Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

I would love to have a Hello Kitty pink taser, even though it’s only 50,000 volts. Dressing For Pleasure’s dungeon has been shut down due to a zoning violation.  Reports by ABC and  Fox. Caption this! Unfortunately I was unable to attend the second KinkForAll in NYC, but I am enjoying some of the presentations […]

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Violet Blue has interviewed my friend, Rose White, who is opening Wicked Grounds, a kinky coffee shop in the SOMA area of San Francisco. I can’t wait to visit. I am disappointed with the nomination process for the Sexiest Bloggers of 2009 list at Between My Sheets.  I tried nominating several times but the commenting […]

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David Steinberg writes about getting stopped by airport security for his whip and handles the whole situation with aplomb. A very nice little review of the Metal Bondage workshop that Boymeat and I gave at Thunder. Very good article and video about polyamory in Milwaukee. Naked Cowboy is running for mayor of NYC. I definitely […]

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Do you like hot butch, masculine, androgynous, genderqueer, transmasculine, studs, AGs, dykes, and queers? I do! Betty Bowers Explains Traditional Marriage to Everyone Else. The Village Voice has a Folsom Street East slide show. The DC boys of Leather have started a new web site which explores the unique complexities of identity in the BDSM/Leather […]

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My friend, MetalBondNYC, wrote about the final meeting of GMSMA. Leather Archives & Museum posted a great little video from IML 2000. I loved IML back in the days when it was at the Congress Hotel. Mudcub is a great muppet man! Obama’s plan for gay rights. Leather Leadership Conference re-elected Warren Williams and Stephanie […]

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KinkForAll has a new website. Very user-friendly. Be sure to check out the resource page. Audacia Ray is teaching a Human Sexuality course at Rutgers. Her syllabus is on line and it rocks! I wish I had had her as my teacher back when I took Human Sexuality in college. Viviane has the round-up of […]

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Wild orgy leave your home a mess? Here’s how to clean up. I signed the Petition for the Just Treatment of Transgender people in NYPD custody. Who has better sex? Democrats or Republicans? I have two friends who are Republicans and they are pretty good at sex, but I also know that their best sex […]

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How awesome is it to read a blog from a woman in her sixties finding and exploring BDSM! There are not enough role models on the web who are writing about BDSM in their sixties.  This is great! Check out NCSF’s latest newsletter. Great stories. SWA’s I am a Sex Worker PSA shows sex workers […]

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Since several people have asked me about vending at TES Fest, look here. RIP Bea Arthur. She was always cutting edge. The “spices of sex” made underground in Pakistan. Franklin Veaux is totally brilliant. He made a Tracking The Unicorn chart for poly married couples seeking the hot bi babe. Heterosexuals like  Michael Rappapaport are […]

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Mix a little pleasure with the pain. Another reason for me to want an iPhone.  Mmmmmmmmmm…rope bondage!  $5. There’s a new BDSM social network site on the net: LifeKink Yes, Jim, there is a Rubber Invasion. Stand back! I’ll take care of this.

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