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Entries from November 2008

Stephanie in NYC

November 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Stephanie came to visit and I showed her my town. Popover Cafe a surprise date with Boymeat shopping at Macys and 3 other stores the classic holiday windows at Lord & Taylor the fabulous Gothic show at F.I.T. pedicures some good sushi, bad service the Catherine Opie show at the Guggenheim with LSM Jackson Hole […]

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November 25th, 2008 · No Comments

Check out this new cookbook. Be sure to read the comments as well. Selina writes about the party we went to on Saturday night. The TES Bondage SIG hosted Mac Koehler last week. He shares part one of his talk here. But you had to actually be there to see the fabulous suspension he did […]

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Pleasurists #5

November 24th, 2008 · No Comments

Olga Cabaeva and Penny Flame on Adult product reviews from the last seven days from all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #4? Read it all here. Do you Have a review for Pleasurists #4? Submit it here before Sunday November 30th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own […]

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Enter My Contest! Win Porn!

November 20th, 2008 · 57 Comments

Kylie Ireland on is my favorite porn company and I got some swag from them that I want to share with one lucky reader of this blog. You can win a package containing: * Best of DVD 2008 * 50 free Kinks for (each Kink = $1) Enter to win […]

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Cop and Cowboy

November 20th, 2008 · No Comments

Dogging is Steven Meisel’s edgiest phooto shoot ever. Macy’s Thanksgiving Parade will feature a Keith Haring balloon. It would have been his 50th birthday. Today, November 20, is the 10th annual Transgender Day of Remembrance.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Nov 20-26

November 20th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Lucy Belle on Thursday, November 20 Staten Island Kink Munch Friday, November 21 LSM Field Trip to Catherine Opie: American Photographer DSF: “Name That Welt: Straps, canes and implements that hurt” w/ Ted Erusservae Apple Munch Le Cercle des Dommes Switch party Saturday, November 22 TES: “Learning the Single-Tail Workshop” with Thrash Brooklyn Leather […]

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Life and death

November 19th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Eileen and Maymay think there’s not enough art depicting submissive men. To wit, they have started a great new site. Sweden removes sadomasochism, fetishism, fetishistic transvestism, sexual preference disorders and gender identity disorder from the official disease registry. In the USA, NCSF has a petition to the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to revise its Diagnostic […]

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New Site

November 19th, 2008 · No Comments

There’s some very dirty girls over at!

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Things I Loathe #5 (in no apparent order)

November 18th, 2008 · 2 Comments

I’ve written before how I despise John Catsimatidis and Gristedes Supermarkets, but today I want to write about Associated Supermarkets. I went into their store at 97th Street and Amsterdam Avenue on Friday, November 14 and they were playing Christmas music! It was that stupid drummer boy pa-rum-pum-pum-pum crap. It’s too early for this. What’s […]

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Rope w/ Mac Koehler – NYC Wed 11/19

November 18th, 2008 · No Comments

TES Bondage SIG presents “Tie Me to the Ends of Love” with Mac Koehler Wednesday November 19 in NYC Join Mac Koehler for a riff on Leonard Cohen of which the poet himself would approve. The ends of love have known many means: chocolate, diamonds, war…. bondage? Well, maybe not so much. Until now. From […]

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