Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Entries from October 2006

Good girls watch PBS

October 29th, 2006 · 4 Comments

I went to the TES Halloween party and I tied up Kate. Every time I play with that girl, it’s good, real good. She’s enthusiastic and she is easy to read. So, I do not usually write about other people’s scenes but this is too funny. There’s this girl at the party and she made […]

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Tags: BDSM · Scene Report

What’s love got to do with it?

October 27th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Bearsir commented to me in my Sex and Dishes post where I discussed my idea of a fuckbuddy. He said, “This is interesting; I have been writing a lot recently about the sense, culturally that there is this dichotomy about sex: either you have monogamous, partnered sex or you’re having casual, anonymous sex. My sense, […]

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Tags: Relationships

The waiting is the hottest part

October 26th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Waiting is sexy. Don Quixote and I had scheduled our assignation three weeks ago. This has kept me anticipating, yearning, fantasizing and wet with desire. So, I have been jerking off a lot. And it seems the more I jerk off, well, just the more I want to jerk off. More. More. More. So, now […]

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Tags: Reviews & Recommendations · Sex · Toy Reviews

Don Quixote

October 25th, 2006 · No Comments

Don Quixote and I run into each other at various gatherings and events. He is friends with friends who are friends with friends of mine. Most often one or the other of us is busy and unable to attend. The sightings are merely occasional. He is so beautiful that I am unable to look at […]

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Tags: Relationships · Sex


October 23rd, 2006 · 3 Comments

It was the late night show at Cinekink and I sat between Dude and Dudette. I enjoyed the movie and had my hand stuck down Dudette’s pants the whole time. I fiddled with her enormous clit. At the end of the movie, she turned to me, “You’re coming home with us.” I thought for a […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Relationships · Scene Report · Sex

Trust at TES

October 23rd, 2006 · No Comments

I am teaching at TES on Tuesday night. Here’s the blurb: Tuesday 10/24 TES Program: Building Trust with Lolita How is it that one person allows another to take control over them? Before such a potent agreement is forged between adults, trust needs to exist. Trust can be built up in a number of ways. […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous


October 22nd, 2006 · 1 Comment

I wanted something and I asked for it. Straight up asked. No hinting. No beating around the bush. Just asked, very straightforward. And I got what I wanted. Wow! Of course, I am delighted, but why am I surprised? I see it happen all the time. I myself say yes to others when asked. I […]

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Tags: Relationships


October 21st, 2006 · 3 Comments

Jenny was in town for Cinekink. Jenny is cute and loves sex and she thinks I am hot. Woo hoo! “So, what do you have planned for tomorrow?” “Shopping.” “You should come with me for an hour or so to have sex with Jefferson before you go shopping.” “Who is Jefferson again?” “He’s Marcus’ boyfriend. […]

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Tags: BDSM · Relationships · Scene Report · Sex

An Inadvertent Foray into Exploring Identity

October 20th, 2006 · 1 Comment

On the way to Pacific Friction, the airline lost my luggage. All I had was the clothes on my back and they felt grungy and inappropriate. I cruised the vendor area and found DieselFemme and bought a hot little slinky slip dyed a dark gray with a chain and a zipper and some studs. Very […]

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Tags: Relationships

I gotta be in pictures

October 19th, 2006 · 2 Comments

Photo by Brian Van See the Tuesday night Cinekink review on Fleshbot with a photo of me spanking a hot girl!

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Tags: Event Reviews · Spanking