Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

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December 26th, 2004 · No Comments

Volume 10, Number 27 © Copyright 2004 by Lolita Wolf – Material may not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any organization with which the author may be associated.


“It doesn’t matter what you do in the bedroom as long as you don’t do it in the street and frighten the horses.”

– Mrs. Patrick Campbell

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Boymeat and I drove up to Boston. We took Bad Faggot with us. We enjoyed the addition – he is an amusing conversationalist and a considerate traveling companion. We were all checked in and settled in by 11pm – too late to go out but we did sit up and talk until about 2am. Boymeat and I were both teaching first class at 11am, so we got up with coffee and Bad Faggot took the morning caning. You don’t have to hit him very hard to make him yelp.

I taught Mummification. Bad Faggot helped me to wrap Sarah J in lots of Saran and pallet wrap and vet wrap and duct tape and we just let her stew. I then encased BF’s hands in duct tape and wrapped his torso in Saran. I put an airline pillowcase on his head and wrapped that with bondage tape. Then I slipped a tubular chair shroud over him and had him lay on the table. I secured the shroud with duct tape and left him to wiggle. I went back to Sarah J and opened up some strategic holes. I stuck a vibrator down her crotch and after a bit, she came. I cut her out and helped her dry off and stay warm. Then I went back to BF and got him out. He spent the rest of the trip glowing about the chair shroud.

I spent the rest of the day wandering the Flea and saying hi to lots of folks. I also hung out for a while in the Bondage Lounge where Luna did my boots. The Bondage Lounge was really nice – very mellow with lots of people getting tied up and much information exchange. Dinner was with a bunch of friends at Legal Seafood.

Later, at the play party, I had a date with Julia. I love playing with Julia! It was a sensual scene with a spanking that built up slowly into a caning. Dragging my knife slowly across her skin, she gasped and then squealed. I began to bite her and she started biting me back and we wound up in a laughing heap on the floor – not sure what happened but I soon got the scene back on track, caned her a bit more and fisted her. After that, I had been invited to join in a birthday scene with a special birthday girl. There were about a half dozen other people involved in this scene. The birthday girl was all warmed up by the time it was my time to spank her. I wore my black leather search gloves and spanked her. She purred after every hit. The scene ended with Boymeat single tailing her and then we all got into a big aftercare puppy pile on the bed.

Sunday, Luna brought the morning coffee for all of us and again Bad Faggot accommodated me for the morning caning. Boymeat caned Luna in the other bed. Life is good. But we could not dawdle too much because once again Boymeat and I were teaching the 11am classes.

I surveyed the room at my How To Play With Needles class and everyone there was a total novice to play piercing. I covered the safety: how to minimize the risks of infection and avoid cross contamination, etc. Sarah J was my demoee for this class as well. Two times in one weekend! And we had never played together before. She took the needles in a very yummy way and left me wanting to play with her again – hopefully not in a demo situation, but in a scene where my entire focus could be on her. There were bunch of people who wanted to try this on a hands on way. First, two couples who where one happily pierced the other. It is so cool passing on new skills to people. And then Ms Rio Grande Leather – Julian Wolf (see pic and bio at stepped forward. She was all nervous and blabbing about really wanting to do this and Albuquerque TNG and some fashion show and how she really wanted me to do this with me because I have this reputation blah blah blah. Rather than trying to get a word in edgewise and centering her, I just shot that needle right into her chest. Her eyes got huge and that sure as hell shut her up – for just a minute. She really liked it so I put another needle in.

I did not do too much shopping at the Flea – a few holiday presents (a book from and a little something at Leather Creations). I thought the Boston Sheraton Hotel was a really nice place and the staff was very friendly to us. The facilities (classrooms and ballrooms) were spacious and in good shape. It’s really good to have a hotel that wants our business.


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New York Times article on blogging, sex and ethics. I have had some real time experience with this stuff over the years.

Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf

Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!

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