My Fetish Fair Fleamarket experience was limited by my cold.But I had a really great time.The weekend afforded some real quality intimate time with Don Quixote.We avoided the big evening events and opted for quiet dinners with friends.We had two really fabulous meals, one at Cassalina’s in the Italian section and the other at the McCormick & Schmick’s in the Biltmore Hotel.
The two classes I taught went well and I was able to see two other classes.Midori’s Humiliation class as fun, very crowded and way too short for the information she wanted to provide.Master Harley’s class on Training a Submissive Boy helped me realize some things about myself.I don’t interview submissives.I prefer to seduce submission from someone.That seems to be my pattern and it works for the kind of multidimensional relationships I seek.Formal protocol is not a turn-on for me.I just want some basics to be taken care of, like tissue management and boot removal at the end of the day.
Shopping is the highlight at the Flea.We ordered a new petticoat from Purple Passion, bought canes from Prism and a new gag for DQ which I really look forward to trying out.And I got frilly pretty panties from Delicious Corsets and the Two Knotty Boys book from Twisted Monk.
DQ and I had a threesome scheduled with Hot Chocolate for Saturday night.We attended a small private party in a rented villa.With my cold, I was not up for play at all.So I was a total voyeur and just sat on the couch mouth breathing as my two dates played with each other.I felt no stress or obligation.
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This Week’s Picks Sexay “You bite my tautish thighs passionately, and drag my thong off with your teeth.”
Resolved “Naked now, I turned her towards him, running my hands across breasts, midriff and down between her legs.”
Afterglow “She’s hot, where only seconds ago in the throes and tears of her ecstacy she shivered.”
I am up in Providence in a grand hotel room. Don Quixote is with me. As I write this update he is making me oatmeal. It has been decided that I will train him in an Old Guard manner.
He has yet to earn a hanky. So, for now he will be flagging Kleenex. This is very handy, because I have a cold.
DQ aspires to be a contestant in the next New England Kleenex Boy Competition. I am not sure he is ready for that yet. Needs more training!
NYC is not rated as one of Americas most lustful cities according to a study by Forbes.But the study uses condom purchasing to measure their statistics.I know my own condom purchasing has plummeted because a) I get a lot of free condoms at events and from places where NYC distributes its free condoms and b) a lot of my sex does not involve getting fucked with a live cock.The article is also interesting because it talks about the rise in the use of sex toys, mainly vibrators.
So, this guy has moved into IKEA for a week. Brilliant! Maybe we can visit him on the way up to the Flea.Boymeat, meatballs?
It’s time to make your nominations for the Pantheon of Leather Community Service Awards. I don’t want to hear you whine about the winners if you didn’t nominate the people who you think deserve recognition.Click on Pantheon for the rules and categories. And make your nominations.
It was New Year’s Eve.Well, actually it was early New Year’s Day and we had just gone to bed.Don Quixote was fucking me with his fingers and talking dirty to me.
“I’m going to install a steel ring in the Secret Room.”
DQ has a secret room in his home.Only a few people know it is there.It is a little room filled with a lot of books and magazines, very organized on shelves.A lot of it is porn.The room has a cozy feel to it.
“I am going to chain you to the ring in the Secret Room.”
I think this is so hot.He is still fucking me with his fingers and I am bucking up against him.
“I am going to keep you chained up in there so I can use you any time I want to.”
His talk drives me crazy and I call out to Boymeat, “Bring me my vibrator!”
I see Boymeat scramble.In fact, I seem to have interrupted some kind of threesome because there are three of them scurrying to find my vibrator.
DQ continues, “You’ll be chained up and always available for me and ready for me.”
They hand me the vibrator and I jam it onto my clit.
“You’ll be my captive princess.”
That’s it.I come.It’s loud.I gush like a river, leaving a gargantuan wet spot.Afterwards I try to recover but I am shaking and my heart is racing and I have a hard time catching my breath.And, oops, I woke up the other girl in our bed.
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This Week’s Picks A Different Kind Of Authority For Sex Bloggers “As we sex workers, sex bloggers, and adult business folks swim in our ponds or spin in our micro universes & connect with others, we continue to build authority.”
Of sex and strippers “At one point she was straddling Girlfriend’s right leg, grinding her thigh against Girlfriend’s clit through her jeans.”
Wink Wink, Nudge Nudge Her comments were something to the effect of, “No one wanted to see me twirl with tassels ~ on fire or not ~ when some girl was going to sit on stage and insert things into herself.”
Don Quixote and I had made a date for a threesome about six weeks ago. Three people with three very busy schedules and it took six weeks for us to all find a suitable time to get together. Alas, our date was feeling under the weather and had to cancel, so it was just the two of us.One of the upsides of threesomes is that even if one partner begs off, you are still left with a hot twosome.
“I had been planning on just how I was going to tie up our date. Now I will just have to tie you up,” said DQ. I laughed, “I’ll just have to suffer through that.”
I offered him my new Lolita Pink rope. He tied a body harness first. It was pretty and the ropes accentuated my curves. It was also secure, and it had a handle for him to control me. And then he had me get on the bed where he secured my legs in a wide open position. I became a little shy and tried to close them to hide myself from view, but he made sure they were open. He unzipped his pants and pulled out his cock. “Look at what happens to me when I look at you like that.” His cock was at full attention and ready. I giggled. Even when I was tied up I had a certain power over him.
He found the gloves and the lube. “Where is your stainless steel butt plug?” I directed him to it and he worked it inside of me. Now, I gotta say that once a butt plug is in me, everything changes. It’s exciting and calming at the same time. It’s hard to describe but it puts me in a zone where I am very happy and also very willing to go along with just about anything. He fucked my other hole and worked my clit.It was perfect.
Some people are exciting partners because they are new partners, but then the newness wears off. Like the blush is off the rose rather quickly. But with other partners, like DQ, it remains exciting. Nah, it gets even better. Like DQ has learned what gets me off. Of course, my blog is a helpful guide.
As far as our threesome date, it will get rescheduled, but not for at least six weeks.
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It’s been over two weeks since I‘ve blogged.Julia’s slave has my computer and is trying to fix it.It seems to be very sick. I am surviving by using my friends’ computers, but it’s just not conducive to blogging.Oy!
The other thing that is less conducive to blogging is that I am working at a new job (in addition to my own little company).I am really enjoying the challenge.
So, this is a bit of a rocky start to the new year, but I am hoping that things just work out okay.My New Year’s Eve activities were perfect.I spent the time with good friends in a very intimate manner.Maybe I’ll post a little story about that. Maybe not.
In the meantime, here are some links and a new poll for my readers:
A scientific study has been conducted on the effects of being hog-tied combined with weights on the back to simulate the experiences of suspects in police custody that might have succumbed from positional asphyxia.
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire registration is open. The event is heldin Washington, DC March 21-23 and is for people interested in sex, spirituality, and BDSM.
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