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Michael Rosen’s New Book

October 9th, 2007 · No Comments


Michael Rosen has published his fifth photo book, “Vanilla Sex: Explicit Fine Art Photographs,” as a PDF for free download here.

“This PDF is a reprise of a 2005 show at the Center for Sex & Culture in San Francisco. It’s my latest and best work. For me, “vanilla” means the spectrum of our community’s sexuality; what we normally do. So, some photographs are of acts generally considered normal and standard (missionary position sex, for example), while others are of acts considered normal and standard only within the radical sex community. The 53 photographs are soft and romantic images of explicit sex that challenge the banality of pornography. And, check out the introduction by the preeminent photography critic, A.D. Coleman.”

I like how Michael captures the energy and the connection of the people in these images. A. D. Coleman’s introduction is also a good read. Michael’s other books are Sexual Art, Sexual Magic, Sexual Portraits and Lust and Romance. I own two of his books and one of his fine art prints.

Michael is always looking for people to photograph – individuals, couples and groups – for a variety of sexually oriented projects. He can pay and/or trade. He’s in the San Francisco area. Email him if you are interested.

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Sugasm #100

October 8th, 2007 · 1 Comment


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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #101? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Do you want me…?
“The shiver that runs through you tells me everything I need to know.”

Love that ass (his perspective)
“But as long as we are in here, she submits to my command; to my every whim.”

Hubb and Spoeker
“He was good for show and good in bed, but an asshole in the real world.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
125 Magazine, Alternet and Enviromentally Friendly Porn

Editor’s Choice
The very best of Sugasm…. so far

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Being Stuck Outside
Dominance, Submission, Humiliation, Control
Miscarriage and Feminine Identity
The next colonel sanders or orville redenbacher
No more pen and sex
Sex on the first date???
What Is Mary Hiding?
Why “Sugasm” Matters

Sex Work
Do you like phone sex?
La Petite Mort
Sex Work And Religion: The Sex Crazed Pagan Cult Fantasy

NSFW Pics & Videos
I could watch her do laundry all day!
Just Teen Site Releases All New Nude Videos
Red Rose
Today’s Special Offer: Fresh Hamburgers

Sex News & Reviews
Belated Happy 2nd Blogiversary to My Bottom Smarts!
Fetish Film – How to Use Sounds (Urethral Sounds)
First Purity Balls, Now Integrity Balls
It’s HERE!!!! Miss Francy’s “Spanking the Male Mind”!
Team Up with the 6th Annual Blogger Boobie-Thon

BDSM & Fetish
Back To School
Catalina loves Chat
Dancing with the Devil, a D/s Relationship
The Dungeon: Sex Camp, Night One
Fuck of a Lifetime
Harder….
Heat
I Got Your Number
Manhandled
Mira
My Wife is a Skank! pt1
A Nawty Story: Diane Phones Home
Objets d’obsession: neck corsets
Our game
Piss Slut
Who is Elise Sutton and why does it matter?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
100 Sexy
An Affair with the Wind
Corseting Mrs. Russian
Burlesque: Home Coming
Gamahuche
I Succumb to Jefferson’s Dastardly Lesbian Plot!
More Than A Breast-Fondle
The Morning Rollover
Party Blowjob – Part 3

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Marcus and Me – Redux

October 8th, 2007 · 7 Comments


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Last year at Dark Odyssey, I connected with Marcus and had some wild adventures. (See here and here, but also especially here for when I stuffed his own balls up his ass.)

I tried hooking up with him when I traveled to DC, but that didn’t work out. I also saw him at a party in Baltimore, but that was awkward. So, I did not expect anything or pursue anything with Marcus this year at camp.

And Marcus was as misbehaved as ever. He came to two of my classes and made out passionately. I don’t think he realized how distracting it was until I came to one of his classes and started making out with someone myself! Tit for tat.

Anyway, I did wind up playing with Marcus on Sunday night, Very late. Molly and I topped Marcus.

