LOLITA’S PREDICTIONS & PREDILECTIONS – March 26, 2003
Volume 9, Number 13 © Copyright 2003 by Lolita Wolf – Material may
not be reproduced in whole or in part without prior written consent of
the copyright holder. The views expressed herein are exclusively those
of the author and do not represent the views of any other person or any
organization with which the author may be associated.
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QUOTATION OF THE WEEK
“I think the best we can do is to assume that the right approaches
will be the ones that emerge by courageously facing some realities
squarely and honestly, without being influenced by personal agendas,
needing to paint a rosy picture of things, or needing to be ‘politically
correct.'”
– Guy Baldwin
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THE P+P LEAVES LEATHERPAGE.COM
The origins of Lolita’s Predictions & Predilections began back in 1995.
This has always been the way I stay in contact with my friends. It is
the weekly update to what is happening in my life, what I think is
important in the SM scene and a planning tool for the coming week.
The P+P has evolved into more than a way to stay in touch with my circle
of friends and it now reaches thousands of readers per week.
For the past five years, Joe Gallagher has hosted the web version of the
P+P. Joe’s site, http://www.leatherpage.com, has been a tremendous
resource to the community, providing a space where many leather
columnists could be read. I have been very fortunate to be included.
On more than occasion, Joe and I have had editorial disagreements about
the content of my column. I have always been very clear that these views
are my own (see the disclaimer above). I want to state my opinions freely.
After much soul-searching, I have come to the conclusion that I must pull
the P+P from Leatherpage.com.
Thank you very much to Joe for hosting the P+P. It can now be seen on
the web at http://lolitawolf.blogspot.com …and of course, you can still
subscribe to it via email (LolitaSSC@aol.com)
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BOND CON NYC
I went out to Bond Con in Queens for the day on Friday. What a culture
shock! The main focus was in the exhibit hall with the various bondage
models being the center of attraction. There were all types of girls (and
one guy – Delano) and they really knew how to work the crowds of
“fan boys.” The models flirted and made arrangements to be tied up by
riggers who wanted to show off their tie-up skills. The fan-boys, mainly
single men (or men without their wives), stood around and watched.
Many had cameras and clicked away. They were oddly reminiscent of
Hellfire’s wankers, but these guys had their clothes on and did not touch
themselves.
I hung out with Midori and Michael Blue and offered to perform small acts
of service. The two of them have teamed up to do a fabulous bondage
website (http://www.beautybound.com). Midori had a bondage frame with
her and suspended three different models during the time I was there.
She would look at them, study their bodies and ask them questions about
their level of experience and then just go to work. She took extra care with
a model who had never been suspended before. Once the models were up,
she would add some rope and loosen others and the suspension would
morph into a whole other position. Midori is very fluid.
I saw a bunch of people I know. Saw Lady J whom I hadn’t seen in years
and she looked great. The guys from Stationhouse were there and they
had cute camouflage swimsuits for women (http://www.stationhouse.com/outpost/womens_items/camo_swimwear.htm).
Also saw Leather By Danny, Rainbow Rope, Details and others.
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THE REST OF THE WEEKEND
M Blair presented at Lesbian Sex Mafia on Friday night. She taught all
the safety aspects and techniques of Cutting and then did a demo which
turned out beautifully. I really like the way she teaches – she is very
organized and complete.
After a bite to eat with other LSM folks, I headed over to meet up with
Boymeat and Neptune at the LURE. The LURE was packed! It seems
everyone who came into NYC for the Black Party and Night of 1000
Gowns and showed up at the LURE. We got to see a bunch of people
and catch up with them. It was also a big night for Neptune. Friday
was the last day of his slave contract and the beginning of slave
vacation. How is it that he always ends up uncollared at the LURE
during slave vacation? That drives me nuts. He’s too cute to be loose
at the LURE. At Midnight it was also Neptune’s birthday. He is now
25, which is a great age because that is when your car insurance rates
go down. To celebrate, he smoked cigars with Boymeat.
On Saturday night, I met up with Boymeat at Paddles. There was also
a huge crowd there with many from Bond Con and I had to wait in a line
outside to get in. It was tough finding a spot to play, but we finally did,
and I beat the crap out of him. Floggers. Unrestrained. He would yell
in a primal way and jump up and down. I felt very strong and I hit him
very hard. A few times he sank to one knee, “Get up! I’m not done.”
He would get up and we would keep going. Finally, he collapsed on the
floor sobbing. Oh, yeah.
