Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I asked Nina Hartley to be part of my 100 Divas Project. Nina has a reputation at Dark Odyssey for saying yes. She liked the idea of being spanked, but was a bit cautious at first saying that she liked her bottom to be a warm pink, not red or bruised. “Oh, you want a sensuous spanking. That’s my specialty!”

We met up at The Boudoir Nation’s Sunday Night party. This year’s party had a Moulin Rouge theme and the hosts once again outdid themselves decorating their cabin. They even made their own wallpaper! Nina and I took off our footwear and situated ourselves on one of the beds and I spanked her while she lay across my lap. I started off slow and easy and warmed her butt to a nice pink. Nina told me she enjoyed the spanking and afterwards asked me about my technique.

Nina is a very sexy lady and I feel honored to add her to my list.

Saturday night at Dark Odyssey is always a highlight for me. I began my evening at the Perverts Saloon cocktail party and then walked over to the Cigars & Chocolate Party. This used to be a little private gathering under a tree, but it has now become an official DO event at the Pavilion. It was well-attended and there were people moving through the crowd serving. I liked how the event had morphed. It was just different. I did not smoke up. I am more interested in cigar play than cigars. Of course, I did have chocolate. And I brought Sarah’s favorite: Dark Chocolate with Espresso. I didn’t stay too long because I had some other plans for the evening. The Sex-O-Rama!

On Saturday night, the Sex-O-Rama is transformed into The Garden of Carnal Delights. There are four rooms: The Make-Out Room, The Orgy Room, The Brothel and a new room, The Peep Show! I had plans to start out at the Peep Show! Back at my cabin, I dressed carefully for the Peep Show, grabbed my music and headed out.

There was a huge crowd outside of the Sex-O-Rama. Jefferson was out there mesmerizing the crowd like a sideshow barker. This was the Blowjob Throw Down with Avah of New Jersey vs Wendy of Long Island. Two men sat side by side in folding chairs. They were both blindfolded and instructed not to use their hands. Avah and Wendy were kneeling on pillows and working these guys. After two minutes they would switch places. The guys would then vote for who they thought had the best Blow Job technique. Other men waited their turns. There was a timekeeper and a scorekeeper.

I didn’t watch the whole contest, because I was eager to get into the Peep Show. I think this made for good timing on my part. There seemed to be more guys outside watching the Blowjob Throw Down and more women inside at the Peep Show. And, ya know, it’s the girls that particularly love my dancing. The Peep Show room had four little rooms with Plexiglas windows where you could look in and watch strippers or various sex acts. It was a voyeur’s dream where you could see a F dancing and a FF oral sex act and a MF fucking act and a MMF tangle of sex, etc. I waited my turn and entered into one of the rooms and began to dance and strip. Faces pressed up against the glass. Hands with Kundalini Kash reached through the curtain to tuck the money in my thong. It was very exciting and I felt very sexy. Soon, I had a huge pile of money and vacated the Peep Show cubicle to allow someone else some time behind the glass.

I pulled myself together and checked on Jefferson’s Blowjob Throw Down. They were almost done. And then, finally, Avah of New Jersey was declared the winner. She was so good that two guys shot their loads before their two minutes were up (that was big points for Avah).

I had a lot of money and headed to the Brothel. Viviane was there and I offered to buy someone for her. She declined but mentioned that MT needed some money. I peeled off $1000 from my wad and handed it to him. “Have a good time with this. Er, and now you owe me.” MT looked at me with some hesitation. He did not seem like the kind of guy to just take money from someone. I said, “Don’t worry about it. We’ll figure out something fair later.” I felt like such a loan shark.

And then I saw Eden. Beautiful Eden with the long dark hair and the sparkling blue eyes. She gave me a big smile as soon as she saw me.
“Are you working?”
“Oh, yes!”
“I would like to buy some time with you.”
“I would love that. I will make you feel so good.”
I knew she would.

We went looking for a spot and the brothel manager came over. I think he could tell that I was a big spender. He told me that the VIP room would be available in about 15 minutes and that it would cost me $1000. “I’ll take it!” I peeled off $1000 in cash and handed it over.

The VIP room was in the back. It was more private and it had a sling. Eden went to get some supplies and I made myself comfortable in the sling. I love just leaning back in the sling and looking up at my big black Wesco boots.

I relaxed as Eden went to work pleasuring me. As a paying customer, I only had to think about my pleasure and not worry about her. However, it was pretty clear that she was enjoying her work and that she was thrilled that I had chosen her. She had these electric toothbrushes that she put inside a condom. Those plus her fingers worked very nicely in getting me off.