Molly is incredibly cute. She came from the UK and was staying in Oink cabin. Barbara Carellas introduced us and we liked each other instantaneously. We may have met at Oink, but we bonded over at the Perverts Saloon cabin. We bonded with her over my knee. She likes getting spanked!

So, it was very late on Sunday night. After midnight snack, like 1:30 in the morning. We got to the Perverts Saloon and people were still awake but most of them were in the beds because it had gotten really cold. Some people brought lots of comforters, some people brought electrical blankets, and some people, like Avah, had mounds of bisexual boys piled into bed with her.

Zelda provided rope and I quickly tied Marcus to a post in the room. A chest harness, hands behind his back and ankles together. It looked good and he was secure. Molly added a stocking over his head and I wished for duct tape. Zelda produced duct tape and I added strips of tape over the nylon to block out any light. Marcus complained about the cold and Zelda came over with an electric heater. Wow! That lady had everything we needed. Really great, because Molly and I did not have any toys with us.

We had fun with clamps and I had fun with a piece of cord. I tied up Marcus’ balls and played with them. Pulling, squeezing, scratching with my nails. I was having a grand time. Marcus was naked, hooded and tied to a pole with an electric heater at his feet. His cabin mates were all watching from their beds (well, they were not all in their own beds) with the covers up to the chins. And I looked around and figured it was time for a crowd favorite – a helicopter. The cord I was given was long and thin. I carefully wrapped the cord around and around and around his cock. It went around a lot of times. Finally I got to the end. I stepped away and let her rip! The cord unwound and unwound and unwound. His cock whirled around like a helicopter. It just kept going and going. Marcus was “Aaaahhhhh!” and his cabin mates were “Oooohhhhh!”.

When it was over, Marcus said, “You know, you are not supposed to use such a long cord!”
“Oh, yeah? Says who?”

We took him down after that and joined the warm cuddle pile on Avah’s bed.

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This post has nothing to do with Columbus Day

October 8th, 2007 · 2 Comments


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Midori and Kumi

I should get a bunch of these for Easter spanking games at Frolicon.

Jefferson discusses the law against sex toys in his home state of Alabama.

Pee and poop! Pa, pa, pants man!

Jefferson’s got a new blog called Smut Turntable where he spins cool tunes and tell stories. And, yes, he loves the big girls (really he likes girls of all sizes and boys, too). BTW he takes requests.

Jocasta of Venus Ropes writes about New York Leather Weekend’s street fair and says I am right about pink being a good color for boys.

Being honest is sometimes so difficult. Especially with yourself.

My first book with DVD is finally available! Spanking by Lolita Wolf

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John Catsimatidis

October 5th, 2007 · 1 Comment


Over at WNYC, Brian Lehrer has this project comparing prices on milk, lettuce and Budweiser beer.

I have my own little project about the 25 oz size of Honey Nut Cheerios:
Fairway at Broadway and 74th Street: $5.99
Associated at Amsterdam and 97th Street: $6.89
Gristedes at 96th Street near Broadway: $8.49

So, I am trying to shop at Fairway as much as possible. But that’s not all.

Gristedes is owned by John Catsimatidis. He is a fucking price gouger. A registered Democrat, he is planning to run in the 2009 NYC Mayoral race as a Republican. I will do more price comparisons and campaign against him. This post is just a start. It’s still a bit early.

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I’m busy!

October 4th, 2007 · No Comments

I seem to have a lot of deadlines this week. So, I haven’t been writing any stories. I did get my quota of procrastination done. Here are some links:

An article on Friends With Benefits.

Time Out magazine quotes me as a sexpert on Bondage and Spanking:

A Lap Dance is So Much Better when the Stripper is Crying.

Bunnies!

Rachel Kramer Bussel writes about Sex Toys and the Technology of Orgasm

Oh! Protect the chidren! Oy!

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates Oct 4-10

October 3rd, 2007 · 2 Comments

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Thursday, October 4

Friday, October 5
NYC Munch
Poly Pride Day Super Massive Cuddle Party
DSF: “The Boys are Back in Town” w/ David Lawrence & LC~Misfit Studios
CineKink at NYLW: “Bite The Apple!”