On Sunday, I work Neptune up early (1pm) and dragged him out to the
TES Party, held at Nutcracker Suite. TES has not played at the Nut in
over a year and much of the place has been renovated. It looked really
beautiful. In celebration of his birthday, I allowed him to pick the scene
and he chose bondage. I took my prettiest rope and laid down a harness
and then layered more over his arms and legs. The colors wove in and he
giggled, remembering our first date four years ago when I tied him up at
Hellfire, “I seem to always inspire you to break symmetry.” I chose some
vet wrap that color-coordinated with the rope and wrapped his head. I
added bungie cords so that he could bounce. We were in the medical
room where I turned off the white lights and kept the blue lights on low.
It looked really pretty. I need to get more bungie cords.
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SLAVE TRADE BY SUSAN WRIGHT
Slave Trade by Susan Wright, Book 1 of the Slave Trade Trilogy, published
by Pocket Books will be released in April 2003.
Slave Trade is a provocative new science fiction saga of slavery and
rebellion. Human slaves can’t defy their alien masters – or can they?
Rose Rico never believed the rumors, that the government was secretly
selling human beings to the Alphas in exchange for advanced alien technology.
The idea that human sex slaves were a luxury item throughout the galaxy was
just too ridiculous to take seriously–until Rose found herself, along with
hundreds of other human captives, bound for the far reaches of space, and
compelled to cater to the depraved desires of her new alien masters. As a
rule, pleasure slaves don’t live very long, especially the stubborn ones. But
Rose refuses to give up. Someday, somehow, she’ll win back her freedom-
or die trying!
Susan Wright writes nonfiction books on art and popular culture, including
SM Classics and Destination Mars, and is also the author of nine Star Trek
novels, including Dark Passions 1 & 2, Gateways: One Small Step, Badlands,
and Sins of Commission. Susan is the Spokesperson for the National
Coalition for Seuxal Freedom (NCSF), a national organization that supports
the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory
communities. Info: http://www.susanwright.info
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BEST WISHES TO PAT McCARTY
Long time readers will remember me posting occasionally about my friend,
Pat McCarty of New Orleans. About 4 years ago Pat was diagnosed with a
rare form of carcinoid cancer. It is a slow growing type of cancer. Over the
past few years he has taken chemo and radiation treatments and takes daily
doses of medication for the cancer. Two weeks ago he took a turn for the
worse. This type of cancer causes numerous tumors and the tumors have
now infiltrated his spinal cord. They did emergency surgery 2 weeks ago to
remove one of the tumors that was pressing on his spinal cord. At this point
he is still in the hospital and is undergoing rehab. He is wheelchair bound
and unable to walk or stand by himself due to paralysis from the tumors on
his spinal cord. They have hope that he will get some movement back in his
legs…how much they are unsure of since almost every vertebrae in his spine
has these tumors. He starts radiation tomorrow to see if they can shrink the
tumors.
Pat needs the support and prayers of the community. He does not have
email access right now and probably won’t have it for the next couple of
months. If anyone wants to contact him they can do so via his long time
firend, Kristil Thompson at LdyDrkLove@aol.com
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TES FEST & NYC FETISH MARATHON
In mid May, New York City’s Fetish and BDSM communities are uniting
to present The NYC Fetish Marathon. This four-day non-stop festival of
alternative sexuality will be anchored by both The Black & Blue Ball X,
kicking things off on Thursday, May 15, and The Eulenspiegel Society’s
3 day kink extravaganza TES FEST, May 16 – 18. Many events, both large
and small, will be happening all over the city during the weekend including
around-the-clock dungeon access to NYC’s most famous public dungeon,
Paddles until the wee hours of Monday morning.
The Eulenspiegel Society, 2003 winner of Pantheon of Leather’s Large
Club of the Year Award, will host TES Fest at The Hotel Pennsylvania.
The hotel, one of the five largest in the City, is located at 7th Avenue at
33rd Street, in the heart of midtown and directly opposite Madison Square
Garden and Amtrak’s Penn Station so it is the single easiest hotel to get
to and find in all of Manhattan. Macy’s, the world’s largest department store,
is one block up the street. The Empire State building is around the corner.
The Theater District is a few blocks away. Prices for TES Fest go up April 1.
Info: http://www.TesFest.org and http://www.FetishMarathon.com
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BRYAN “PUP” MULLIKIN
Beloved American Leatherboy 2001, Bryan “Pup” Mullikin departed this
life Thursday March 13 at his home in Chicago. He was 33 years old. Pup
graced the Washington, DC leather community from 1999 until his May
2002 move to the Windy City. He had lived in New York and San Francisco
prior to the Nation’s Capital. He was no stranger to the Leather Community
across the country, he will always be known for his warm smile and
effervescent personality.
