Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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The Essence of Queer Sex

November 4th, 2014 · 1 Comment

  So, I had a date with Casey, who is a regular play buddy of mine. Usually we get together and I hurt her. She has the most beautiful eyes when she suffers. We were staying in Oink and she invited me to get comfortable on her bed so that she could massage my feet. […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex

DQ Earns a Pass from Chastity

January 7th, 2012 · No Comments

Don Quixote was locked up in a chastity device. It had been over a week. He needed to get out. He had a date with these two guys. A big overnight date with lots of bondage and sex. Sometimes he has dates and I don’t let him out of the chastity like here and here. His […]

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Tags: Scene Report · Sex

Bare Stories – My First Time

October 9th, 2011 · 2 Comments

Monday October 10th is the first installment of Bare Stories, which showcases people telling stories of sex, desire and romance. The topic is First Times. This will also be my first time on stage as a story teller! So please come out and hear me tell my story. Get details at Bare Stories.

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Tags: Art & Culture · BDSM · Find Lolita · Sex

Question Month: #1

March 8th, 2011 · 1 Comment

Q.  What is the best way to store lots of dildos and vibrators of various sizes in limited space? I am trying to figure out if there is a sort of card catalogue thingie so I can put them all in a drawer? Help! 🙂 A.  First of all, go through your collection and decide […]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations · Sex

My Big Birthday Orgasm

February 24th, 2011 · No Comments

The ingredients for my big birthday orgasm: Medium Njoy Pure Plug – $69.95 Black Dragon Latex Gloves – $20.00 Sliquid Organics Natural – $13.00 Acuvibe HT-1220 Mini Vibrator – $34.95 My lover’s fingers and hands – Priceless

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Tags: Scene Report · Sex · Toy Reviews

Deflowering Debate

January 13th, 2011 · No Comments

The internet is abuzz with a discussion about the porn star who is “losing her virginity” in a shoot at There’s a great post on Maggie Mayhem‘s blog with a response from Peter Acworth himself.

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Tags: Sex


September 22nd, 2010 · 1 Comment

I remember 3rd grade.   I think that is when I learned multiplication and addition.  Thank you, Mrs. Gusten. You were my favorite elementary school teacher.  Shortly after, I used those multiplication/addition skills when I was taught about Pi. Pi = 3.14 and it’s the way to convert diameter from circumference and vice versa. So, […]

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Tags: Sex

2nd annual Sacred Sex Roundup in NYC and online!

September 20th, 2010 · No Comments

I will be teaching at the 2nd Annual Sacred Sexuality Round-Up in Times Square this September 23-26th. Attend in person or you can watch it online! Enjoy 4-Days of heart-felt lectures, workshops, performances, party events, promotions, and networking with the world’s leading Tantra Teachers and Sacred Sexuality Educators. Over thirty great presenters all gathered into […]

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Tags: NYC · Sex

Strapping It On with Andrea Zanin aka Sex Geek

August 16th, 2010 · No Comments

These days, everyone can have a dick of their own – or two, or three! But how do you pick one, and what do you do with it once you’ve got it? Come learn how to choose a cock and harness that best suit your body and your purposes. Then we’ll dive into the nitty-gritty […]

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Tags: events · NYC · Sex

Question #2

March 6th, 2009 · No Comments

I have a question … how do feel about the term “sex positive” and what does it mean (if anything) to you? It’s a new-ish term that I only heard a few years ago.  I think I first heard it from Felice Shays.  I understand it to mean being open and accepting towards all kinds […]

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Tags: Sex