Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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Entries from October 2006

A Big Wet Spot

October 17th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Tonight (Tuesday) I went to the Cinekink grand gala opening party at Bacchus. I volunteered and sold raffle tickets to benefit NCSF. My favorites were the customers who allowed me to sell them a measurement from crotch to floor. For them, I got down on my knees and started kissing and nibbling from their boots […]

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Tags: Event Reviews · Spanking


October 12th, 2006 · 1 Comment

I had my first close encounter with Dude at one of those parties hosted by close friends. A carefully chosen guest list. Favorite foods. Fun lighting. Some rules to make it safe for everybody. Mood music. A lot of puppy piles and touching. Very comfortable. Except for Dude. “Oooo! I am touching Lolita. I can’t […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex

Teaching Novices Wednesday NYC

October 10th, 2006 · No Comments

Here’s the blurb from The Eulenspiegel Society: Wednesday, October 11, 2006 TES Novice Group-Finding Your Way in the Scene w/ Lolita Wolf It’s Back To School Night at TES and what better way to kick off the “school” year then with a visit from Lolita Wolf. Lolita is one of the most well known and […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous


October 9th, 2006 · No Comments

“Wait,” he said. “You like men?” “Yes, of course. Sometimes, I even prefer them” “I always thought you were a lesbian.” I laughed. “That is a common misperception.” Okay, I thought, things are getting interesting here. Jonah was one of the hottest leathermen I knew. An experienced player. I knew what kind of play he […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships


October 9th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Jefferson was on the phone when I got there. I stayed quiet because I figured he might be on a business call. But, no, he handed the phone to me. I heard a sexed up voice spilling a barrage of nastiness, “I’m going to fuck all your holes,” yadda yadda, “and then I’m going to […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex

No crowbars

October 7th, 2006 · No Comments

My leather family is so incestuous. We have a family motto: The family that plays together, stays together. We even have pins that were made up that say that. Like, my Daddy plays with my boy, I play with Momma Bear’s two properties, etc. This interconnecting play happens pretty organically and there is never any […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Relationships · Scene Report

Pirate Party

October 5th, 2006 · 1 Comment

The phone rings. “I know I am calling very late” It’s 8pm on Wednesday. “But I am hoping you have time for me on Friday night. I have this outfit that just needs a single tailing.” “Well, I have a play date and she also has another play date…” She cuts me off, “I know.” […]

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Tags: BDSM

Osso buco

October 4th, 2006 · 3 Comments

Saturday dinner at the Pond House was going to be late. Special, but late. We were expected to dress up. I wore something white and tight and convinced myself that I was mysterious and sexy. Music played and candles were lit. It was already dark outside. Em was on top of me grinding herself into […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report · Spanking

The Tart

October 3rd, 2006 · 2 Comments

One of the ways that CAPEX helps fund presenters like me to come and teach is to raffle off a scene with the presenter. So, I consented to be raffled off. Candice was all excited to be holding the winning ticket. She waved a huge wad of tickets, “Wow! I never win and this time […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report · Spanking

Find Lolita Oct 2006 and beyond

October 3rd, 2006 · 2 Comments

Wed Oct 11 – NYC TES Novice Group: teaching “Finding Your Way In The Scene” Oct 13-15 – Portland, OR Pacific Friction: teaching Sensory Deprivation & Control Oct 17-22 – NYC Cinekink: just watching Tues Oct 24 – NYC TES: teaching “Building Trust” Nov 3-4 – Philadelphia, PA classes at Passional Fri Nov 3. 7pm-9pm: […]

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Tags: Find Lolita