Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Yes, but I am busy

March 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat and me at January’s In The Flesh reading
photo by Viviane

An assembled group of interested parties have formed an LLC company and have found a new location (finally!!) for a NEW LURE in NYC!! To expedite the opening, they are seeking folks who might be interested in owning a part of this historic rebirth in the hottest city in the world, kinkwise! If YOU might be interested in being a part of this venture, please contact either Sparky at THELUREBARS@aol.com or contact Hilton at Purple Passion or Hiltontes@aol.com

Have you ever fantasized about being in a prison?

A manhole cover was thrown through one of the plate glass windows of Benham Gallery in downtown Seattle early Easter morning, March 23. On Saturday, March 22, while the gallery was open, someone also smeared feces on the window. This vandalization was apparently done by someone who was offended by the Erotic Beauty Show, which exhibited photographs of transgendered people by David Steinberg, Paul Dahlquist, Fiona Aboud, and Sean Newman.

In an effort to chance to maintain the Dark Odyssey community and promote discussion between events, Viviane has set up an email list for people who have attended any of the DO events. It’s a closed group, but you can join here. Mention when you’ve attended a DO event, or if you know her from real life or another website.

Ignorantia non excusat: If someone uses my name as a reference, I advise you to ask me about them. Some people bank on you not asking me about them.

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Sugasm #124

March 25th, 2008 · No Comments


Devaun on hogtied.com

Devaun on hogtied.com

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #125? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.

This Week’s Picks
In Which Penny Enjoys Her Bath
“In the bathroom, I flipped on the heater and shed my clothes.”

Just passing through
“I twitched under her stare.”

Kegal exercises on wet Monday afternoon
“Do you know what it’s like, to be buggered?”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
WP/PHP Guru?

Editor’s Choice
More Traveling…

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

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Frolicon People

March 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Kerry and friends

Frolicon is pretty much a regional event. Except for me and Boymeat and Kate, there weren’t too many other people from NYC. We were pretty surprised to see Kerry there. A good surprise.

The event is huge. They sold out the host hotel (a Hilton – very nice!) and there had to be over 1000 attendees. Of course, the elevators were a problem. Boymeat and Kathryn got stuck for over an hour late Saturday night.

The people at Frolicon are very friendly. It seems really easy to meet people there and to talk to them. Most people dress up. And not just at night, but the whole time. Lots of costumes. Like a sci-fi convention, but sexier. Cameras are allowed everywhere except in the kink track classes and the dungeon.

Serial clown killer

I know this guys looks like a maniac, but he was really friendly. However, I was relieved that I wasn’t dressed as Poupon Toot when we met.

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Green Fairy

March 24th, 2008 · No Comments

Vi Johnson

Frolicon has a lot of parties. There is a concoction battle on Friday night and a party battle on Saturday night. The drinking can get very serious. We really didn’t go to any of the parties this year except for Vi’s Green Fairy party on Friday night. She offered maybe a dozen different types of absinthe and a bunch of different libations. I chose the blackberry liquor mixed with an almondy absinthe and it was delicious. Definitely got a little bit tipsy.

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Spanky The Clown

March 24th, 2008 · 1 Comment

One of the highlights (for me) of Frolicon was getting to spend some time with Spanky The Clown. He was scary but a good kind of scary. He touched me places and even used his cigar but he did not get my blue dress dirty. He liked all the good little girls and boys.

The Story Lady is friends with Spanky and she read us the true story of the Three Little Pigs. I had no idea that it was so perverted!

We also got to eat lots of candy and cupcakes. And there were a few accidents…

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I have an answer coming next week

March 20th, 2008 · No Comments

East 16th Street on Wednesday

Oh! A hot new sex blogger.

Hmmm, there’s a restaurant week in Brooklyn, too. March 24-31

I am leaving today for Frolicon. No email, no internet. Call me if you need me. kthxbye

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Bright girls

March 20th, 2008 · No Comments

Boymeat took this photo.

Rita Seagrave was in town this week and the three of us went to Congee Village. Oh, so yummy. Both the food and the company.

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Improbable History

March 19th, 2008 · No Comments

Thom and his new tattoo

Selina wrote about the spanking I gave her … and more.

Suddenly, I want to eat more fruit.

Wedded to variety. You might call the arrangement “awfully messy.” Or you might call it by its proper name: polyamory.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates March 20-26

March 19th, 2008 · No Comments


Adrianna Nicole and Little Billy on thetrainingofo.com

Adrianna Nicole and Little Billy on thetrainingofo.com

Thursday, March 20
Renegades Dungeon Party
Staten Island Kink Munch

Friday, March 21
Applemunch
LSM: “Ouch…MMM! Temporary Piercing Workshop” w/ Ray Aims
DSF: “Caning: From A-Z ‘May I have another Sir'” w/ Bob H

Saturday, March 22
LSM Bacchanalia Play Party

Sunday, March 23

Monday, March 24
CV Meeting: “Single Tailing” w/ Rob

Tuesday, March 25
TES: “Doctors, Shrinks and Kinks: What Everyone Should Know” w/ Larry Iannotti, LCSW

Wednesday, March 26
TES-TNG: “TNG Summit Forum” w/ special guests Boymeat & Josh Hightower

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Morgan Lewis, HMQ

March 19th, 2008 · No Comments


Yesterday was HMQ’s birthday. She celebrated with an open house entertaining all sorts of visitors. I dropped in to hang out for a while and have a slice of yummy birthday cake. There were lots of people from TES and the Imperial Court. She allowed me to take this picture of her, but made me promise not to tell anyone her age.

HMQ has a special place in my heart, because she was the one who encouraged me to start teaching at TES. She really pushed me into it! I am very thankful to her for giving me advice and getting me started.

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