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Entries from November 2009


November 30th, 2009 · No Comments

I just discovered this BDSM 101 article in Time Out for which I was interviewed. Hilton of Purple Passion is also a media star in Time Out NY’s Sexy Holiday Gift Guide. The Times of India has a surprisingly pretty good Bondage article. “Mr. Marcus Tribute: Philadelphia Leather Family” video by Alex L & Teddy […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Folsom Fringe 2009

November 27th, 2009 · No Comments

Janice, Kathryn, Boymeat and Lochai In September, I made another California trip.  I taught at Folsom Fringe in San Jose.  A good event in a lovely boutique hotel with the dungeon parties held at the fantastic Edges dungeon. I taught classes and had a great scene with Mollena. Stay tuned for more from that trip.

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Tags: Event Reviews

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Nov 26 – Dec 2

November 26th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Thursday, November 26 Happy Thanksgiving! Friday, November 27 DSF: “Spanksgiving BDSM Party” Stimulate party Paradise Lost party Saturday, November 28 Sunday, November 29 New York Bondage Club Suspension party Monday, November 30 CV: “Cutting and Kink: Transformations of Self-Mutilation into Erotic Play & Body Modification” Tuesday, December 1 TES: ” Flogging” w/ Valentine Wednesday, December […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Susan Wright added to 100 Divas list

November 25th, 2009 · 1 Comment

Boymeat, Kelly, Susan and Kathryn at Folsom Street Fair 2009 I was honored to spank Susan Wright at Kinky Kollege.  She is one of the most spankable people on the planet!  Thank you to Kelly for allowing us to do this. In addition to being the founder and spokesperson for NCSF, Susan is a published […]

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Tags: friends · Spanking

She brought her own toys

November 24th, 2009 · 5 Comments

I had a hot play date on Friday night. When we spoke beforehand to make plans, I had asked her what she liked to do. “Spanking, caning, paddles, floggers.”  She then added, “I have my own toys.” I love that!  Yes, I love those activities, but I really love a playmate who brings her own […]

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Tags: BDSM

Happy Birthday, Kerry!

November 22nd, 2009 · No Comments

I had a weekend filled with friends and lots of good food.  Here’s a shot of Kerry upon entering his surprise birthday party!

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Tags: friends

The New York Times

November 20th, 2009 · 3 Comments

I’m in the New York Times! Wow!  Thank you to Miki Meek, the journalist, and Todd Heisler, the photographer. I really love this “One in 8 Million” piece.  The whole series is fabulous and I am so happy to be a part of it. You can click through at the end to post a comment, […]

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Tags: Press and Media

Top 10 Tips I Learned at Wordcamp NYC

November 19th, 2009 · 4 Comments

1. It was a very good idea to attend.  A lot of it was over my head, but I learned a ton of stuff anyway. 2. When shooting video, adjust your white balance manually. 3. When looking for plug-ins, look at release date, not just usage and ranking.  Some plug-ins aren’t up-to-date with the later […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: November 19-25

November 19th, 2009 · No Comments

Thursday, November 19 TES Queer SIG: “PIY: Porn It Yourself” w/ Sinclair Sexsmith, Blaise & Nayland Staten Island Kink munch Alphabet Soup Friday, November 20 Le Cercle des Dommes meeting DSF: “Righting The Ship” w/ Lolita, Boymeat, Bo, Efrain Gonzalez, Michael, Lady Elaina & Morpheus Saturday, November 21 Brooklyn Leather munch TES Spanking Group: Rachael […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

e[lust] #1

November 18th, 2009 · No Comments

Welcome to the first edition of e[lust]! Below is your source for inspirations of lust and sexual intelligence from a wide range of sex bloggers. Want to be included in the next edition? Submission period opens for e[lust] # 2 on November 20th – subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for all updates! Check […]

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