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Entries from April 2009

My Trip to CLAW

April 30th, 2009 · No Comments

Last weekend I went to CLAW.  That’s an acronym for Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend.  The weekend is open to everyone but attracts mainly gay men.  Even though there is no contest at CLAW, titleholders come from all over.  This is the big pre-IML event for them to shop and network.  The event also attracts a […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · travel


April 29th, 2009 · No Comments

Since several people have asked me about vending at TES Fest, look here. RIP Bea Arthur. She was always cutting edge. The “spices of sex” made underground in Pakistan. Franklin Veaux is totally brilliant. He made a Tracking The Unicorn chart for poly married couples seeking the hot bi babe. Heterosexuals like  Michael Rappapaport are […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Apr 30-May 6

April 29th, 2009 · No Comments

Maestro, Satine Phoenix, Cherry Torn, Bella Rossi, Lobo, Lilla Katt, Peter, Princess Donna, Van Darkholme, Matt Williams, Maitresse Madeline, James, Mister Torn, Nina No, Laura Antoniou and Jade Indica on Thursday, April 30 Friday, May 1 DSF: “Emotion, endorphins and edge play” w/ Sir Barry NYC Munch Saturday,  May 2 Sunday,  May 3 MAsT […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Tristan’s Anniversary Edition Plug

April 28th, 2009 · No Comments

Babeland is celebrating Tristan Taormino’s 10 years in the business with a new edition of the Tristan Plug.  Tristan helped design this plug.  I bought one many years ago when Tristan did one of her anal sex workshops.  I chose the hot pink color.  At the time, it was like no other plug on the market.  […]

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Tags: Toy Reviews

NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Apr 23-29

April 22nd, 2009 · 2 Comments

Jade Indica and Sinn Sage on Thursday, April 23 Alphabet Soup Friday, April 24 DSF: “Hot Wax” with Sire Blue Le Cercle des Dommes Saturday, April 25 SUBMIT Party Sunday, April 26 GMSMA Workshop: “The Art of Flagellation” ONYX Pearls Northeast: Bring Your Own Topic Suspension New York Bondage Club Monday, April 27 Tuesday, April […]

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Tags: NYC Weekly Leather Dates

Cousins in pigtails

April 22nd, 2009 · 14 Comments

The only thing my Daddy likes better than playing with his little girl is playing with two little girls. So Daddy was very happy when my cousin came over to play. The first thing we did was fix our hair. My cousin has beautiful black long hair like a Cherokee princess. We both put our […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

Word for word

April 22nd, 2009 · 1 Comment

Mix a little pleasure with the pain. Another reason for me to want an iPhone.  Mmmmmmmmmm…rope bondage!  $5. There’s a new BDSM social network site on the net: LifeKink Yes, Jim, there is a Rubber Invasion. Stand back! I’ll take care of this.

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Earth Day! Recycle your sex toys!

April 21st, 2009 · 1 Comment

Now you can recycle your old sex toys!  Whether it’s a dildo or a butt plug that you no longer use, or a vibrator that is broken, you can now dispose of them in an environmentally friendly way.  Mail in your clean used toys and these folks will take them apart (rubber, silicone, hard plastics, […]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations · Toy Reviews

Men wrestling men for sex

April 21st, 2009 · No Comments

Tyler Saint and Nick Moretti on NakedKombat is newest site. Directed by Van Darkholme. Hot! “Hard bodies slick with sweat and oil grapple for dominance — and even harder cocks are poised like swords at the ready. The struggle begins: It’s man against man, speed against strength, and a glorious display of raw, […]

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Tags: Porn


April 20th, 2009 · No Comments

I’ll be at CLAW this weekend.  You can find me during vending hours at the Purple Passion booth.  I’ll be helping out Hilton and I’ll also have my book/DVDs for sale.  Stop by and say hi to us.

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Tags: travel