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LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS December 24, 2003

December 25th, 2003 · No Comments

Volume 9, Number 45
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Frankly, there is also a lot of misinformation and downright scary misstatements, too, that could confuse the seeker more then help I suspect. I would recommend the following books instead as a first step, both of which are superb descriptions of the process and what trans folks often face: "True Selves" by Mildred Brown "Confessions of a Gender Defender" by Randi Ettner (my personal favorite). Both books are widely available, either in the library or in bookstores, and both are highly recommended. If someone wants to go the web route first, I would recommend these two sites: www.transsexual.org (not .com! Last time I checked, that was a porn site). This is written from a personal perspective, and has some decent basic information. www.ifge.org. This is the site for the international foundation for gender expression, and they have a decent link section to other resources. 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