He proudly served as President of the DC Boys of Leather for two years.
He worked hard to help boys’ clubs across the country. It was his personal
mission to impress upon the community the importance of respect for all
individuals including his fellow boys.
Pup is survived by his mother and father of Northern Kentucky. He was
their only child. Burial will be held in his family’s hometown. Brian’s family
is in need of assistance with the burial arrangements, and several people
and clubs have already made generous donations. The DC Boys of Leather
have volunteered to collect donations on behalf of the community and
forward them on to the family. Make checks payable to DC Boys of Leather,
write “Bryan” in the memo line, and sent by mail to: DC Boys of Leather,
Attn: Bryan Mullikin Memorial, PO Box 53286, Washington, DC 20009.
Donations may also be made by PayPal to treasurer@dcboysofleather.org
and enter the subject as “Bryan Mullikin”
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GLLA WEEKEND
The Great Lakes Leather Alliance is producing its second annual GLLA
Weekend the weekend of August 22-24 in Indianapolis, IN. This pansexual
weekend will include five regional leather competitions: Great Lakes Leather
Sir, Great Lakes Leather boy, Great Lakes Ms. Leather Pride, Great Lakes
Boot Black, and Great Lakes Master/slave. The weekend will also encompass
a large and well-equipped play-space, some gender specific furnished
play-spaces, a vendors market, a hospitality suite, an ‘Exit to Eden’
Master/Mistress/slave auction for charity, kinky entertainment, nearly thirty
educational workshops and demos and many well-known speakers, judges,
and presenters.
The host hotel offers a special rate of only $51. The location of the host
hotel will be given only to registered attendees of the event, and all attendees
must register in advance because no packages will be sold on premises.
Register before May 1 for the early-bird rate of $60. Info:
http://greatlakesleather.org
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THE WANT ADS
Thanks to my sponsors!
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EVENTS OF THE WEEK
Friday 3.28 NYC
DomSubFriends Meeting: “Passionate duo whips: Part 2” with Eric &
jan and Special Guest Joe Wheeler. 8pm at Paddles, 250 W 26 St between
7 & 8th Aves. $8 (4 for members of DSF & affiliate members). Info:
http://www.DomSubFriends.com
Saturday 3.29 NYC
TES Meeting: “Extreme Scenes…. Hard Play” with Bo (aka Master J)
and Lady D. Ever wanted to play really hard? Or do that really intense
scene? Discuss and demo. 7:30-10pm at The Paddles, 250 W 26 St,
between 7 & 8 Aves. $8 ($4 for members of TES and other leather/SM orgs)
Info: 212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org
This Monday and every Monday Cyberspace
Back by popular demand (maybe not so popular but surely demanding…):
The Eulenspiegel Not Til chat room on AOL 10pm-Midnight. NOT a TES
event but an unofficial place online where many TES members and friends
hang out and talk. No set topic. It is a good place to ask questions,
debate the answers, ask and receive advice, compare notes about the
scene, gossip about last week, plan the upcoming week, flirt a little, be
serious and not so serious. On AOL in the Town Square area of the People
Connection in a “member room” – not private: aol://2719:61-2-Eulenspiegel
not til. Add this location to your Favorite Places Folder so that it’s easy to
come back.
Tuesday 4.1 NYC
TES presents “Hypnosis In the Scene” with Jonathan Vale. 7:30pm at
75 Bleecker St, just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for members of TES and
other SM/leather orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org
Wednesday 4.2 NYC
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group presents “Sinle Tail Whips”
with Eric & jan and Special Guest Joe Wheeler. 7:30pm at 75 Bleecker St,
just east of Broadway. $8 ($4 for members of TES and other SM/leather
orgs). Info: 212-388-7022 or http://www.tes.org
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LINKS OF THE WEEK
Binding arbitration yields $35,000 for bondage case:
http://www.law.com/servlet/ContentServer?pagename=OpenMarket/
Xcelerate/View&t=PubArticleCA&c=PubArticle&cid=1046833528271
&live=true&cst=1&pc=0&pa=0
Alden Baker, who faced civil commitment for interest in S&M, was
ruled not dangerous and released:
http://www.baywindows.com/news/396131.html
Have fun! Play safe!
Lolita Wolf
Lolita speaking only for Lolita, of course!
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc
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