummification at Black Rose in DC on Tuesday night. I need some demo bottoms. Interested? Comment here – they will not be posted. Leave your email address.

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Cruising – Hands-on

April 13th, 2007 · No Comments

At IMsL, I went to Edge’s Cruising 101 workshop. Edge is a genius and he makes me laugh. He explained to us that there are three kinds of cruising: street cruising, bar cruising and event cruising. I absorbed it all and tried some of it.

Street cruising: We walked down towards Polk Street and we passed these two cute girls. I turned; they did’t. I turned again and they were looking in a window. I was ready to go back and look in the window but Daddy stopped me, because we were on our way to dinner and there’s no time. Clearly, I need to try cruising without Daddy.

Bar cruising: Well, I never made it to the leather bar, but the hospitality suite had this huge patio that was perfectly laid out. It had flow. Flow is crucial for good bar cruising. I went to the Cigar and Boots party and walked around and went with the flow. Then I found my spot and went into the leaning kata. Edge saw me and laughed. He knew exactly what I was doing and was amused. I gave the nod of acknowledgement. So, my sensei recognized what I was doing, but nobody else did. Anyway, I had to leave to meet up with a playdate.

Event cruising: Edge says a hotel event can live or die by its lobby. A good lobby has couches where you can sit and cruise. I sat with EK on the couch in the lobby. And sure enough, I was approached by a leatherdyke with her boy. She introduced herself and her boy and then started talking about I dunno what. She was very nervous and stumbled over the words. I finally had to ask, “What is it that you want from me?”
“A scene.”
I looked at her and then the boy, “With whom?”
“My girl, Miss E.”
I laughed. “Of course! A spanking for Miss E. How about 8pm-ish in the dungeon?”

This is just as Edge said it would be. At events, you just find someone else to matchmake for you. That’s how he found his playdate on Friday night.

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IMsL – Photos

April 11th, 2007 · No Comments

Thanks to Rich Stadtmiller for allowing me to post these photos.

A bunch of friends came out to IMsL from NYC. I loved that I got an opportunity to mix and match my east coast and west coast friends and family. Here I am with EK in the lobby. I am wearing a hand-me-down Princess T-shirt from Momma Bear (earned cotton – that’s even more Old Guard than Leather).

Here’s a photo of me and Edge. We always set aside some time to be together at events. I told him that I had a really cool secret to share with him. I was bummed that big-mouth Thor had already spilled the beans.

cru and I were the auctioneers for the Celebrity Auction. We worked well together.

Of course, Glenda had to be auctioned off. It sets a good example when the owner/producer puts out.

Midori wore her Easter pastels. She looks sweet, but really, she is evil and people paid big money anyway.

Peggy Sue was very seductive on stage which drove her selling price up very high. I wish they were still bidding…

Jim is usually very shy, but I helped him off with his shirt.

Vic is great with a singletail. To prove it to the crowd I let her whip me. Ow!

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A quickie report on my experiences at IMsL

April 11th, 2007 · No Comments

This was the 21st annual International Ms. Leather Contest. Glenda Rider is the new owner and producer and she and her boy, Levi did a fabulous job of revitalizing IMsL. It helps that it is back in San Francisco. Even if you don’t like title contests, this event had a lot going for it with great workshops, huge play spaces and lots of opportunities to socialize. There were also a lot of horny women there doing a lot of heavy flirting!

Thursday night: It was the Lap-Dance-A-Thon at the hotel. I had about a dozen dollar bills with me and enjoyed tipping the dancers. And then I lucked into a benefactor (no, really, this time I am telling the truth). My benefactor had a lot of money but was too shy to tip the dancers herself. She seemed to enjoy my antics with the dancers and kept feeding me dollar bills, I just got a little more outrageous with them as the evening wore on. What fun. Over $1100 was raised!

Friday: Momma Bear, cru, Monica and I checked into a marvelous suite on the 26th floor with a view of both the Golden Gate and the Bay Bridge as well as Alcatraz, Coit Tower, San Francisco and the bay. I went to my Daddy’s class “Butch 101” and then dinner with a group of friends at a Greek restaurant on Polk Street.

Friday night: I had to go to the VIP reception, thereby missing Nayland Blake’s gathering at the Eagle. Bah! Then, opening ceremony with Donna Sachet, whom I have never seen, but always read about in Mr Marcus’ columns. And then it was the Celebrity Auction. I had lined up 20 fabulous “celebrities” to be sold. cru and I were the co-auctioneers and we raised $4162 for Leather Archives & Museum, NCSF, the San Francisco Breast Cancer Emergency Fund and the IMsL/IMsBB Travel Fund! I was sold to a nice couple from Denver who had seen my classes. I tied up the man, hung a weight from his balls and spanked and paddled his butt. You can read Midori‘s account of the Celebrity Auction and her wild scene here.

Saturday: Had breakfast with Edge and then went to his “Cruising 101” class. Had a Thai lunch in the Castro with Midori and K. And then I taught “How To Play With Needles” with Julian as my demo bottom. She does scare easily and I do like that. Right after that I was on the Age Play panel with my leather family and that went pretty well (probably because there was candy).

Saturday night: Chinese for dinner with Daddy and Lily and then we went to the contest. It went fast and was entertaining. Lady V of Point Richmond, CA.was chosen Int’l Ms Bootblack and Lauren Ide of Mesa, AZ is the new International Ms. Leather. I had a play date with Annie and Blue. Blue flogged Annie and then I single-tailed her. Then I topped Blue. It was a good scene. I flogged and single-tailed his chest. I broke him and he needed that. Oh! And great news! Blue is now an official member of my leather family! Yay!

Sunday: Brunch and then Stephanie Locke’s “Advanced Bondage” class. Sleepsacks, straitjackets and hoods. All very yummy. Afterwards Smoorefu and I took a cab down to SOMA to visit with Gayle Rubin. She lives in this amazing warehouse building that houses her incredible leather archives. Shelves and shelves and boxes and many file cabinets. I could just escape in there for a few days and not get bored. She has an entire set of Prometheus except she is missing some of the more recent issues which I have promised to fill in for her. Ahem! I also got to see an issue of Brains…

Sunday night: We had people up to the suite and ordered in Chinese. I went down to the dungeon and spanked a girl. I think I may do a separate write-up on that… And then it was a sleepover date with Daddy and Lily.

Monday: We had dim sum at Yank Sing before heading back to San Jose. Very yummy.

Monday night: Red-eye home. Yuck!

(Next post will have photos.)

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