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Entries from February 2010

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Feb 25 – Mar 3

February 25th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday, February 25 Hot Knots Friday, February 26 DSF: “The Humble Clothespin, Instrument of Beauty & Torture” w/ Earthwalker & TylerRose Saturday, February 27 Sunday, February 28 Kinky Jews: Crazy Kinky Purim Extravaganza New York Bondage Club Suspension party Monday, March 1 CV: “Tightlacing” w/ Halo Jones Tuesday, March 2 TES: “Medical Bondage” w/ slave […]

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Seen my pretty Alice in every head light

February 23rd, 2010 · 1 Comment

A computer mouse that has a G Spot that leads you to your favorite spot on the web. Derek da Silva writes about public play. Kinky Connections interviews JD of Two Knotty Boys. Boingboing features Mollena playing the race card. Clarisse Thorn has joined Time Out Chicago as a blogger covering sex and BDSM. Her […]

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Highlights from my Birthday

February 22nd, 2010 · 1 Comment

The photo of me was taken Saturday night by Nayland Blake. The audience at Cinekink sang Happy Birthday to me. Mollena Williams wrote an awesome tribute for my birthday. And Cindy composed a poem – Our Lolita When ya meet’ha She might just beatcha Or maybe teach ya In the world of leather yenta Sex […]

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Tags: Relationships

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Feb 18-24

February 18th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday, February 18 CINEKINK NYC TES Queer SIG: “Making It Last: Long-term Gay Master/slave Relationships” w/ david stein Staten Island Kink munch Alphabet Soup Friday, February 19 CINEKINK NYC LSM Presents: “Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play” w/ Sinclair Sexsmith DSF: “A Household with Two Masters and Several slaves” w/ Sir Eric & […]

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APA Paraphilias Subworkgroup Agrees: Kinky is NOT a Diagnosis

February 17th, 2010 · No Comments

In the new proposals for the DSM-V, alternative sexual behavior has been depathologized. The American Psychiatric Association’s Paraphilias Subworkgroup’s DSM revisions acknowledge that you can be a fetishist, transvestite, sexual sadist or sexual masochist without having a mental disorder. NCSF has worked very hard with its DSM Revision Project to make sure these changes take place, […]

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Tags: Activism & Politics

My birthday celebration has started

February 16th, 2010 · 1 Comment

With my birthday on February 20th and Nayland’s on February 5th, some friends have taken the opportunity to fete us together. On Friday night Thor and Mud took us out to see The Enchanted Pig followed by an amazing dinner at Mario Butali’s Otto.  What a great evening!  Thank you! On Saturday morning, Kathryn and […]

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I got friends in low places

February 15th, 2010 · No Comments

British Lucky Paul has pissed off his neighbors.  A zoning issue. Michael The Artist won first place in the glamour category of a photo contest with this piece. Deb Malkin is fat and fabulous. An excellent interview with Graydancer. PhinLi, my agency, has a newly designed website.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Feb 11-17

February 11th, 2010 · No Comments

Thursday, February 11 Queens BDSM Munch Night of the Queens Friday, February 12 DSF: “Valentine’s Day BDSM Play party and Arabian Slave Auction” Saturday, February 13 The AMAZON’s Atrium FEMDOM play Party NYC Sunday, February 14 New York Bondage Club Impact Party Monday, February 15 CV: “Making Rope Your Own” w/ Sebastian Tuesday, February 16 […]

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I am teaching at the Novice Rope Share March 6th!

February 9th, 2010 · 2 Comments

Novice Rope Share Men, Women, Trans, Welcome! In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety. Participants must be over 18yr. Date/time: Saturday, March 6th at 1pm. Location: Greenwich St. (btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site) Specific building […]

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e[lust] #7

February 9th, 2010 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #8? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s […]

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