Barbara wanted a caning lesson. Such knowledge would give her skills that would greatly enhance her new relationship. Of course I was willing to teach her. We would just need a bottom.
“Molly!” I called. She came in from the other room to see what was up. “Molly, have you ever been caned?”
She was a bit taken aback by my question, “No.” “But you’re British. How is that possible? Didn’t they cane you in school? Or were you so well-behaved?” “No, they only caned the boys.” “What a shame! Well, Barbara needs to learn, so you are going to get your first caning.”
It was immediately apparent to Molly that she had no choice in this, but I assured her, “Don’t worry, you’ll like it.”
We situated Molly on the bed and I began with a hand spanking. She likes my spankings and it would be a good warm-up into a caning. I chose a cane, not too thick, not too thin, not too long, not too dense – a good beginner cane. I began slowly, explaining everything as I went along. And then I handed the cane to Barbara. I worked with Barbara, encouraging her and explaining to her until she had some proficiency.
And then I took the cane back. This couldn’t just be an educational experience. I had to make sure that Molly enjoyed her first caning. And I am pretty sure she did, because later in the week, she was eager for me to give her a second caning – a little bit harder.
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Molly came to town. We made a date with Barbara Carellas. The two of them wanted to give me an Erotic Awakening Massage. I think they were a little surprised at how easily I said yes. Duh! I like them and trust them and I knew that whatever it was, it would be good.
There was a little talk beforehand and I could choose between cornstarch and massage oil. Cornstarch is a little messier but very silky. Since I had never had a cornstarch massage, I opted for that and put an extra sheet down on the bed. I was told to relax and let them do everything. I was just to remember to breathe and they would remind me later to keep breathing.
There were four soft hands on my body and tickly feathers and stingy sensations. I just relaxed and felt the sensations. And I was supposed to breathe. The sensations continued and ramped up. Throughout I was coached to breathe. They added not one, but two Hitachi Magic Wand vibrators. And as the sensations got more intense, they breathed along with me and I was encouraged to become louder and louder with each exhale. They breathed with me and also verbalized with me on the exhale. Eventually, the sensations got really intense and fabulous and we were all really loud. We were all screaming together. And then I had the hugest orgasm! Wow! Very intense! I wonder what the neighbors must have thought!
Barbara teaches classes about this. And Barbara is a stellar instructor. She won the Dark Odyssey Summer Camp Favorite Presenter Award this year. The next workshop, The Erotic Awakening Weekend, is in the DC area 19-20 January 2008. More details here.
The TES Holiday Potluck will be Tuesday December 11th and Lolita Claus will be there with her elves, Lexi and Pete. Bring a dish to share and get in free! (If you can’t cook, get something “to go.” A bag of chips don’t count.) And bring a wrapped gift for the grab bag. Details here.
And be nice to me. I’ll be there strapping it on and I would love to have my dick sucked!
In the making things happen department, I hosted some rope aficionados this week. It was lab work were we went over some stuff and tried some out different things. There were supposed to be six of us, but then one had a family obligation pop up, one got sick and one had some emotional upheaval over a relationship, so we were only three, but it was fun. And we three are talking about getting together for a flogging lab next.
A while back, I participated in the filming of a documentary for the BBC entitled “Sex Blogessy.” Unfortunately, it’s been retitled as “The Sex Blog Girls” and the NYC sex bloggers have been edited out entirely. Oh, well.
I got on the elevator Saturday morning to move my laundry from washer to dryer. A neighbor got on. He was on his way to the gym. He looked at me and told me how great my hair looked. “Thanks!” “Something’s different. I like it a lot.” “Well, I just got out of bed.” He blushed.
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On Wednesday night, I taught play piercing at Arena Studios as part of the Modified Eros exhibit. Wendy Blackheart was my bottom and she was wonderful. I hope we can do more in the future.
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