Saturday, October 6
Seventh Annual Poly Pride Day
NYLW: Hot Ash: Cigars, Bootblacks & Barbers Roof-Deck Party
NYLW: Raunch on The River Leather Cruise on the Hudson
Poly Pride Day Party featuring the Wet Spots
The New York Renegades 11th annual All Club Bar Night
The Eagle: Mr Eagle NYC 2008 Contest

Sunday, October 7
MAsT Metro NY: “Buff Relationships: Shine and Substance” w/ Catherine Gross
NYLW: West Village Leather Street Festival
KinkyJews & 14th Street Y: History of Sex & Sexuality on the Street of the Jewish LES Walking Tour
The Baroness’ Fetish Retinue
NYLW: The Fetish Ball

Monday, October 8
Conversio Virium: “Sexual Teasing and Denial” with Sara and Maymay
NYC Poly Cocktail Hour

Tuesday, October 9
TES: “Florentine Flogging” with Sir J
CineKink @ Pioneer: “Liberty in Restraint”

Wednesday, October 10
TES Novice Group: “Basic Scene Etiquette” with Stacina Vale
GMSMA program: “The Rubber Man”

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pug

October 2nd, 2007 · No Comments


slave pug came East to visit Master Larry and slave barb. We all met up for lunch a week ago. It was great spending time together!

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Find Lolita – October 2007 and beyond

October 2nd, 2007 · No Comments

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October 12-14 Fayetteville, NC
NCEdge: teaching “Sensory Deprivation & Control”

November 10 – Chicago, IL
GD2: teaching TBD

November 18 – Baltimore, MD
Friends of Play House: teaching “Suspension Bondage”

November 28 – NYC
Arena Studios: teaching “Play Piercing”

December 11 – New York, NY
TES: I’ll be Lolita Claus for the Holiday Potluck Social

February 15 – New York, NY
LSM: teaching “Hot Wax to the Max”

February 22-24 Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching TBD

March 20-23 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching TBD

May 1-5, 2008 – San Francisco, IL
International Ms Leather Weekend: teaching TBD plus running The Celebrity Auction

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Sugasm #99

October 2nd, 2007 · No Comments

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #100? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
Don’t think..
“As you read this, you reach for your cock and stroke it slowly, in anticipation of our eventual meeting.”

I’ll be out in 2 mins, I’m just brushing my teeth…
“One centimetre at a time, he slid oh so slowly into me and then retreated out again.”

We all have Secrets
“I’ll give you a little reminder – it was when he and his wife were making me cum so hard that I blacked out.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Iris Bahr’s Festive World

Editor’s Choice
Letter to a Lover

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Better than Cocktails
The Birthday Box
Burlesque: Getting Ready
Dab
Eponymous
Heaven
I assigned Kis Lee the word ‘resentment’
In the city lights
Loaded
A Much Needed Climax

Sexual Poetry
Symplexity Presents: A Wild Ride

BDSM & Fetish
Arrival: Sex Camp, Day One
Boy Toy
Catalina loves Guest Cock
Counting the Days
Dizzy
Gloved
M is for Manhandled
Movie, tit whipping, and anal sex
No Big Deal… Or Not?

Sex News & Reviews
Happy 2nd Blogiversary to Always Aroused Girl!
Fleshlight Review
A Nawty Mouz’s Sexy Library of Kinky Linkies!
Violet Wands

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The 100 Unsexiest Men Of 2007
I think we broke my dick…
Not everything has a pre-emptive strike…
Now what?
Radical Fucking Honesty

Sex Work
Sex Work And Religion: The Pagan And The Jew

NSFW Pics & Videos
Antea & Christina (errotica archives)
Death or an invitation?
Friends, Frenemy’s, Half-Naked Peeps! Lend me your ears!
Half-Nekkid Public Exposure
Monique Alexander Nude
Monika – Chat Noir

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