Lolita Wolf's Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don't just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Wednesday at Paddles

August 5th, 2008 · No Comments

Nika Noire and Hollie Stevens on chantasbitches.com Paddles, the BDSM club in NYC, has been opening on Wednesday for the past few months. For various reasons, I hadn’t been on a Wednesday. However, last Wednesday, I was given an opportunity to play with two really cool women. I met up with them there. There were […]

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Tags: BDSM · NYC · Reviews & Recommendations

Baltimore Trip

July 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

I joined Ace and Jocasta on a road trip to Baltimore. The main reason for our trip was the Erotic Arts Festival which was held Friday and Saturday nights. Jo set up a table there on Saturday night to sell her rope. Friday night featured Annie Sprinkle, some burlesque and the 1950’s Cheesecake Contest. Saturday […]

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Tags: BDSM · Event Reviews

TES Fest 2008 was fabulous!

July 9th, 2008 · 29 Comments

I am so proud of my home group for hosting an amazing TES Fest. I loved the new location. Having everything under one roof removed a huge stress factor for me. Booking the entire hotel allowed us to play outside and in the pool (with its “watersports area” – yes, I did). The hotel staff […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Event Reviews · Relationships · Scene Report

Shiny flutter

July 2nd, 2008 · No Comments

One of my favorite blog’s is Ruff’s Stuff. He’s one of the people I had read but never met. But then I saw him at Folsom Street East and ran up to him and introduced myself. He’s very friendly. He posted a photo of us on his blog. I am a proud slutty New Yorker […]

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Tags: Links and Stuff

Toy Review: Aluminum Suspension Ring

June 4th, 2008 · No Comments

You all know I do a lot of travel and, with the new baggage restrictions, luggage weight is always an issue. And living in NYC, it means that I travel to places via public transportation and how much my toybag weighs is an issue then, too. One of the things that weighed the most was […]

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Tags: Toy Reviews

NYC – Wednesday 5/28 – Rope Bondage

May 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Wednesday, May 28 TES Bondage SIG presents: “Little Ropes: Creative Ideas on Using Smaller Size Rope” with Jocasta What to do with thinner rope? 4mm hemp rope or 1/8″ solid braid nylon rope will be used in a variety of ways. Hair ties, arm gauntlets, hand and foot bondage, cbt, and decorative touches on breast […]

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Tags: Really Miscellaneous

My IMsL 2008 Trip – Part 6

May 19th, 2008 · No Comments

J bought me at the IMsL Celebrity Auction for $200. We agreed to play late on Friday night. So, Daddy and I played with Lily first. Daddy is keen on learning rope from me, so I have been teaching her a bit as we go along. We did a partial suspension. A lot of people […]

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Tags: Event Reviews

Rope and Spanking

May 17th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Yin photo be Michele Serchuk Yin came to Lesbian Sex Mafia last night to teach us rope bondage. The class was packed. There must have been like 75 people there. It was an overwhelming crowd for hands-on. Many more than anybody expected, but Yin taught graciously and I think everybody came away with a new […]

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Tags: BDSM

Rogueboi in the Dungeon

April 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

Nyobi Khan and Wolf Hudson on tsseduction.com Rogueboi showed up at Frolicon and we flirted a bit during the day. He wanted to play, but I wasn’t going to be holding my breath. So, it was a pleasant surprise when he later found me in the dungeon ready to play. I had him strip down […]

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Tags: BDSM · Bondage · Scene Report

Let’s break out the booze and have a ball

April 4th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Men’s Health has an article on how to last longer during sex. And the article pissed me off. Sex is not just thrusting a dick in a vagina until the dick spurts. Is that all there is? It’s certainly not good sex (for me). Try using your fingers and your mouth. Or a toy like […]

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