Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Oink BVI

November 17th, 2011 · Comments Off

Recently, I spent a week with six other kinky people on a 50 foot Beneteau sailboat in the British Virgin Islands. As you can see in the photo above, our ship proudly flew a pig flag. I don’t want to bore you with a full report of my vacation, so here are the highlights: Best SCUBA dive: [...]

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Tags: travel

Fantasy Role Play in Scottsdale, AZ

June 7th, 2011 · Comments Off

On Thursday June 9, I’ll be teaching Fantasy Role Play as part of the Let’s Talk Sex series at Fascinations. Not only is the class free, food and drink will be served and a free raffle will take place. First ten attendees will get a free $10 gift card to Fascinations, just for showing up! [...]

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Street Art in Paris

November 25th, 2010 · 2 Comments

I’m in Paris with Peggy aka O, my ex-girlfriend. I’m here for eight nights. I’ve been posting updates and photos to my Twitter.  We’ve been shopping, sightseeing and eating with friends. Tonight we are having a traditional non-Thanksgiving dinner of oysters and lobster with her folks. This photo is of some neat street art that [...]

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Tags: Art & Culture · travel

Find Lolita

April 21st, 2010 · Comments Off

I’m back from California and have added three new events to my calendar! I’ll be teaching Caning for Lesbian Sex Mafia on May 21. Don’t let the name fool you. It’s not just for Lesbians and it’s not really the Mafia. I will also be at Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat June 23-28 as well as [...]

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Find Lolita – January 2010 and beyond

January 20th, 2010 · Comments Off

January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ Southwest Leather Conference: teaching “The Dynamics of Co-Topping“ and “How To Be A Greedy Pig” January 28 – online class Power Play Academy: teaching: “How to be a Greedy  Pig–Let Me Count the Ways” January 29 – NYC TES TNG Rope Share: teaching rope Feb 5-6, Columbus, OH Winter Wickedness: [...]

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Find Lolita – December 2009 and beyond

December 7th, 2009 · Comments Off

December 7 – NYC Conversio Virium December 15 – NYC TES January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ Southwest Leather Conference January 28 – online class Power Play Academy: How to be a Greedy Pig–Let Me Count the Ways February 5-6, Columbus, OH Winter Wickedness February 15 – online class Power Play Academy: The Greedy Pig Deals [...]

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Wicked Grounds – the tables

December 7th, 2009 · Comments Off

I recently wrote about Wicked Grounds, the San Francisco kinky coffee shop. I loved the tables at the shop.  Each one was an art project made with love by various volunteers.  Some of rthem were obstructed when I visited because they had just opened and were gearing up for Folsom weekend. Ryan’s table Mollena’s table

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Tags: BDSM · Reviews & Recommendations · travel

Find Lolita – November 2009 and beyond

November 4th, 2009 · Comments Off

Steve Holmes, Cj and Gilda Roberts on sexandsubmission.com November 13 – NYC DomSubFriends: on a panel, “Righting The Ship” November 23 – NYC The New School: teaching a class on alternate sexualities December 7 – NYC Conversio Virium: teaching “Trust” December 15 – NYC TES: I’m Lolita Claus! January 22-24 – Phoenix, AZ Southwest Leather [...]

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National Equality March – Part 3

October 19th, 2009 · Comments Off

Glenda, Larry and John Mudcub and Thor Christina and Peggy Sue Titleholders pose for a grand photo op. Boymeat, Kathryn and I rock the NCSF T-shirts!

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Tags: Activism & Politics · travel

National Equality March – Part 2

October 17th, 2009 · Comments Off

Mr and Ms Capital Pride Leather 2009, Matt and Jackie organized the NEM Leather contingent Tom, Bruce and Devon of NYC.  Bruce took a lead role in organizing the Leather contingents in 1987 and 1993. Ernie from NJ Greg from NJ David and his partner from Chicago It was a glorious, warm and sunny day [...]

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Tags: Activism & Politics · travel