Afterwards, I asked what her rate was. She told me that her base rate was $500. I peeled off the $500 and then kept going. $1000, and then $1500. She was excited that I was giving her so much. Then $2000. Then finally $2500! I was the big spender. And Eden thought I was the shit. I kissed her good-night and walked back to my cabin.

And I still had a pretty good stack of cash left over.

It seems appropriate that the first post about Dark Odyssey Summer Camp 07 should start with the Oink cabin. It is Oink that grounds me and is central to my experience at camp. Always. I am blessed to be surrounded by special people. The mix changes with each camp, but the vibe is always comforting to me. And I feel that everybody in the cabin gets it.

I still laugh when I remember KD, a camp virgin, told me, “Oink is such a queer-friendly cabin!”
I answered her, “Well, if it weren’t for Ken, we would actually be a queer cabin.”

A sense of humor is always a key ingredient. That and the sense of mutual caring that all my cabin mates brought to the space.

I spent less time on the front porch than I had envisioned. I made fewer plans and left time for spontaneity, naps and taking things slow. As always there were many things to do and many people whom I wanted to spend more time with, but did not have time for. But I have no regrets. There are many next times. In the plus side, I made some brilliant new connections and reconnected with others. My priorities happened.

I thought that I had overpacked warm bedding, but I needed it all. It was colder this year than ever. I overpacked toys as usual. The whip bag went untouched but I was prepared for everything else.

I was pleased with how my classes went. It thrills me when I get positive feedback from the attendees. Most of my classes were scheduled for Friday and Saturday morning which left the rest of my days free.

I attended only two classes. Bobby’s class on Dominance was held in the Sex-O-Rama where the lighting was low and the furniture comfy. I fell asleep. That was bad of me. Oops! The other class was “How to Whore” with Marcus. That kept me on the edge of my seat. Sex and Money excites me.

After this year’s Leather Retreat, I expected the food to be awful. It was greatly improved. Not great. But, again, we do not go to camp for the food.

My buddies in the Perverts Saloon won the Best New Cabin ribbon for having a lot of sex. Ken grumbled, “How come nobody ever told me about that cabin?”
“But, Ken, I’ve been talking all weekend about the cabin that had all those beautiful bi guys!”
“Oh! Never mind.”

Barbara Nitke used to be my favorite Oinker to tease. Now, it’s Ken.

I’ll be posting more about Dark Odyssey. However, I don’t think I’ll post in chronological order.

September 19, 2007 – New York, NY – Susan Wright and Larry Iannotti would like to announce the launch of the second national Survey of Violence & Discrimination Against Sexual Minorities, being conducted in cooperation with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. This survey includes all of the questions asked on NCSF’s ground-breaking 1998 Violence & Discrimination Against Sexual Minorities survey, and includes new questions on personal, business, and Internet discrimination experienced by BDSM-leather-fetish practitioners.

The link to the survey is on NCSF’s website: www.ncsfreedom.org

Please take a minute to fill out this anonymous survey even if you have not been a victim of violence or discrimination. Demographic data and information about participation in a variety of BDSM-leather-fetish activities are also being gathered. This survey will be distributed for one year, and the results will be released in early 2009.

The results of this survey will be analyzed and compared to the 1998 survey, which found significant discrimination and violence occurring against BDSM-leather-fetish practitioners. The data may be used in court obscenity cases to prove that sexual minorities have been chilled on the Internet because of fear of prosecution. The survey also includes space for individuals to write about the discrimination they have faced, which will be helpful in illustrating the consequences of the negative stereotypes about BDSM-leather-fetish activities.

The survey is available on Survey Monkey (a secured survey hosting website that is used by the professional community) and can be accessed through the NCSF website: www.ncsfreedom.org You can contact surveybdsm@gmail.com to receive hard copies for your event or to distribute to your members.

Please help this community-wide effort by sending this announcement to your email list.

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Larry Iannotti, LCSW, is a professional social scientist and practicing therapist getting his doctoral degree through the City University of NY. Susan Wright is the Media Spokesperson for NCSF, and is accredited as a research assistant affiliated with CUNY. For more information, please call Susan at 917-848-6544, or Larry at 212-465-1917.

Yes, that’s Dark Odyssey Summer Camp.
No, that’s not my cabin.

An interview with the winner of this year’s World Beard & Moustache Championships.

A new Master/slave website for households that is educational and informative, but also sure looks like a good place to cruise or be cruised (even though they say that it’s not for that).

TNG-HIV

And sometimes you gotta know when to fold them. But this ain’t poker, so I can just fold them neatly and put them in a drawer. I may be ready for them later. Or maybe they will be ready for me. In the meantime, I’m busy!

I am finally packed and going to Dark Odyssey! No internet and no LJ. Call my cell if you need me. I’m gone until Monday night.