Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Folsom (the original)

September 27th, 2007 · No Comments

I’m on my way to Folsom Street Fair via Folsom Fringe! This is the big party to celebrate Boymeat‘s bithday! I’m probably not going online at all. Call my cell. I’ll be back Monday night. And allow me to make a public plug about how great Daddy Faye is. My daddy is always the most […]

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Bondage Tonight!!

September 26th, 2007 · No Comments

The TES Bondage Group presents: “Another Bondage Experience!” with Lolita, 705, Dov, and Jason Vet wrap, bondage tape, chains and cuffs, zip ties, pallet wrap and duck tape will all be on hand for experimentation in this evening devoted to entirely to alternative media bondage. Lolita, 705, Dov, and Jason will teaching and guiding individuals […]

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Feed your head

September 1st, 2007 · No Comments

On Friday night I went to the Summer of Love exhibit at The Whitney. I am now convinced that every art show should be accompanied by music. While that period of time was overshadowed by the deaths in Viet Nam, the King and Kennedy assassinations and the drug overdoses of Joplin and Hendrix, it was […]

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A Piece of History

June 13th, 2007 · 2 Comments

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Annie and Beth

May 13th, 2007 · No Comments

On Saturday, there were nine of us that went to see “Exposed: Experiments in Love, Sex, Death and Art” with Annie Sprinkle and Elizabeth Stephens. This show was performed at Collective: Unconscious in TriBeCa. This is a very déjà vu space for me because it used to be the Harmony, a strip club, and one […]

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Speed Bondage

April 15th, 2007 · No Comments

I very much enjoyed Lee Harrington‘s Speed Bondage Class at TES yesterday. The class covered a bunch of ties. I picked up a few new things and just enjoyed sharing a space with other rope enthusiasts. I think that speed has it’s place in rope bondage (especially in performance and in take-downs), but I do […]

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Bondage NYC Tonight

March 28th, 2007 · No Comments

TES Bondage Group: Long Distance, Long Term Bondage with Tim Using the Internet and other high tech, it is possible to do bondage hundreds of miles away and continue for days, weeks or months. We will describe one instance of strict slavery that continued for years.This is going to be a great program. Tim has […]

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My birthday

February 21st, 2007 · 1 Comment

Tuesday was my birthday and I spent it perfectly. At home alone, just puttering around. And screening my calls. The fact that I was alone on my birthday worried a few people at first, like it was a bad thing. It’s not. It was how I wanted to spend it. There’s plenty of raucous partying […]

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No lube

January 22nd, 2007 · No Comments

Time: Saturday night Place: TES party at Paddles Kate showed up at the party wearing her Lolita outfit. A plaid flannel shirt and Wesco engineer boots. That’s what she wears when she wants to emulate me. When I see her dressed like that, it always makes me smile. Of course she did have to strip […]

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Tags: Bondage · Scene Report · Sex

Q & A about NYC Clubs

December 28th, 2006 · 1 Comment

Here’s a question from a reader: Q. What’s up with TES and it’s itinerant groups (Dom/Sub friends, etc)? The problem seems to be that alot of straight-up SM events/clubs don’t allow sex. That’s gotta suck, or am I just an insatiable whore? I mean, after I get spanked I like to get fucked in my […]

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