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Entries from January 2010

e[lust] #5

January 19th, 2010 · No Comments

Welcome to e[lust] – your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #6? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s […]

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The love I lost was a sweet love…

January 14th, 2010 · No Comments

From the last email Dan sent me: Why ask why? Mollena gives some solid advice to BDSM newbies. A positive article about Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture. I love iamfivestar’s Bicycle Bondage Calendar to benefit the AIDS/Lifecycle. International Ms. Leather/ International Ms. Bootblack 2010 needs lots of volunteers. Sign up here.                    .

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Jan 14 – 20

January 14th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Thursday, January 14 Club Fem NYC: “Tying With Authority” w/ Jay Wiseman Queens BDSM Munch NYC TNG Party Night Impact party Friday, January 15 DSF: “It’s All about Caning” w/ Dr. Devon LSM: “BDSM for Bigger Bodies” w/ Del SWITCH Women/Trans/Genderqueer BDSM Party Saturday,  January 16 Brooklyn Leather Munch TES Spanking Group: “Spanking and the […]

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Question from a Reader

January 13th, 2010 · No Comments

I received this question through my website from a person who left a bad email address. It’s such a typical question that I thought I would answer it here. Q. Years ago I was introduced to some very basic BDSM by an older female lover. In that relationship I was always dominant. After we broke up […]

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The First Ever Mr. Rawhide NYC Leather contest

January 12th, 2010 · No Comments

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Leather Leadership Conference Board Offers Scholarships to LLC-XIV in Detroit

January 10th, 2010 · No Comments

The National Board of Directors of the Leather Leadership Conference, Inc. is pleased to announce that it is offering 12 full scholarships to cover the cost of registration to the up-coming LLC-XIV in Detroit, the weekend of April 9-11, 2010. Applications are accepted until January 15, 2010. Those awarded will be notified by January 25, 2010.  […]

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Award Winners

January 10th, 2010 · No Comments

Bobbi Starr is hot! She won Best DP scene at last night’s AVN Awards.  Congratulations! Congratulations also to the winner of Best Educational Release: Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Threesomes!

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Tags: Books · Porn · Reviews & Recommendations

Ask the Man Who Owns Him

January 9th, 2010 · 1 Comment

Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves by david stein and David Schachter I recommended this book to Rusty and she wrote this report: Master Jeff and slave sparky, San Francisco; 15 years together Master Jeff picked “Master/servant” to express the dynamic of their relationship because the servant […]

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Midori’s Rope Dojo comes to NYC!

January 8th, 2010 · No Comments

Rope Bondage Dojo® comes to NYC! April 10 – 11, 2010 Stage I Dojo:  Suitable for all, 18+ Location:  The LGBT Center Time:   Noon – 8pm both days Cost:   Single US$350, Pair US$600. Limited to 30 students Registration opens about 6 weeks prior to the Dojo date. Are you serious about improving your rope bondage […]

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Jan 7 – 13

January 7th, 2010 · 2 Comments

Thursday, January 7 The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue party Friday, January 8 DSF: “Judgement Night “ ClubFEM NYC Munch Saturday,  January 9 Polyplato Productions: “The Play Party Named Desire” Paddles: NYC BDSM Community Open Forum Sunday,  January 10 New York Bondage Club Monday,  January 11 Tuesday,  January 12 TES: ” Membership Meeting” – TES Members only […]

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